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Akward.
Okay so, Steven was dating Becky but Becky didn't like him and yes i flirt with Steven. But its steven and i never knew I was until it was pointed out to me [[IM A HORRIBLE GIRL.]] and when they broke up me and Steven started talking a lot more. Well I donno now its kinda weird. Not like he's telling me anything really personal but just things he usto tell Becky.
And then he's just like "oh.. I have to go I have to get up early in the morning, but If I could I would talk to you all night." and its like Oh Interesting.. --yeh diffiently played that smooth.
And then he asks me like what I think about him. Well im a horrible girl, cant accomplish the girl things of life.. I hate shopping Im as bad as my brothers. I ust suck at being a girl. I was like your a really good friend steven I donno what Id do without you.
That [I Guess.] wasnt what Steven wanted to hear... and I donno. I flirt when I dont mean to, I can't flirt and donno when Im saposed to. I donno maybe I do like Steven. I talk to him like every night and we hang out all the time but Im not trying to sound like a complete retard but Im not usually the kind of girls he goes for. He likes blondes, under 150 shorter then him kind of girls. I have brown hair, a fatty, and the same height. I can also probably take him for about 5 minutes in a fight... =] But I dono im not stevens type. I dont even know If i like Steven but i like talking to him... We can have the funnest time doing absolutely nothing, and he loves killing me in Halo3. --Im girly when It comes to video games. A lot of people thought we were dating, but I kept explining he was dating Becky... and they all took it like Ohh hes just trying to get closer to you. Well he doesnt need becky to do that. but Whatever.
The conversations I have with Steven range from pointless to like Never discussed matters and i told my friend and she said that Steven likes me because only guys that like girls are willing to talk to girls about that kind of stuff... but.
Now that i have the thought of him liking me, and me not sure for my feelings. I dont know how to act around him. I mean usually ill have my legs on him, ready to kick him when he beats me, and will mess with his brother about how much I love Steven. I would usually wrestle with him... but now on the phone. its just weird.
What Do I Do??
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the first thing you have to do is decide whether or not you actually like steven. just make sure you're not telling yourself you like him just because he might like you.
my motto is that honesty is the best policy. so first be honest with yourself, and then sit steven down and be honest with him. if you do like him, great! you should tell him! but if you don't, just explain to him very nicely that you don't feel that way about him. tell him that you value him as one of your close friends or maybe even that you love him like a brother. and don't let anyone's feelings come in the way of that.
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well put into perspective what is more important to you. is becky a good friend of yours that you wouldn't want to hurt? the relationship with you and steven is it worth jeopardizing cause if you guys do start dating and things don't work out then you guys won't have that anymore. or if you really are interested in him then maybe you should let him know.Do what you feel is right.
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