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sex- too disappointing to be normal?
i'm either living what 90% of other women on the planet go through, or there's something wrong.
sex is pretty much uncomfortable for me. the first couple of times hurt, as was to be expected, but after that, despite trying out different positions, it still varies between uncomfortable and neutral. no matter how turned on i am when my boyfriend and i start, it always just ends up with me going through the motions and not getting anything out of it.
is it just that the media tries to make you believe that all you need is a dick moving in and out of you and you're set? i know that most women have no idea where their g-spot is or if they even have one, and i guess it's wishful thinking to hope that sex will automatically 'find' it. i have a great sex life when it comes to everything else, but actual intercourse (sorry, i sound like a teacher) is where i draw a blank. is it normal that i feel nothing and should just consider myself lucky that i find all other types of sex so great? or am i pretty much screwed (no pun intended)?
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I would spend more time on foreplay. I know you've tried different positions, but maybe try moving around a little bit and don't be afraid to experiment! =]
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have your partner try different things while having actual intercourse like rubbing your clitoris a little bit or kissing on your neck or ears even breast at some point or basically anything else that you like . I didn't get anything out of having sexual intercourse for awhile, I perfered oral sex or just foreplay but now I try to incorporate the things I enjoy that really excite me into intercourse and that worked for me.
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