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i love eating pizza. its my favorite food ever. i like to put everything on it. like everything. like green bell peppers, onions, tomatoes, green and black olives, mushroom, pineapple, spinach, canadian bacon and ham, sausage, and pepperoni. and lots of cheese too. is this bad to eat? my mom said pizza is fattening but i dont know because i get like a lot of my food pyramid in by eating it like that right?
You DO get a lot of your food pyramid in by eating everything you do on the pizza however pizza can be bad for you if you eat too much of it. Try decreasing the amount you eat just by a little while still eating all the stuff you wont on it. Eating all the onions and mushrooms, peppers, etc is very good to eat with it, as you should be eating those things anyway, so just cut down a tad bit and you should be fine. (congrats by the way of being able to eat all that stuff on your pizza, i wish i could force myself to like peppers and onions and stuff that was actually good for me haha)
Hope I could help. (:
--- Taylor
so i have a pen pal, and he is so interesting and i don't know, i admire him, his thoughts, the way he see's things, i want to just look through his eyes, i always tried to see things the way he see's it, beautiful, take nothing for granted, haha i don't know! so there's a problem, he lives all the way in germany! this probably isn't love, but i haven't felt this way since the last person i loved..and it actually was love in vain, i loved him, but he didn't want me! and for years i never got over him, until i talked to this guy! writing letters to each other, talking about so many things, i just want to be there, i know meeting a person and knowing them is different from the letters, it can just all be an illusion, its aggravating! i have no clue what to do with these emotions, i just have no control! i wonder why i fall in love someone who is really not possible to be with..ughhh!!! i just don't know what to do. i guess i just need some words of wisdom! lol
Well meeting someone new is always fun, even if he does live a long ways away. Talking to him seems very important to you, however you did say yourself that you are aware meeting someone and talking through letters and to complete opposites. My advice, be aware that it would probably never work out relationship wise, and have fun with it. Enjoying talking to him and sharing things with him, and you could possibly even bring up a relationship later on, way later on. As for now, realize that you are just pen pals and enjoy his letters. (:
Hope I could help. (:
---Taylor
I'm not sure what category to actually put this in but I figured this one will work.
Alright so this is my 3rd year in college and last year i roomed with these 2 girls in our dorm room and this year we are living together again in an apartment. The two girls i'm living with have been friends since our first year in college and i didn't hang out with them or talk to them much our first year. we started to talk more during our second year in school and i switched into their room. anyways, now we are in our third year of school and things are different than they were last year. i feel left out because those two are so close since they have been friends for about 3 years now. they got together over the summer sometimes because they live within an hours drive from each other while i live a good 3 hours from them so i only saw them 1 time over the summer. but now i just feel like they are really close and i'm not as close with them and we don't really have much in common.
my other two friends are transferring to my college next year and i'd much rather live with them because we get along really well i can talk to them about anything and i feel like i'd enjoy myself more if i lived with people that i had things in common with and that i didn't feel left out with. i just don't feel comfortable living around them really. sometimes i feel like i have to watch what i say, think about things before i say it.
the problem i have is how do i bring up the fact that i don't want to live with my current roommates anymore? i want to still be friends with them and i don't want to make anything awkward by me telling them that i want to live with other people. i just feel like if things are going to continue going how they are that we'll end up getting in fights and end up not being friends at all.
Just be upfront with them, but not rude. Make it clear to them that you still would love to be friends and hang out more but you would feel more comfortable with people you have been friends with for a while. If they seem to have so much in common then tell them that you are sure it would work out for the both of you and that yall should really all hang out sometimes. If they are really friends they will understand, which I am sure they will see it how you do as well.
Hope I could help.
--Taylor
ohk so there is these 2 boys i both like in all of my classes . and they both wanna be with me . but its hard , there names are ronnie and eirik . ronnie has brown hair and is so fun and sweet . eirik has blond hair . and is hilarious and cute . i dont no what to do . ronnie is his self around me no matter what and eirik seems a little shy sometimess . uhh please help .
Well Ronnie being himself around you only proves he can adjust to people more quickly. But I would not jump to conclusions, you might be missing out on another great guy who just does not adjust to people so quickly. I say really spend some time with each of them and get to know them more. Try to break the ice with Eirik while enjoying Ronnie's company as well. Once you know them more and more, your decision will come to you.
