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I can't get him out of my head?
Posted Monday June 24 2019, 10:25 am
I just got back from a music camp at a college and I can't seem to get this person out of my head. I'm just confused about what they were trying to do or if they were even trying do get anything across.
Basically, I met hime when he lead a little group that I was in for getting to know the other campers. After I had only been at the camp for a day or so, this guy (he was kind of like a counselor) remembered that I was interested in writing music and so he wanted to introduce me to someone who just graduated with that kind of a degree. I was surprised he remembered that I wanted to do that since there were so many people there.
A little later and he came up to me and said how he heard that my talk with the grad...
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I have an intense attraction to a guy 20yrs older than me and i'm 17, help?
Posted Monday June 24 2019, 1:26 am
okay, before i start i want to ask everyone reading to take me seriously because this is something that actually drives me to the brink of madness every single ******* day. it might sound weird but rather than judging me, just give me your best advice because lord knows i need it. i am a 17 year old girl. back in december 2018, (i was still 17) my friends and i decided to go to this small restaurant we had never been to before. he (let's call him john) works there as a manager. that's when i first saw him, and right away we striked up conversation. he asked me for my name and i told him, and he has remembered it every time since. i immediately was attracted to him when i first saw him, but after that night i really wanted to see him again. ...
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How can I get a hickey to stay dark
Posted Friday June 21 2019, 7:10 am
how do you get a hickey to stay dark. im practicing on my arm and i can make them but they fade. what can i do to make them stay dark.
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Is he being legit or looking to be in any relationship?
Posted Thursday June 20 2019, 1:02 am
I am a girl in high school
I’ve been talking to a guy from my school for a while now. He has been really open and honest with me. He wants to go on a date with me. It’s been moving really fast. But he had a girlfriend a month ago. I don’t want to be a rebound if he’s just looking to have someone. So is he just being desperate wanting a date or is this real?
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Should I go out with this guy? And how to tell my mom
Posted Wednesday June 19 2019, 12:19 pm
There is a cute guy from my school that I have been texting a lot recently. He asked me if we could go out sometime and catch a movie. The only problem is, I’m not sure if my mom would let me. Me and my mom have never talked about if I am allowed to date or not, so I am scared to ask. What is a good way to figure out what she thinks about it without scaring her into saying no? And even though I don’t know him that well, if all else works out, should I go out with him?
I am about to turn fifteen and I’m in freshman year of high school. I am a girl.
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Does he like me or her?
Posted Friday June 7 2019, 11:51 pm
So apparently this guy that I like had a crush on me in the past (and might still? It was recent), but another girl is super forward about her crush on him, like leaning her head on him and stuff, etc. He usually looks pretty awkward but is still good friends with her. Him and I only recently finally started talking and texting each other. She's much more bold than me... it seems like he might be starting to like her. What do i do?? I used to be pretty cold (in order to hide I liked him), and recently started opening up a bit, and he is starting conversations and stuff now a lot more since then. But she is a lot closer to him and I don't know if he still likes/can like me again. Any tips on what to do? :')
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Why isn't he texting me back?
Posted Thursday June 6 2019, 8:20 pm
26/F
I recently reconnected with this guy who I used to be friends with. He lives in California (my hometown) and I live in NYC. The guy is in a long-term poly relationship with this woman who lets him have sex with whoever he wants. When we first got back in touch with each other again, stuff got pretty heated. Since then, we have been sexting and having phone sex over the last 6 months.
I just came back to California for a vacation, and sent him a text letting him know that I'm back in town, and asking about when we were going to hook up. It has been a few days now and he hasn't responded. What is going on?? Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore or doesn't want to see me? If he was busy but did want to me...
