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For the past two to three months I've been having nightmares. Sometimes they're just off the wall, other times they're about things that are on my mind. I get enough sleep, but I sleep really late. I eat well and exercise. I don't get stressed out, but my dreams are always about underlying thoughts that bother me.
What can I do so I can just get a peaceful night's rest for once? (link)
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why don't you try analyzing your dreams? take details from them and try to connect them to your life to make them make more sense. just tell yourself that none of these issues are worth worrying about.
also, if you believe in this kind of thing, try a dream catcher. even if you don't believe, tell yourself you actually do think it catches all your nightmares. it's worth a try!
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Okay so, Steven was dating Becky but Becky didn't like him and yes i flirt with Steven. But its steven and i never knew I was until it was pointed out to me [[IM A HORRIBLE GIRL.]] and when they broke up me and Steven started talking a lot more. Well I donno now its kinda weird. Not like he's telling me anything really personal but just things he usto tell Becky.
And then he's just like "oh.. I have to go I have to get up early in the morning, but If I could I would talk to you all night." and its like Oh Interesting.. --yeh diffiently played that smooth.
And then he asks me like what I think about him. Well im a horrible girl, cant accomplish the girl things of life.. I hate shopping Im as bad as my brothers. I ust suck at being a girl. I was like your a really good friend steven I donno what Id do without you.
That [I Guess.] wasnt what Steven wanted to hear... and I donno. I flirt when I dont mean to, I can't flirt and donno when Im saposed to. I donno maybe I do like Steven. I talk to him like every night and we hang out all the time but Im not trying to sound like a complete retard but Im not usually the kind of girls he goes for. He likes blondes, under 150 shorter then him kind of girls. I have brown hair, a fatty, and the same height. I can also probably take him for about 5 minutes in a fight... =] But I dono im not stevens type. I dont even know If i like Steven but i like talking to him... We can have the funnest time doing absolutely nothing, and he loves killing me in Halo3. --Im girly when It comes to video games. A lot of people thought we were dating, but I kept explining he was dating Becky... and they all took it like Ohh hes just trying to get closer to you. Well he doesnt need becky to do that. but Whatever.
The conversations I have with Steven range from pointless to like Never discussed matters and i told my friend and she said that Steven likes me because only guys that like girls are willing to talk to girls about that kind of stuff... but.
Now that i have the thought of him liking me, and me not sure for my feelings. I dont know how to act around him. I mean usually ill have my legs on him, ready to kick him when he beats me, and will mess with his brother about how much I love Steven. I would usually wrestle with him... but now on the phone. its just weird.
What Do I Do?? (link)
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the first thing you have to do is decide whether or not you actually like steven. just make sure you're not telling yourself you like him just because he might like you.
my motto is that honesty is the best policy. so first be honest with yourself, and then sit steven down and be honest with him. if you do like him, great! you should tell him! but if you don't, just explain to him very nicely that you don't feel that way about him. tell him that you value him as one of your close friends or maybe even that you love him like a brother. and don't let anyone's feelings come in the way of that.
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How many caloriees do you need to eat to lose weight? (link)
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try going to mayo clinic's website. they have a calculator where you can put in your personal height/weight/age/etc. and it will tell you how many calories you should be eating to maintain and/or lose weight.
when using website's though, always make sure they are credible medical sources!
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I have a friend who is really negative...about EVERYTHING. She has even managed to turn the fact that she's studying abroad in EUROPE into a negative situation. Now, she says she doesn't want to go, but she has to because everything has been payed for. There are other traits that make our relationship very difficult and so I am cutting her off as soon as she leaves the country. Until then, how can I subtly remind her or deflect her of negativity. (She is in denial about her not-so-great personality traits, so stating the direct issue will do no good.) For example, she complains on and on about going to Europe, "I don't wanna go. I just can't do it. It's going to be terrible..." I would respond with a nice--so nice it wouldn't bother a hypersensitive person--and subtle hint to change the subject or what-not because of her negativity. I've already told her I'd LOOOOVE to switch places with her! (link)
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one of the very obvious reasons people act negatively is that they are looking for praise. we all do it, just some to more of an extremem like your friend here. how i think you should remind her is by catching her red-handed. whenever she says something negative, point it out to her as a pessimistic outlook and give her the optimistic side. then try explaining to her that optimism is really a happier path to take and how she should always look for one positive thing in every situation.
i hope this helps you!
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Hi, okay so like 19 days ago I started my birth control.. Its called ortho tri-cyclen lo if that helps any.
Anyways so my last period was on July 19th so as you can see im late.
But I havent had unprotected sex or anything and the thingie says I will be protected the first day I take it if its a day one and 7 days if its a sunday start.
So theres like no possible way im pregnant. I know im not. [hopefully] but why am I so late? Is it because of my birth control?
&& I feel like im getting my period soon but ive also felt like this for a few days..
Any answers?
Please and thank you. (link)
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one of the very common side effects of birth control is an irregular cycle. some pills cause irregular spotting and periods, while other stop your period all together. try asking your doctor (if you got the pills from one) about the characteristics of your pills. otherwise, try googling them and getting the info from a credible website.
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