Good Luck.! (:
---Taylor
ohk well im 13 , and im a sexual person with both genders . i feel as if im a slut but i cant help not to do stuff with people . and i hate it when people call me a slut . like if they were sexually active they would prollly be the same way . sex feels great . it sucks tho that im only 13 and i already had sex . im moore mature than most girls in my grade . i have all older friends that are in 11th 10th grades and so on. can you guys help me thanks (:
Well it is not slutty to explore new things, however at thirteen it is not the best decision to be having sex with multiple people. Exploring who you are attracted to is one thing but regardless of how mature you are (and I know you probably hate hearing it) but you should not be having sex at thirteen. I myself lost my virginity when I was fourteen to the guy I am still with three years later and I must say I got lucky. You should really wait till you find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, and then cross that road later on in life. Enjoy being thirteen. (:
Hope I could help. (:
---Taylor
I've had a headache for 7 days now and it really sucks. At first it was like a migraine and it calmed down to just a hurting headache pain and now it's back to a migraine and I'm so sick. I don't know why I get headaches but having one for a whole week seems excessive to me. Is this normal to have a headache for more than just 1 day or 2 days? Should I just keep taking aspirin and hope it goes away soon enough?
Having a headache for one week straight is not normal, however if it is a migraine asprin is not good to take. My mom is known to get migraines every so often and asprin makes them worse, as well as makes them last longer. Try switching to a different medicine and if it doesnt go away within the next couple of days go see a doctor. It could be the asprin making them last longer, or it could be something else. So if the change of medicine does not make it go away within a couple of days I would deff. see a doctor.
Good Luck, and feel better.! (:
---Taylor
I dyed my hair red the other night and it was so pretty and beautiful and shined. I was happy with it. Well, when I wash my hair I can see a bunch of red coloring coming out and going down the drain. I even ruined a white towel because the dye was running out of my hair. My hair already losing that shine and the red color but my hair color was permanent. Why won't the hair dye stay in my hair? The color just won't hold at all apparently. Why? & I'm a natural brunette if that matters?
Well red has always been known to fade out easily anyway. Thats why people always have to go back every so often to get it re done. As for washing out that soon and completely fading out maybe your hair is really thin. If you are using the wal mart dye then you might have to go to a professional because they use stronger chemical. Also what I have to do since I am a natural brunette too, in order to go for the blonder look, I have to go one shade lighter at a time, that way it wont fade out. Try both.
Hope I could help. (:
---Taylor
I've been having some problems with nose congestion while singing, any time i start to sing my nose slowly start to congest and it's killing me! I love to sing but if i sing for about 10 minutes my nose gets all stopped up and i start sounding pretty bad.
Now i can't blow this out of my nose, I've tried many many times. And i have problems blowing my nose anyways because of that little flap at the roof of your mouth in the very back by your throat that connects your nasal cavities to your throat, any time i try to blow my nose it gets pushed up really fast and slaps shut and hurts. I was wondering if this do be part of the reason why i get nose congestion while singing? I don't sing threw my nose though, that is a question i've gotten before when asking this same question. And help would be MUCH appreciated! Thanks
First off, do not continue to blow your nose. If it causes pain then it will only make the congestion worse. Try the nasel congestion spray or the nose inhaler stuff that you sniff in order to clear your nose passages. I sang for 7 years in chorus, and as part of concert solos and I had the same problem. The spray never did help, although it may work for you. However, the inhaler thing worked tremendously. Just use it before you sing and it should last throughout. You can get them at rite aid or cvs, or basically any drug store for like 5-8 dollars. It really helped me. (:
Hope I could help. (:
---Taylor
Im 18/f hes 18 too.
We've worked together for about a year now at a restaurant. he cooks, i dish wash and waitress.After a month of working together i said "we should hang out this weekend" but he said " i work all weekend sorry"...which was true, he worked everyday long shifts. for the next few months we talk at work,nothing to deep, i always laugh when we start talking and smile. a week ago i called him and left a voicemail asking if he wanted to go to the movies. he texted me later saying he couldn't today but we should go another time. i let him know he worked way more than me and to let me know when hes free.at work we didnt mention anything about me asking him out, and he didnt say anything about hanging out another time. he seems pretty shy but we get along super well. all i want is to hang out with him more, get to know him but if it doesnt go well work would be awkward. all of our co workers always say "when you guys going on your first date" and stuff like that. we always go along with it and laugh.
i was planning on walking out to our cars one night after work and just tell him i like him, and ask him if hes into me at all.but thats kind of blunt, i dont wanna freak him out, but i really like him, and he wont make a move, even though he seems to flirt with me a lot.
what should i do?
Well I would not come out just yet and say you like him because that really might just freak him out. Just tell him that you are interested in hanging out and let him make the next move. If he claims he wants to hang and obviously he works a lot then wait for him to make the plans. If he never does, then he might not be interested like he says. Enjoy being friends until he makes that move. But after hanging out, if all goes well, then you should definetly make your feelings clear to him. (:
Good Luck.!!
--Taylor
Can a women get pragnent if guy let their sperms in their assh?
