Hi! I actually went through this a couple weeks ago. I think it was caused by a change in birth control pill for me though. Have you changed anything in your diet or have you recently started taking new meds? I think as long as your not in any pain or discomfort, you're probably ok. But I'm not a doctor, so if you are really concerned I'd definitely see one...especially if things get worse.

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! Well it doesn't really matter...unless you doing it is interfering with your everyday life. If it's not, you're fine...probably better than fine for a few reasons:

1. You can't get someone/yourself pregnant and you can't catch an STD. Masturbation is pleasure with no strings attached.

2. You learn a lot about yourself through masturbation. Such as what you like sexually and that in turn, will make it easier for a sex partner to get you to climax.

3. This is the best reason. Studies have shown that orgasming at least 200 times a year will lengthen a person's life by about 6 years!

Hope i helped!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! I've been in your situation several times and most the time...I pick my heart. I must say though, it's never worked out. I guess, to answer your question, it really depends on why your head is telling you not to date this guy. Is it that you're scared or is he truly a shady guy? If it's that he's shady, I'd stear clear. Dealing with someone that does drugs, sleeps around, cheats, etc., is only going to hurt you in the end. Now I'm not sure that's the case with this guy, but just remember--you can't change a person unless they want to change. And with that being said, why would you want to change him? There's obviously something about him that you like. Now this may just be me, but when I first start dating a guy, i ask myself, "Can I picture myself marrying this guy?". Although i don't plan on getting married anytime soon, i don't want to waste my time on someone i know i'll never be with. I hope i helped! If you're still confused about which to choose, share some more specific information about this guy. I think it would be easier to answer if I knew more about him and why this decision is so difficult for you.

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! I really don't think masterbation can alter when you have a period. Sex, however, can cause pregnancy, which as most of us know leads to an absence of a period. Other than that, I really don't think either can postpone a period. Stress and changes in your diet can definitely make your period go wacky. I do have some advice for the irregularity of your period, though. Talk to your doctor about going on the birth control pill. When I was younger, I used to have very irregular periods...sometimes twice a month! My mom and doctor suggested I start taking the pill and it really has changed my life. I know EXACTLY when I'm going to get my period every month. Plus, I can't get pregnant. It's wonderful! Hope I helped!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! Don't feel ashamed! Don't, Don't, Don't! Masterbation is completely natural and porn is just simply a stimulator. I know it's easy to feel guilty about doing things like this (especially when religion is thrown into the mix!), but just know that everyone does it. We might not all do it to porn, because that's a personal choice,but we all do it. You're not betraying God...and if you truly feel like you are, ask for forgiveness. He is supposed to be the most forgiving being. Also, this may make you feel a little better about your "problem": Studies have shown that orgasming at least 200 times a year will lengthen a person's life by about 6 years! So just think of masterbating to porn as a way to add 6 more years onto your life!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi again! I really don't think you have an infection...that is if you mean something you got by having sex(although it is possible...just not with the symtoms you described). I think your cramps/stomach pain and brown blood are most likely from taking the pill. I take birth control daily, and when a person first goes on the pill it does crazy things to their body. The pill is used to prevent ovulation, which in turn makes your body think it's "pregnant". Which is why a lot of women have many signs of pregnancy when they first start taking the pill. It's all the horomones! I still don't think you have anything to worry about, but if getting tested will relieve your stress( and possibly end your possible stress related stomach pain), do it.

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! This guy sounds super nice and if he's willing to beat your EX up,then I say he's a keeper! Now since he's not asking you out, maybe you should TELL him that you guys are hanging out. Just sneak something in the conversation when you guys talk, like: "So you're picking me up at 8 this Friday... right?" He will probably be confused and ask what you're talking about(or if he's quick he'll ask you out himself!). you can say something like: "you know..we're going to the movies...did you forget?" Make it seem like he asked you. You'll seem super confident and it's very casual. Or if my previous approach doesn't suit your fancy, maybe you should just be direct. Just ask him: "So what's taking you so long!? Why haven't you asked me out yet!?" I really don't think it matters what you say, actually. This guy likes you. The sooner you say something (anything!), the sooner you can call him yours. Good luck!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! Well even though you did have unprotected sex, it was very responsible of you to get the morning after pill and as long as it's taken within a few days after sex, you should be fine. As far as the brown blood goes, it's most likely just "old" blood. It happens to me at the start of my period every now and then too. So i highly doubt you are pregnant! But i feel i must tell you it is VERY POSSIBLE to get pregnant just from precum. I currently have a freind that's pregnant from precum. So as convenient as the pull-out method is, it isn't the best choice for birth control. If you are still concerned about being pregnant, take a home pregnancy test to ease your mind.

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! Ok, so whether he came in you or not, you ARE at risk of being pregnant. When a guy becomes aroused he kind of "leaks" something called precum...which CAN get someone pregnant. However, because it has only been three days, it's hard to say if you're pregnant...mostly because it takes at least six days for a fertilized egg to even implant itself in you! You're probably feeling ill due to stress or maybe you caught a cold...it's WAAAAYYY too early for you to be having pregnancy symptoms! If i were you I would wait until a missed period and until then USE PROTECTION! If you are worried you have an STI, see a doctor and have a blood test to ease your mind. If you have any more problems concerning pregnancy, sex, or STDs-- I am here to help!

Lots of Love,
Lee

Hi! I go by Lee and I am full of information...hopefully the kind that will be useful to someone--Although I must say most people seem pleased with my advice and comments in the real world. I know a lot about health, relationships, and sex by means of classes, experience, and Google(I'm completely addicted!). I'm not a pro at any of these subjects nor a doctor, but I'm honest and tactful(and charming!)and I will try to help anybody.

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