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I am 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together on off for almost four years and have had a sexual relationship for pratically all of that time.
We're really great together but we aren't compatable sexually AT ALL. We have great chemistry and the lead up to sex is fantastic but the act itself is awful.
For the last year I've been questioning my sexuality. I've thought I'm bisexual for a few years, although I haven't discussed this with my boyfriend - it doesn't really come up does it. Lately though, i've becoming way more... that way inclined.
So basically, I'm unsure about my sexuality, and I don't see how I'm supposed to figure it out because I can't experiment without breaking up with my boyfriend. I really dont want that. And besides, I can't really mention it to my boyfriend until I know - because what if I'm wrong?
I would like to be in a relationship with a girl I think. But maybe a bit later in life. My family would kill me lol.
HELP? (link)
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girl I got the same problem except I've been with my bf for five years now and I have kissed a girl twice....but that's as far as I went and the sex with my bf is great! but at times I imagine of being with a girl and am still not sure which sex I'd prefer! but I mean I guess only you can tell.
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this is kind of embarassing,but i wear a collared shirt to school (it's part of our uniform) i wear them from aeropastle and well i have stains under my armpits.I put alot of deoderant on so im thinking that's the problem but i dont know how to get those type of stains out of clothes.I tried washing the shirts but the stain is still there under my shirts.I hate having to throw the stained ones away and buying new shirts.Ive recently stopped putting on so much deoderant but i was to get the stains out of my old shirts.Any ideas? (link)
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hey there you could also try a spray called awesome I use that for just about anything just spray it on let it sit for about ten mins then wash it as you normally would ...hope that helps good luck
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well me and my boyfriend will be going out for a year as of february 26, i know its early to be thinking about it now but i dont want to do anythinng last minute, dont say have sex because its not like we cant do that whenever. i want to do something we cant normally do,and something memorable, i live in new york. any ideas? (link)
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how about skydiving together? that would be a thrill and memorable if either of you haven't done that before.
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what free place can i get tested at to make sure i am clean and dont have any disease? i dont think i do at all but i want to know to be sure.
i am 18.female. (link)
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hey, there should be a local free clinic wherever you live. you might want to call 411 or google it you will find one
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what is the best straightening iron/ device for my hair. i have wavy hair that is curly too, but its mostly wavy when its fully dry. money is no object really, but can you include the ammount? my problem is that everytime i straighten my hair, its never really shiny, its kinda like dead, no matter how little i keep the temperature. I've been thinking on the infiniti steam straightener, whats your opinion? (link)
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my hair is super curly and poofy and frizzy and the best I've found outta many I've bought would be the onyx by herstyler its about 150 bucks and on ebay about thirty bucks. you could pass it thru your hair once doing it correctly of course and it leaves your hair shiny super straight and flat and non frizzy!!! theres no need to use serum for flyaways cause it just leaves your hair perfect!!!!
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is it normal after sex for like.. your vagina to throb like it feels like theres a heart beat and that lasts for a couple hours?? (link)
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yes its normal..but it usually happens to me after sex when I'm still excited and want some more!!! lol, so
take advantage of the mood so to say .....
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Is it possible a penis could be too large to fit inside a vaginia? (link)
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length wise probably yes it could be too long but I don't think width wise...I mean just think a baby comes out of there!!!!!!!!
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does anyone know any scene/emo stores? i'm not a poser i'm just tired of having the same shirt as everyone else (link)
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hot topic, its a great store and has a lot of cute emo/goth/stuff.
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My parents are always yelling. Sometimes at each other and other times at me and my sister. But its like there can never be a moment of peace in my house. Ya I yell back but thats because they never listen to me they just yell and when I try to talk to them then ignor me then they want to know whats going on in my life when I dont want them pokeing at my life. WHAT DO I DO!?!! (link)
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my family is always yelling and exaggerating for every reason. luckily I stay with my son and his father now but anyhow, what I would do is just try to agree with everything or try to reason or compromise anything but make it worst cause then it will nevere ever stop. you could talk to your parents how you feel...I know for some people that may be hard or almost impossible but please try and if not then just ignore when they yell at eachother , keep occupied with something positive. when they yell at you try to just fix the problem without fighting back cause it will just get worst.
