|
How to ask out a police officer
There is a cop that has been working on a case involving the place where I work. He comes in all the time when I’m there and seems like he’s flirting with me. Is it weird or inappropriate to friend/message him on Facebook?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
It's inappropriate to try and friend someone you don't know and same for contacting a person through messenger without them knowing who you are. You may like this guy but what you think is flirting may just be his normal demeanour. Also, if he's investigating where you work that's a conflict of interest. It could also cost you a job. I would let this go.
]
You treat him the same as any other guy. You've never dated a male whose profession made you change how you spoke to him or approached him before right. I mean something like talking in legal terms to ask out a guy whose a lawyer and so on. If he knows your name and is on facebook and you tell him you are going to send him a friend request, then it should work out okay. If you think he's flirting, he may be flirting just for fun, yes plenty of people do that even tho they already have a sweetie or are single but its too soon after a breakup to get serious. Since flirting can be for fun or serious, you will have to say something that will clue you in as to which one. You could flirt back with, "Are you flirting just to keep up your flirting skills, or are you seriously interested or am I reading you wrong. And if he says you're reading him wrong then you can say, "Oh well, your loss. There are plenty of fish in the sea.If he says he is flirting mostly for fun, not serious, again you could say, Oh well your loss or You better watch out because either I or some other woman might take you seriously.
]
No it isn't weird,you obviously like him,y not give it a go.Its not as if your stalking him or anything if dat is what you may think, ND you Duno if he likes you to, life ND decisions are risks the best part is taking those risks, so I suggest you message him and see were this goes.Because if you don't you wil spend d rest of your time thinking wat will happen if you did.. 😁
]
More Questions: |