No, a girl can not get pregnant that way, however if some accidently enters through the other way, there is always a possibility. Just be careful, but the only way a girl can get pregnant is if it enters within the way of their reproductive system. (:
---Taylor
I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
Ok well first off, you obviously care about this person so do not go off and do anything hasty like break up with him. If he was hiding important things then that would be different but as for this situation, do not beat around the bush. Sit him down and make it clear to him that you know exactly what WAS on there, and that he made it private. Ask him why he insisted on hiding it from you, and if you do not feel comfortable with him posting things on the internet about you both then make sure he knows that. Talk to him about it and see how he reacts. I can not really give you anymore advice until you find out how he reacts to you feeling uncomfortable. Just sit him down and talk to him about it. Hopefully things will go well for the two of you. (:
Let me know how things go.!
--Taylor
Okay asked this before and here is more details. Is it okay to call a celebrity who is semi-retired and reportedly loves his fans? Im no stalker and got advice from someone who's a fan of this person as am I and this person and said to try and add your info to see if the person calls and added your info and all from another fan of this celeb and the person said they got a phone call from this person by doing so without asking. Went ahead and done the advice but wondering if if I should call or wait to see if the person calls? Found the number to call some time ago and just took someone elses advice to do a letter which was suggested. Should i wait or call? I asked around and it's 50/50. LOL I need to know this thanks!
Well, the person is probably busy, as being a celebrity, or semi retired celebrity. I believe you should put any info you feel safe doing out where he can see it, and wait for him to contact you. The letter is certainly a good idea because that gives him a chance to reply on his own time, however sometimes celebs dont have the time to respond to an unexpected phone call, as I am sure he gets plenty. I vote, just wait for him. (:
My hair is pretty much burgundy .. it was called light medium intense red . It's dark dark burgundy/red . I'm gna dye it a lil more burgundy so it shows more . And I want to dye the bottom layer .. so what color what look good underneath ?? Also my skin is caramel.
I say a dark, ashy blonde. If your skin is caramel and your hear is burgendy it would look nice to have an under color that brightens everything up. Try a darkish, kind of dirty blonde. It would look great I am sure. (:
Good Luck.!
---Taylor
well im dating somone and i havnt kissed tham cause i dont know how...im 14....
uhhh this is kindahh embarrasing...but i need tips on how to kiss^^ thankies!
Again, the person first person was right. The kissing part just comes naturally, once you kiss him you will immediately know what to do. But you have to make sure this guy is worth sharing your first kiss with. Most people (including myself) have wasted their first kiss experience on someone that was not even worth it. Mine for example, I dont even speak to, nor have any idea where or when the first kiss happened. Make sure its with someone worth sharing it with, no matter what. If he fits this catergory, go for it.! It will all come to you girl. :P
Good Luck.!!
--Taylor
Im 17/f , & I will be 18 in Nov. Michael is 16 & will be 17 in Oct. He is the youngest guy I have dated. We have been dating for 4 months. He's my first serious relationship I have had since my ex Thomas in 06'. When he first asked me out, I said yes, but I felt like I made the wrong decision cause I was scared of what people would think of him cause he isn't the cutest thing in the world, but he's sweet. I gave him a chance, cause I didn't want to be shallow & miss out on a good guy. After 2 months, I told Michael that I had an ex (Thomas) coming over to see my family cause he was really close to them, & Michael didn't care at all; he trusts me. Thomas & I sat in his truck just bringing up our past, & it brought back a lot of memories. He said he still loved me, & that when im 18 he was going to ask me back out, cause he is 21 & his parents weren't okay with the age difference. He was aware about my new boyfriend. We didn't do anything, NOT EVEN HUG. After he left, I started having mixed emotions about if i wanted to be with Michael or not, so I talked to him about it, & explained how I felt to him; days went by & I had a feeling inside me that I felt guilty, but I had nothing to feel guilty over. I finally broke up with him; I felt happier; but than again I felt as if something was missing. When I left him, he cried & was very hurt; we talked & got back together cause we both thought it was Thomas's presents that I was feeling this way; and we also thought that it was the fact that we barely hung out with each other. So we started hanging out alot more & the mixed emotions went away. We had sex once a couple of weeks later. Ever since then we have been fine until Friday; I told him I wasn't in love with him but I do love him; he said he was in love with me. My mixed emotions are coming back. I brought it to his attention again, & he says its cause Im on my period, cause last mixed emotions happen while I was on my period also. I feel as if our relationship is boring. We have tried new things, but our relationship doesn't get any better to me. When we hang its like we are bestfriends, but I know I like him as more. Looks aren't everything, hes a good guy which makes me like him more.We use to be able to talk on the phone for hours, & now I dont like talking to him any longer than maybe 10 minutes on the phone cause he irritates me. The littlest things he does gets on my nerves, & I don't understand why. I use to love to kiss him, but now I don't. I have no problem cuddling with him, but its only when I want too. I dont want to hurt him, cause he has treated me the best that I have ever been treated & he had a rough past where people would just walk out of his life & I dont want to be like that. Sometimes I find him immature, even though he really isn't. He just doesn't think before he speaks. He has tried to change himself to keep me, but I dont want him being something he's not. I know its not lust, cause we aren't all over each other, & I dont like doing sexual things with him. I just really don't know what to do.I've been thinking that maybe it's the fact that I like the idea of having a boyfriend, but Im not too sure. I don't want to break up with him, and than regret it, but I dont want to stay with him just to get him more attached to me and than hurt him more. Its like when I break up with him, I feel heartbroken & I want him back, but when I take him back, I dont want to be with him. Im lost, and confused.