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i always see girls whose eye make-up looks SO pretty, but it hardly looks like they have anything on. maybe just mascara and a littttle eyeliner on the bottom. whenever i try to use only a little bit like that, it backfires and seriously doesnt look like i have hardly anything on, and my eyes look nothing like theirs and just look bad. i usually do my eye makeup kinda heavy. not overdone but it's so my eyes are played up, and even then i sometimes still dont like it. what am i doing wrong here? any tips? and dont send me to websites please, i'd love personal advice. (link)
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you could also try applying a shimmery eyeshadow cream and mascara which loox really cute light pink maybe for a more natural look with light lip gloss. or for a played up look dark blue eyeshadow and blk eyeliner on top with dark mascara ...super sexy.
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Okay, well the guy that i like A LOT told this girl in my class he likes me and my two best friends which is horrible. One of those friends flirted with him a lot until i confronted her about it and then she quit a little but she still did it some. But anyways, she is really outgoing and i am kinda worried that because he might pick her because she always talks to him and stuff. I know she would never go out with him because she knows i like him and she is my best friend but just the fact. I'm not worried about the other one because she never flirted with him and always try's to give me private moments with him but the other one always pulls up a chair whenever it's me and him alone and he usually talks to her because he is super outgoing and likes flirting with other girls but that is just his personality. I just feel like i am in competition because i have never liked a guy this much before and i really want it to work out. I try to talk to him every chance i get but it's hard sometimes because i;m in class but i don't know what to do.
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try to find something you both like, like a sport or hobby and try to share that to spend more time with him and let him see that you like him. and your ''best friend'' if she is really your friend , you should completely tell her how much you like this guy and she should really lay off cause that is so not cool.
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Okay so, Steven was dating Becky but Becky didn't like him and yes i flirt with Steven. But its steven and i never knew I was until it was pointed out to me [[IM A HORRIBLE GIRL.]] and when they broke up me and Steven started talking a lot more. Well I donno now its kinda weird. Not like he's telling me anything really personal but just things he usto tell Becky.
And then he's just like "oh.. I have to go I have to get up early in the morning, but If I could I would talk to you all night." and its like Oh Interesting.. --yeh diffiently played that smooth.
And then he asks me like what I think about him. Well im a horrible girl, cant accomplish the girl things of life.. I hate shopping Im as bad as my brothers. I ust suck at being a girl. I was like your a really good friend steven I donno what Id do without you.
That [I Guess.] wasnt what Steven wanted to hear... and I donno. I flirt when I dont mean to, I can't flirt and donno when Im saposed to. I donno maybe I do like Steven. I talk to him like every night and we hang out all the time but Im not trying to sound like a complete retard but Im not usually the kind of girls he goes for. He likes blondes, under 150 shorter then him kind of girls. I have brown hair, a fatty, and the same height. I can also probably take him for about 5 minutes in a fight... =] But I dono im not stevens type. I dont even know If i like Steven but i like talking to him... We can have the funnest time doing absolutely nothing, and he loves killing me in Halo3. --Im girly when It comes to video games. A lot of people thought we were dating, but I kept explining he was dating Becky... and they all took it like Ohh hes just trying to get closer to you. Well he doesnt need becky to do that. but Whatever.
The conversations I have with Steven range from pointless to like Never discussed matters and i told my friend and she said that Steven likes me because only guys that like girls are willing to talk to girls about that kind of stuff... but.
Now that i have the thought of him liking me, and me not sure for my feelings. I dont know how to act around him. I mean usually ill have my legs on him, ready to kick him when he beats me, and will mess with his brother about how much I love Steven. I would usually wrestle with him... but now on the phone. its just weird.
What Do I Do?? (link)
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well put into perspective what is more important to you. is becky a good friend of yours that you wouldn't want to hurt? the relationship with you and steven is it worth jeopardizing cause if you guys do start dating and things don't work out then you guys won't have that anymore. or if you really are interested in him then maybe you should let him know.Do what you feel is right.
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Well i go out alot and i usually go with a guy..
but for some reason i usually always end up paying for the guy and myself.. and i don't mind sometimes but all the time..? or just myself ..
i geuss it depends on the guy i choose but you as a girls.. does your man or "guy friend" pay for you or you pay for yourself? (link)
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I never ever have to pay.. whether going out with a friend or a boyfriend or date whatever...he is a guy!!! of course I offer to pay or to chip in but never has a guy let me pay as much as I insist. don't keep that habit girl, it aint right!!! well not all the time.
