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Okay I know this HAS to be really stupid but I really don't understand it.

I was listening to the 3OH!3 song "Don't Trust Me" last night and realized I was confused about a part. haha I love 3OH!3 though and Don't Trust Me is totally my favorite song.

It says:
"Tell your boyfriend if he says he's got beef,
That I'm a vegetarian and I ain't f*cking scared of him."

What's that mean?
THNX! :D (link)
Good song!!

Ok well basically when someone says theyve got beef, it means that theyre strong and they could beat you up and stuff.
So when he says Im a vegetarian and I aint f*cking scared of him, thats a joke... like since hes a "vegetarian" then he won't eat beef...therefore he isn't scared of his "beef"... umm...very hard to explain hahah! Does that sort of make sense?

hope i helped : )
xoxo Angell


I get so scared when I babysit this kid named Tommy. Whenever I go over there, this person always calls saying, "Nice outfit," or "Is Tommy asleep yet?" I have told the parents, and asked them if anyone has called like that but they think I am joking. Assist please! (link)
That's pretty scary. I don't blame you for being shaken up.

Next time they call, demand to know who they are. If they don't tell you, hang up, or say something disturbing, then call the police right away. This person could be a neighbor that just likes to play pranks, or it could be more serious.

You should also talk to the parents about it. Say to them exactly what you told us.

I hope I helped and good luck!

xoxo
Angell


I love my mom so much. But most times she really scares me. She dresses like a hooker wearing really tight short shorts and and belly tops that reveal way too much. She goes to these late night clubs and always brings strange men home. I can almost swear that they are high. One guy showed me his gun and laughed histerically but never told me why he had it. I don't know what to do. She scares my friends away, and one time during a parent teacher conference my teacher almost called the cops. I was so humiliated.

What do i do? (link)
Ok, well, all parents are embarrassing, but I see this is a little more than that.

Have you told your mom about her behavior? If not, you should try talking to her about it. I know that you really won't want to, but if this is really bothering you, it's the best you can do. Tell her that it scares you when she leaves and then brings home these strange men, and that it makes you embarrassed how she dresses in public. But whatever you do, DO NOT question her parenting skills...I know that sounds weird, but if you say something like "You should be dressing like mom, not a hooker!" or "Why can't you just be normal?" or something along those lines, she'll most likely get mad. Just have a gentle approach and hear her (make sure she hears you, too).

If after you talk, nothing happens, it may just be the way she is, and theres nothing you can do about it. I'm almost positive that a real sit down conversation will change the way she acts, though!

I hope I helped and good luck!

xoxo
Angell


I think my friend is a lesbian, but I don't want to ask. She NEVER has crushes on any guys and if she has, she's never told me. I've caught her looking at girls butts and it's really creepy! One night we had a sleep over but i left some of my clothes at home. I asked to borrow hers but she insisted it would be fine with her if i slept in the NUDE!!!!!
Other times, we've had sleepovers and she'd change right in front of me. Most girls do that, but when i went to change in the bathroom, she freaked! she kept saying "we are both girls, why don't you feel comfortable around me?"
It probably wouldn't be good by saying i thought she wanted to take pictures of me but.....
i've joked around saying "what are you a lezbo?! Haha!" but she puts on like a pity smile and changes the subject.
Once i said it in front of other people and she was quiet for the rest of the night.

HELP!? it's creepy, she's into me!

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So here's the thing, she may be a lesbian, she may not be.

If she IS a lesbian, it shouldn't change any parts of your previous friendship. I know it will be really weird to adjust to that idea. But then again, being a lesbian shouldn't change anything, like I said.

If she isn't, then you may just be overreacting. Like most people below me said, she was probably kidding about most of that, and she may have changed the subject because she was hurt that you'd assume something like that.

Some of the people below me were really rude to you, and I'm sorry about that. I don't think that you're a homophobic bitch at all. I understand what is going through your head. Once you pick up on one strange thing she does, you start to over analyze everything she does. It's totally understandable.

