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Am i a bad person
I need to know if im a bad person. I was recently broken up with due to something i did months ago. It was wrong and i should have been honest and not waited this long. When i was fresh into my new relationship i had a best friend. we had unfortunately dated thus my boyfriend did not feel i should be communicating with an ex. i dropped him from my life. social media, text, from hanging out. everything. just so my now ex would be OK. I accidentally forgot to delete him off of snapchat and one day he snapped me. i freaked out because i forgot i had not deleted him and i acted shady. i said it was someone else and would not show my now ex boyfriend. i panicked and deleted the app... after a week or two of begging he took me back. we broke up again 3 months ago due to how bad our relationship was progressing. we had moved in but we weren't happy and fought a lot. after we moved out and broke up i was devastated to see him partying and being happy as can be...so i downloaded snapchat again. i didn't tell him. i forgot and frankly i was scared he would judge me for it and leave again . these past 3 months we mended that relationship and everything was going so wonderful until 4 days ago he heard the snap notification. he freaked out and accused me of lying and cheating. i showed him it was another friend who was a girl but im not going to lie i freaked out remembering i had snapchat. i looked shady again even though i have not talked to any guys waiting for him to ask me to be his girlfriend again. now he has blocked me and is calling me a whore. am i so bad i was worth blocking and letting go like that? i need to know in order to not beg him to take me back anymore and just let him be.
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Why do you want a person that treats you like that? I guess the way he treats you seems okay but he sounds mentally abusive. You sound like you are the kind of partner 'they' seek out. You believe what he says and its not true. He knows you're going to beg him to come back after you did nothing wrong. It's definitely time to move on. Its okay to be alone. Focus on something that will keep your mind off relationships. Rescue an animal and that animal will love you unconditionally forever.
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