It really sounds to me, I hate to say, that you are hung up on your ex. That is not completely a bad thing. I had this guy, I dated him for a year and six months. We broke up and I dated this other guy. It was ok at first, but I was always thinking about my ex the entire time. It was like your experience, tried everything to make the emotions go away, but they never did. I finally broke up with him and tried things again with my ex. We are together as I type this, and have been together going on a year and a half. (almost three years altogether). We are very happy, so maybe try things out with your ex again and if you still have mixed emotions then its time to take a break from both of them all together until you figure out what you want. But you never know, maybe those emotions towards your ex are there for a reason. (:
Hope I helped.
---Taylor
Ok so when I wear a bathing suit or a tight shirt i feel super concious cause i am really curvy.I am 38" around my chest then 23" for my waist then 42" around my butt.I feel like i am being stared at I get told it makes me look "sexy" But i just feel super concious.Any advice??
thnx in advance!:)
TINK2359
There is nothing wrong with being curvy and it is true that most guys go for that. My advice in order to make you less self concious is to wear clothes that emphasize your curves but at the same time make you look more slim in the places that you need to look slim in. Skinny jeans are an absolute must.! They make your legs look longer and slimmer but they emphasize the butt area as well. V neck shirts that DO NOT come down to low are very good too. You have to make sure they don't come down to low because you do not want to emphasize your chest too much. Wear looser shirts too, like mini dresses over a pair of leggings or skinny jeans would look amazing. (:
Hope I helped.!
---Taylor
Im 18 male she is 21 female. So basically over the summer I fell in love with a girl i met in early july and finally asked her to be my girlfriend in august. We live 2 hours away and neither of us can drive. I spent 3 weeks in August at her house (she lives alone) and we had an amazing time. Although we argued a bit and stuff cause we dont know eachother that well. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a few years and I guess still has feelings for him or whatever. I only asked her out while I was there because I didnt know when we would see eachother again due to school for us. I told her multiple times i understand if she wants to say no right now because she still has feelings for her ex. I asked her out and a few days later she said yes. I truly love her with all my heart and give 100% into our relationship and I feel like she doesnt. She tells me she loves me and cares about me alot I know she does but sometimes it doesnt seem like it. While I was with her she hurt me a few times minorly but I told her right away. Anyways Im back home now and we are 2 hours away and I miss her like crazy. All I do is think about her and want to talk to her. I think I might come off to strong towards her its just I really deeply love her but I deffinally know she is not crying herself to sleep like I am. So My questions are. 1. How can I make our relationship better. 2. How can I stop missing her as much and calming myself down?.
Well I agree with the other person about it takes two people to make the relationship better. You can not make the relationship better alone although you can do your part. If you do not get it in return then there is nothing you can do. About the coming off to strong, maybe you are in this case just seeing how she just broke up with her boyfriend of a few years. Since you both are two hours away there is absolutely no reason for you not to miss her however, realize that you both have seperate lives. Have fun with your friends to keep yourself from getting to worked up over missing her, but thinking about her is not a bad thing. Just do things that interests you in order to get your mind off of it. Even people that are in a relationship that live in the same house need time to their selves every once in a while.
Hope I could help. (:
---Taylor
Well in 8th grade, I banged the back of my elbow hard on a wooden chair. I'm in 10th now and my elbow still Clicks & cracks when I move it in different ways. It does not hurt at all, nor does it affect the use of my arm. What can I do to fix it and how long might it last? I never thought much of it, but now I'm wondering if it will start bothering me as I get older. I'm kind of worried about the cracking of it. Is there any type of: stretch, massage,Food, motion, twists, pulls, hits, or techniques to stop the cracking & clicking?
Well about two years ago I dislocated my knee and it was pretty bad. It tore two ligaments in my knee, as well as chips the knee cap. The cartilage where I had fell had worn away causing it to crack, or pop whenever it moved even the slightest bit. No pain or anything, just weird sounds. Your elbow may or may not be a different case however cracking and popping, for any bone, is causing by the wearing of the cartilage. Try calcium pills, or any way to get a lot of calcium in order to build up the cartilage around the bone. This will probably help, but it will probably crack or pop every once in a while from now on. But this helped my knee popping a great deal. I hope it works for you. (:
---Taylor