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My roomate has me confused
Posted Wednesday June 5 2019, 11:12 pm
Never done this before but Im in need of some outside advice(kinda complex). I just turned 20 a few months ago. I graduated early from highschool in 2018 and also from a local technical college that I attended half days (during highschool) for 2 years near a pretty good size city of over 500,000. Ive been working in a small town since I was 14 for farmers and a local lumber yard, I grew up 25 miles outside the city limits. When I was a sophomore I knew what I wanted to do for a career so I had a job lined up with a local heating and air company and after almost a year with them I was offered a real good job with another company that a good friend of mine has worked with for years (commission and hard work but pays real well and company vehi...
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Is my Husband Cheating By Secretly Texting Women?
Posted Wednesday June 5 2019, 11:12 am
Ok, so my husband has a sex addiction. Over 16 years I have learned to suffer, forgive, and let go. Part of our trust agreement is I can look through his phone at will. He has secretly emailed and texts women and deleted the messages and lied about who they were. (says he has low self esteem). I thought our life was going pretty well. UNTIL last week. He left his phone home by accident and asked me to bring it to him at work. Being a nice wife, I did. But before I did I looked through it. Sure enough, He had set up a kik account and was talking to a girl half his age.(26) He is 54, and I wish he would grow out of this behavior. The comments were all hidden or deleted. Well, confronted him and he said it was a girl from facebook marketplace ...
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I'm in love with someone much younger
Posted Tuesday June 4 2019, 1:46 pm
I'm a 30/F and I work in retail. One of my co-workers is an eighteen year old lesbian. Despite our age difference, we became fast friends. In the months we've worked together, I've become aware that I have romantic/sexual feelings for her. Over the years, I've had periodic feelings for other women, but never one so young. I tried to fight them at first, but I guess she could sense my attraction and, to my surprise, began to subtly flirt with me. Long story short, about a month ago, we went out for coffee after work and ended up kissing for the first time. We've been dating since then.
I'm really struggling with my feelings right now. Part of me feels this is wrong and that I shouldn't be involved with her like this. Part of m...
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In desperate need of advice regarding my relationship
Posted Thursday May 23 2019, 6:47 pm
29/f. I feel like I need to give a backstory, so I apologize in advance if this gets to be a little bit long. I began dating my current boyfriend, Steve, when I was abut 22 years old, give or take. Growing up, my mom and I were close. But, as soon as I became an adult, she started to abuse me horrifically. It seemed that all along, she just wanted me under her thumb and once she saw that I was establishing my own life as an adult, she couldn't accept it... including a more serious relationship. I started to realize, slowly but surely, that we were never really "friends." I was just a puppet.
So, she encouraged me to break up with him for various reasons and red flags that she believed I had missed. I believed that s...
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Do I wish him a happy birthday? or just keeping pushing forward.
Posted Thursday May 23 2019, 5:00 pm
So my crush has had a girlfriend for a month now, It sucks seeming in the hallway holding hands and smiling like it like an arrow in my heart. I have been getting over him from time to time, We have a class hour together and sit together, I just dont talk to him unless he talks to me... It hard to have a conversation with him in class, even to look at him..The atmosphere doesent feel so great.....Over text our conversation our lighthearted and kind but in person it just seems cold and tense, and no talking.
The school year just ended, the last day of school I texted him we had a little conversation, He told me he was really happy with her, I replied and the conversation was wholesome, then i deleted his number, and just b...
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Too many female friends and trust issues
Posted Monday May 13 2019, 12:50 am
Last year I got out of a super narcissistically abusive relationship, It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through and I told myself I wouldn’t date for a while. During my healing process I met someone else who’s been super good to me. I opened up about my past traumas and he was beyond understanding and patient with me, he made It clear that he liked me, but I told him I wanted to take It slow and get to know him more before we got into a relationship. He was understanding and still took me on nice get aways, showed up on my doorstep with flowers and cute notes, took me on cute dates, and complimented tf outta me. He did everything my ex didn’t do. Finally after a while, I agreed to be his girlfriend everything has been...
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my wife she was a slut but I want to keep her anyway
Posted Wednesday May 8 2019, 5:37 pm
My wife was a slut and I want every one to know but I don't want her to know it came from me I want to shame her. But I want to keep her as my wife.