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Alright so i love big lips. My lips are already full, i just like that swollen look. I have lip plump lip gloss stuff and it kinda works but it never lasts. any home ideas, like things that will make my lips swell? like...mint,pepper,anything. thanks. (link)
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try sallys lip plumping clear lip gloss...I use it and it is wonderful. it gives you this tingling sensation on your lips so you really know its working and it definitely makes your lips look ''swollen'' you can apply it underneath or over any color lip gloss or lipstick but I just use it by itself and it looks great! you can also apply it then apply a color and then apply the plumper over. another trick is using a nude colored lipliner around the outter part of your lips.
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i'm either living what 90% of other women on the planet go through, or there's something wrong.
sex is pretty much uncomfortable for me. the first couple of times hurt, as was to be expected, but after that, despite trying out different positions, it still varies between uncomfortable and neutral. no matter how turned on i am when my boyfriend and i start, it always just ends up with me going through the motions and not getting anything out of it.
is it just that the media tries to make you believe that all you need is a dick moving in and out of you and you're set? i know that most women have no idea where their g-spot is or if they even have one, and i guess it's wishful thinking to hope that sex will automatically 'find' it. i have a great sex life when it comes to everything else, but actual intercourse (sorry, i sound like a teacher) is where i draw a blank. is it normal that i feel nothing and should just consider myself lucky that i find all other types of sex so great? or am i pretty much screwed (no pun intended)? (link)
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have your partner try different things while having actual intercourse like rubbing your clitoris a little bit or kissing on your neck or ears even breast at some point or basically anything else that you like . I didn't get anything out of having sexual intercourse for awhile, I perfered oral sex or just foreplay but now I try to incorporate the things I enjoy that really excite me into intercourse and that worked for me.
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Okay, so I really enjoy the 'cowgirl' position during sex, but for some reason reverse cowgirl is very uncomfortable for me. It's a shame, because I know I'd like it otherwise. Whenever we try that way, it puts a huge amount of pressure on my bladder and just isn't any fun. :/ I was just curious if anyone else has experienced this, and if there are any slight adjustments in position that might make it easier? (link)
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I've had the same problem and I just tried positioning myself till I was comfortable. you can try placing your hands in front of you on the bed to kind of hold yourself up as your on top of him so that you can control how far it goes in and its positioning or you can try leaning back with your hands on the sides and slide up and down to your comfort.
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my boyfriend and i talk on the phone A LOT. mostly because he wants to. i have never been the one to talk on the phone a whole lot. but there will be awkward silences and stuff. and he always is the one to think of stuff to talk about. can somebody give me ideas of what to talk about BESIDES: what we want to do next time we see eachother, what we want in life, our past, and what we did that day! i mean. theres not much else to talk about. and sometimes he will be like "baby i'm horny" and it gets all awkward and i don't know what to say to that to make it now awkward! and i can't stop him from saying that because according to him he should "be able to tell his girlfriend his mental and physical needs without it being awkward". so i asked him what does he want me to say to that kind of stuff and he doesn't give me a straight answer.
thanks! (link)
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I used to be the same way and still am when it comes to talkin dirrty on the phone...I've improved by talking about simple things when you can't think of anything to say. tell him what you've been up to ask him what he's been up to. when he says he's horny...u can simply respond ''really or mhhhmm'' he will respnd with a yes and you can simply say ''we will see about that later in person'' or something similar to suggest you just want to act on it and are not comfortable talking dirty or having phone sex...which I hate!
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i went to florida on vacation and i wanted to bring something back for my boyfriend, i wanted to make him something out of shells...any ideas? (link)
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if he is a smoker...you could try making an ashtray take a goodsize clam shell and maybe glue tiny shells around it be creative...I went on vacation and seen beautiful ones
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okay so this is kinda embarrassing but... it always feels like i have to pee during sex and i get so scared that im going to that it no longer feels good and thats all i think about and i cant just relax.. so i no it could be he is hitting my g spot because it has happened before and i did orgasm but then another time when i was just masturbating it happened and i actually peed to.. and ever since then i cant enjoy sex for the fear im going to.. .what should i do??? (link)
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I agree with heybbby...pee before having sex just in case.I myself felt the urge to pee but while receiving oral pleasure from my partner(definitely feared peeing on him!) and got all tensed up that I basically killed my climax and this was going on for quite awhile until I just took the chance and the outcome was me squirting not actually peeing.so just relax and enjoy yourself!
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