I think what you need to do is really sit down with her and talk to her about it. Really hear her out, and make sure you have a gentle approach, and DON'T jump to conclusions. If she really seems confused by what you thought, you were probably overreacting, and then you two should just forgive and forget. Ok?

I hope I helped and good luck! :)

xoxo
Angell


okay so like i have a HUGE crush on my teacher. he is really good lookin and like im pretty sure he knows i have a crush on him. this is like really embarressing to say and i cant tell any of my friends caus elike i know its werid but like i hate weekends cause i dont get to see my teacher. haha and weridly enough last night i had a dream about him. to embaressing to describe it. ahah like idk what to do hes 10 years older then me haha. how can i get him out of my headd haha? (link)
Ok well there's totally nothing wrong with this... We all have hot teachers at some point ;) But just try to focus on other boys that you'd actually have a (LEGAL) chance with. Like the person before me, it's just something you gotta get over. He probably has a girlfriend/wife anyways, and I hate to break it to you but he's never going to like you the way you like him for a few reasons 1. Uhm, it's illegal and he could go to jail AND get fired 2. You're a decade younger than him 3. You actually think you're the first person to every like him? So I think you should just focus on other boys, and your friends too, and eventually you'll get over it! There's totally nothing to be ashamed of, it's not like you can control it! Good luck! xoxo


what are good songs
meaningfull
ones that really make you feel the emotion the artist is conveying
im into like alternative stuff anywhere from like mayday parade, dashboard confessional, secondhand serenade, the maine, etc things like that if yah get my vibe. i also randomly like michelle branch and taylor swift. ok well yeah any songs you suggest ill appreciate

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Well personally like Fall Out Boy... their music always makes me feel really happy.

Pavlove-Fall Out Boy
The (Shipped) Gold Standard-Fall Out Boy
I'm Like a Lawyer...(Me & You)-Fall Out Boy
My Heart is the Worst kind of Weapon-Fall Out Boy
7 Minutes in Heaven-Fall Out Boy
The Patron Saint of Liars and Fakes-Fall Out Boy
Calm Before the Storm-Fall Out Boy
Yule Shoot Your Eye Out-Fall Out Boy

Undeniable-Mat Kearney
My Immortal-Evanescence
Really any Dave Matthew's Band song-Everyday is a good one
What I Got-Sublime

I hope those help.


I really like songs that have deep lyrics, and can relate to my mood. :] Right now, I am annoyed, and infuriated... So are there any songs that talk about posers, or fakeeee people? Like for example, I really want good songs that have stuff in there like stfu, stop acting and be real for once, stop copying others, get a life, get your OWN life, don't even start with your fake crap, how you're really lame for doing all those things, some people aren't real stop with your fakeness, get your own identity and ideas, not MINE, so stop trying to steal my identity and trying to be like me (I like that idea), stop copying my style, you only like and do certain things because of me, etc... you know? Things that are similiar to those things? I would like songs that kind of have that "HAH! In your face! grrr stop being a poser!" feeling. x] I prefer rock songs... I like bands like Paramore, My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, Simple Plan, Good Charlotte, Evanescence, Green Day, etc. Songs that are those bands' would be great. I'd love you to death if you had some great suggestions!!! lol xD I'll accept anything, but no rap or country please. Thank youuuu so much!
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Ooh, how about:

Snitches and Talkers get Stitches and Walkers
and
The Pros and Cons of Breathing

both Fall Out Boy

any help?

