HeLLo! My name's Alyssa! And I'll be and 8th grader this year (yes I'm young, but I'm a person and still can give advice!=) So here's tha scoop:
NaMe=AlYsSa
B-DaY=7/23/91
StAtS=SaDlY SiNgLe =*(
HeIgHt=5 f00t 6
SeX=SeXy LaDy
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ScHoOl=DaViSViLlE MiDdLe ScHoOl
Well, enough about me, ask your qeustions, I'm listening!
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Gender: Female
Location: *Rhode Island*
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: xswtie0alyssax
Member Since: July 3, 2004
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is rub on tan bad for u? (link)
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hey hun,
nope not aat all! uv rays are what makes your skin tick, and the only problem with rub-on-tan is if you put it on unevenly, you get streaks and lines, also if you get it on your hands and dont rinse it off right away, they turn orange!
That wou;ld be the other setback-finding bottled tan that truly gives you a realistic looking tan, not just truning you into a walking orange. I recommend neutrogena, and lancome, but lancome is kinda pricey so use it sparingly!
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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!! (link)
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heu hun,
well, your mom must think you've gone behind her back, doing something you know sher doesnt approve of-when really it was all the guys fault. Sit your mom down, and tell her FLAT OUT! be mature about this though, because if you arent she might think that you're lying. Be honost too, don't start up another story saying somehting like he wanted oyur nukmber, because if she finds out you were lying about that, then she'll think u lied twice.
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How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?
Signed
help (link)
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Hi hun,
well, you could just lay the question down to them, the cold hard truth. They arn't goin to punish you, they'd get you help, so the sooner you tell them, the faster you can be healthy again. Approach your parents and say somthing like:
i have an eating disorder, it's messing up my life and i need help, can u help me? your parents are there to take care of you, not criticze or blame you for what has happened.
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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!! (link)
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omg so sorry hunn!
That sounds like a sticky (and sad) situation=( My friend had the same problem, but hers was that her father only liked her wife, and hated the kids (he didnt talk to them or even aknowledge their precence) Well, you need to talk to your step-father, see what you can work out. find out what makes him tick, are you a wild child? maybe he wasnt too happy when you cracked your moms vase running through the house, whatever the matter, there's a reason, maybe even his past! like i said, talking is the key to finding out about and how ot change your stepdad. maybe he feels offended because you were born from your real father, and ur brothers werent. When you do talk tho, DON'T b a smartass. thisll make the situation worser.
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im trying to have a new look for 8 grade. I need tips on what kind of hair is in? A purm or what?
What cloths or shops are in? HELP!!!!!!!! (link)
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WEll, if your into listening to me blab about clothes for a while, here i go:
medium length straight hair is in, highlights seem to be the in ting to get too, but be careful; wrong color=growing it out=3-7months!
WEll, fall fashions vary big time, and a new wardrobe (for school is a good excuse) might be in need. cargo, vintage tee's camis, pocketless jeans, 80's punk, trucker hats, and hawaiin print (some) is in.
im sort of a rockhead/preppy/casual gal andmy personal favorites that i go to are:
weathervane
hot topic
wet seal
american eagle
kohls
abercrombie and fitch
delias
eblens
my brands are:
guess?
so..
rag
shexay lady
dolce and gabana
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ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!? (link)
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hy hun, sorry, wearing a bra or not, it only supports all 34A of you. When you moves oyu arm in a circular motion, it doesnt exactly increase the size, but it builds up your pectoral muscles and makes you, erm, how do u say it..? firmer? =D There's no wonder food that'll work like a chia pet on your boobs, but there are pills, be aware though, they make you jitterey, and some are inaffective. Also, it's not always genes wether u egt breasts or not, you're still growing, and if u get implants before you've full developed, you'll just have the opposite problem: too big of breasts!
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Im 16/f and i think im addicted to alcohol...whenever i see it i must have one...its really bad....ive been drinking for abotu two years now...and im always safe about it..i just ALWAYS want it...like if my rents go out for 15 minutes im in the cabinet taking out vodka...i really dont know what to do... (link)
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hey hun,
uhoh, you need help, fast!
yes, u mite get in trouble for underage drinking, but if you keep on drinking addictivly (yes, i do think u are addicted) you liver will liquify-no joke and you'll die. go to a support group, the people there know how to tame your cravings, also, substitute drinking with somthing else.
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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP! (link)
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Yikes! it almost sounds like she's vain, and pulling the attention towards herself!
You could:
Tell her to shut her trap (lose a friend)
get back with ur ex (making u and maybe him and definitly ur friend unhappy)
tell her about some other great guy you know (not bragging tho!) and suggest she talks to him (bingo!!)
WEll, #3 would be my suggestion, becasue that's a sticky situation. hope i helped!
