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Does she still have feelings?
Male, 21. PH
My ex and I broke up months ago (last year) and we recently had a closure in our relationship. But I still have feelings for her (she's the one who broke up with me). She made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, but these past few days she started messaging me again. We talked casually liked before. And again she made it clear that she just want someone to talk to because she doesn't have that someone who'll listen to her and that she doesn't have feelings for me.
What do I do? I'm confused. Does she still have feelings for me and that maybe she's just confused about it?
I still pray for her everyday.
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If she is insisting and making it clear from the start of talking to you again that she doesn't have feelings (the kind needed for a romantic relationship, then she doesn't have them and she is not confused.
There are two things that initially attract a person to another, sometimes its just looks and other times it's both looks and chemistry. You've heard of chemistry in people I hope. This kind of chemistry or attraction is the pure sexual kind. This chemistry is what makes the difference between being just friends and being more than friends. A person can't fake it til they make it here. You either have same or close to the same pheromones that attract, or you don't. Yes, I met a dude after my divorce who looked like a male model stepped out of a magazine. He was eye candy and yet it was just the looks that initially caught both our attention. Once we spent a little time together, we both realized neither of us had those feelings, no matter how much we had been attracted by sight only.
For a couple relationship to work there must be two things, being each others best friends and also having that romantic chemistry, and if one is missing, it won't work as the more than friends deal. So she may have feelings but these feelings are only the kind of love one has for a best friend, but not the romantic kind.
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