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How to overcome my fear and desire for women
Posted Friday May 3 2019, 4:58 pm
English is not my first language. I'm Brazilian .
Please read all I have to tell.
I'm a 20 years old man, I know I still young but my problem with women is cursing since I was a kid.
When I were late junior high I started to approach girls and never had success. I know it's not a big problem for a teenager but I got a bit sad 'cause the other boys around me could archive them. When I was in high school i began to took some pills for my acne problem, that drug gave me some bad side-effect. The worst of them was a strong anxiety and nightmares that I've been having very often.
In this nightmare I was attacked by all the girls i found attractive, they turn themselves into female-shaped monsters like...
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Are these RED FLAGS? My new BF is making me question everything
Posted Friday April 26 2019, 4:30 pm
I'm a late-30s woman with an unsuccessful dating history. I've been seeing a man for two months that I was initially THRILLED about - he's age-appropriate (early 40s), fun, sweet, silly and handsome. But only 8 weeks into things, he has begun canceling plans often - four or five times in just the last few weeks. It's really bothering me.
He always has a legitimate excuse for cancelling - a bad cold that came on suddenly, an old friend popping into town, forgetting about tax day, etc. When we're together it feels wonderful and authentic - I don't doubt his affection! But his flakiness means we only see each other once a week, at the most. I'm almost 40 and lonely - I'm looking for something serious, not someone I see every 10...
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I dont know If I like him!
Posted Saturday April 13 2019, 10:16 pm
I have this one guy friend I hang out with a ton. I have a lot of guy friends, more than girls which is typically weird bc I'm a girl. He's super nice to me, and a ton of people in class tease us bc were r that close! Whenever some1 in class askes "Are you two dating yet?" He never denies it or agrees! I get super jealous when he has a girlfriend, but I don't know if I have a crush! Please help!
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2 year hookup
Posted Saturday April 13 2019, 11:00 am
Hi! So I would just like some feedback on my current situation. Im 26 he’s 26. About two years ago I matched with this guy on bumble we really hit it off. The first time we hung out I went over his house we didn’t hook up we just enjoyed our time together. Months go by and we will Snapchat here and there but that’s it. It’s mostly sexting. We ended up hooking up one New Years and it was literally the best sex I ever had. When we are together it is this amazing bond and it’s great but once I leave his house it’s like I don’t exist again. I told one of my friends obviously on how much I like this guy and she went and followed him on instagram and now they like each other’s pics constantly. I tried expressing my concerns to her...
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Secret Drug use
Posted Thursday April 11 2019, 2:38 pm
I have been in a 15 year old relationship. My 54 year old husband has been caught doing many things that I have let go but eat away at me still. He went on a 7 day trip to Vegas Yesterday. The night before, he said suddenly at an odd time, I'm going to go the gym to get in one last workout. He was gone 2 hours.
Turns out he lied. He went to a relatives house and bought drugs (adderall). This is actually a shock because I didn't know he was doing this. (He swears this is the first time) I said why? He said he feels tired all the time and doesn't want to let his friends down as they are in a tournament after winning first place locally. I FREAKED. I am losing all feelings for him now. I resent him and his lies. He is a good man most of...
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Exfriend dating my crush...how do i get over him and not hate this girl.
Posted Monday April 8 2019, 8:48 pm
So my crush has a girlfriend, whom I was friends with through middle school who would isolate one person out of the friend group to herself and needed attention a lot. Anyways I know this girl for about 5 years( now were sophomores) throughout high school we separated and were not friends anymore, and I felt relieved that she wasn't my friend anymore (I know sounds horrible) but this year we started talking a bit since my sister would force me to go to these outings with a group with her.
Now she is dating my crush, that I liked, she doesn't know this. They literally just meet on a group chat. even the girl admitted about two weeks ago to another friend of mine that she didn't like him like that, but he asked her out..... I'm just sh...
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