xoxo


so i just got my haircut and its definately too short for what i like! its a little below my shoulders now, but i want it boob lengthh how long will it take to grow out?! (link)
Well, hair usually grows depending on how healthy it is... So if you keep your hair really healthy it should grow quickly. Also, in just plain old drug stores, like Rite Aid, you can find hair lengthening serums... They're supposed to make your hair grow a lot faster... obviously... Don't use a whole lot of heat on your hair... The more you straighten or curl, the more split the ends get, which kills your hair eventually. And, you know, you could always try to get used to the new hair, there are a lot of things you can do with short hair. And, usually shorter hair is a lot healthier than long hair. But, remember, it WILL grow out eventually! Just find some fun things to do with your hair while you wait for it to be long again!


herstyler colorful seasons flat iron
they look like this:

http://www.lafemme-products.com/lafemme/images/herstyler_pink_color.jpg


thats the one i have

im not sure if its really good or not..

but what do you girls think IF YOUVE HAD IT.
whats better than that ? AND WORSE than that?
thanks (link)
Yeah, I've had a Forever Herstyler since last year... it works pretty well-it doesn't damage hair very badly, and it straightens nicely. but CHIs are supposed to be EXCELLENT. They are a little expensive, I've seen some in Target for $130, but I've heard it's completely worth it, and I'm getting one soon =) Ok, worse than that... Hmmm... my first straightener was a Conair... it broke in about 3 months. It was also really thick, it smelled bad, and it couldn't get any hard-to-reach spots. So, I disagree with Lagunababe, I think Conairs are not good, and CHIs are excellent. Herstylers work very well, too, and they are cheaper.


I have never really had high self confidence and I know I am really pretty, but other than my really close friends I never know what to talk about. I just sit there trying to think of something to say. I am always jealous of those girls that can just go up to anyone and make conversation so easily. Help? What do I say? How do I make people like me more? (link)
Hi, I'm exactly like you, I never know what to say to people! But, here are a couple icebreakers I've been using, that are easy, but don't sound like they came out of a book:

1. A good way to start a conversation is to complement them. Like, if you love their bag, say, 'I really like your bag, is it from American Eagle?', even if it says American Eagle across the front. And then you can just sit back and nod and smile where you need to. Try not to be too fidgety!

2. Another way is to crack a joke if you have a good sense of humor. If your teacher is a total FREAK, you could say something like, "I'm pretty sure I saw that guy on FBI's Most Wanted last night." Just make sure you ask if they know him first, because that would be bad if that was their uncle or something!

Some more tips; ALWAYS SMILE! That doesn't mean walking down the hall, smiling at every cute boy and friendly-looking girl, but when you get a new assigned seat or something, just look pleasant when a person sits down next to you. It makes you seem more approachable, and they'll start the conversation easier. Don't always COUNT on them to begin, though.
Also, ALWAYS REMEMBER-the golden rule in my book-always fake it till you make it! Just because your laugh is a little forced doesn't mean you'll never improve! The more comfortable you get around a person, the easier it is to talk and laugh and smile.
And, lastly, just start out small. If there's another shy, quiet girl in your science class who's frantically looking around for a partner, ask if she wants to partner up with you. Work your way up from there, it'll get so much easier.
These seem so easy, and they work like a charm, so just be calm, and people will totally love you in no time! Good luck!


ok i have acne and i tryed ever face wash all it does is make me face brake out more and i have no money to get a face docter and i wanna know how i can llok better and what kinda face wash works and i have blonde hair and brown eyes is pink eyeshadow and black eyeliner good for my makeup (link)
Well, I'm sort of like you, I have mild acne that is VERY stubborn, and I've tried everything. Awhile ago, I read in my TeenVogue magazine an easy, stress-free technique that has been working very well for me:

First, you use an acne scrub (preferably organic) in the morning. I use a product called Acnexus, and it has been working pretty well.

Second, also in the morning, you should use a salicylic acid solution. I use Clean & Clear Advantage for this.

Then, third, before bed, use a benzoyl-peroxide treatment. I use Clean & Clear Continuous Control.

And lastly, the same acne scrub.


Hope that helped!

BTW, pink eyeshadow and black eyeliner would look really nice, and so would light blue eyeshadow with the eyeliner!




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