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ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder (link)
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hun,
you'de look great if u have strawberryblonde highlights! They mix well with blondes, actually, it's one of the rare colors u can actually only use on a blonde. As for your eyes, it'll look fine, especially if you keep your blonde hair visible through the highlights, also, if you don't like it, you can re-dye your hair blonde because strawberry blonde isnt a harsh or dark color
happy hair days =D
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i was wondering, this lady wants me to babysit about a few hours after i get the braces on(tomorrow)
do u think i'd be up to it
sum of my friends that went to the same place im goin said that it only hurt after the numbness wore off, my sis said it didn't kick in for her until a few days later
do u think i would be up to watchin kids
they aren't hard to handle, one of them will do w/e i want, the other will either be in his backyard(fenced in) or watchin t.v, or on the comp
sumtimes they give me a bit of trouble, but nuttin i can't handle on a regular basis
if not my sis will get the job
i really WANT the money, but if i can't handle it then ill give it to my sis
i was just askin sum1's opinion on the subject
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hey hun, well, if ur not pain tolerent, or u are, u still can do it either way! the pain is just soreness, like when u pull a muscle, but in your mouth, so u won't be like weak or drowsy or anything, eat something soft, if soothes the tingle for sum reason. also, if you're REALLY hurtin, take a dose of tylenol
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does anyone know how to make the salsa dip not as spicy cause we bought extra spicy on accident and its wayy to hott!! do you think its ok to put sugar in it? ok well i hope someone knows how cause my mouth is on fire!!!!! (link)
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Heyy hun! WEll, the recipe i use u can make it hotter depending on your taste:
6 lg Chiles dry (morita or mulato
Or guajillo or any kind) if
The chiles are littles like
Jalapeños or serranos, use
15 chiles.
1/2 md Onion
1/4 c Vinegar
1 sm Clove of garlic
Salt
Vegetable oil
The kind of chiles that you use determine the final flavor, you can
experiment with different kinds or mixing the different kinds of
chiles. But this is the basic recipe for prepare salsas with dry
chiles.
Wash the chiles in water and discard the seeds and threads of chiles.
Let stand in water at least 2 or 3 hours or all the night, if you do not
have time let the chiles in warm water at least 30 min. Then ground
with the other ingredients and in a sauce pan put a little amount of
vegetable oil when it will be warm add the salsa and cook 30 min or
more, the flavor of vineagar have to disapear, add water if need. When
it is cook you can use for "Chilaquiles", "Enchiladas", and eggs.
this serves 4......i hope i helped
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i was lookin at a bunch of columns, and i think ur backround is SOO COOL, i was just wonderin where u get ur backround
i will give u a 5 if ya answer this! (link)
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sorry for not answerin sooner! i know u sed nevermind, butr it's from google, and the website is
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://cccmkc.edu.hk/~kei91066/Image/Wallpaper/cloud(bg).gif&imgrefurl=http://cccmkc.edu.hk/~kei91066/Image/Wallpaper/&h=170&w=170&sz=2&tbnid=bqlky_GPY-4J:&tbnh=94&tbnw=94&start=79&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcloud%2Bwallpaper%26start%3D60%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26ie%3DUTF-8%26sa%3DN
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where did u get your backround
and if it was google or yahoo, wut did u search under?? (link)
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hey hun, thanx so mucho! I found my background on google, i looked up cloud wallpaper, and it appeared on the 4th page, but if you want the website it's
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://cccmkc.edu.hk/~kei91066/Image/Wallpaper/cloud(bg).gif&imgrefurl=http://cccmkc.edu.hk/~kei91066/Image/Wallpaper/&h=170&w=170&sz=2&tbnid=bqlky_GPY-4J:&tbnh=94&tbnw=94&start=79&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcloud%2Bwallpaper%26start%3D60%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26ie%3DUTF-8%26sa%3DN
the (actual) website where it came from was no help, so this is where you get it, i hope i helped!
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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
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Hmm Bryant, you shoudl ask her out rather than wait for her to make a move, because if she doesn't another guy will before you! Be yourself, because if you arn't what will she like about you when you have a relationship?
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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Hey hun,
Just BE YURSELF! the world doesn't have nything against you, just the snobby people who have huge egos....but anyway, strike up a conversation, maybe try by your locker, or on the bus, someone older than you is even better, they can help you around the school! When you find someone to talk to, look for:
simularities in:
hobbies
friends
looks
guys
ANYTHING! You get the feeling that you've made a friend when, well, it clicks! You chat on or invite each toher somewhere. Heads up though: just because you don't have simmilar hobbies, doesnt mean u can't be friends, when difference merge thats cool too!
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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
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WEll, I, personally (a rabid fan of guyz!) hang around a little while, to c if he likes mee evin after he sd he doesn't, then, just move on! It's not like he's the ONLY guy in the world, what do u like about him? his eyes? looks? funny personality, good to talk to?
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ok surfer hair is in style for the boys.. but wut kinda hair is in for the girls? answer asap! thanks (link)
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hmmm, medium-length straight hair seems to be in, but usually for girls anystyle will do (normally fairly long-medium)
Colors are another story, highlights are very in, but solid colored hair rox!
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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!
Signed
A cry for help (link)
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WEll, this answer is aimed towards both of you, if you DO start eating, he WILL stop doing drugs, but just stopping mightnot be enough. Go to the hospital, or a support group, so that you can control your eating habits. If you get too skinny, the modeling agency might drop you (keep that in mind!!!) Also, help your b/f because he might have a problem with dependence on drugs. If you both get help, this situatioln might get helped sooner. People care about you.
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Anyone here from Minnesota??? Just wondering cuz i'm so bored and I have family over but i'm just kinda hidin out =/ (link)
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Not me, but go talk ur fam! they ARE ur kin
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i am gettin braces and i heard u heard em do they hurt (link)
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Yeah, hunni, unfortunatly, after you get them on, tightened, or taken off, your mouth is sore, and can bee too sore to eat hard food. They feel weir for the 1st week, but they become a part of your life after that. =) don't worry, it'll pay off in the longshot
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