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How do I ask him out?
There's this dude at my school. I really like him.
I get butterflies when ever I talk about him and
shit like that.
He sits pretty close to me at lunch, like about...
3 meters away (in another group) I always find
myself accidentally staring at him. And sometimes,
I find him staring at me.
Nobody but me thinks he's hot, he has extreme
acne, and he's not very attractive. But I think
he is.
We talk sometimes, but only like once or twice a
week. He beat up this dude for me because when we
were going out he use to abuse me. [:
So, I think he cares. Plus one of our neutral
friends told me "He said you're really cute and
hell funny."
Yeah... well. I know he likes me, because so many
people say so, even a teacher asked me if we were
going out! So, what I want to know is, how do I
work up the courage to ask him out or w/ever.
Help.
xx
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Urm, well, tbh, its not up to other people (unless they know you REALLY well) to figure that out
if you think of yourself as independant, and you AREN'T afraid that he might reject you, ask him, but ONLY if your sure, and best do it in private
If you DONT have that much confdence, either drop super subtle hints, or just wait for him...
so bsicly, it depends on what type of person you are, kay?
XOX
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I wouldn't ask him out. I would find a round about way of striking up a conversation with him. Before dating him, you need to get to know him somewhat. You like him from afar, right now. You might find, after getting to know him better, that he isn't right for you, so it's better to develop a friendship before a date. If you do this and it seems like you both feel there could be something between you, then he will ask you out.
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Hi! This guy sounds super nice and if he's willing to beat your EX up,then I say he's a keeper! Now since he's not asking you out, maybe you should TELL him that you guys are hanging out. Just sneak something in the conversation when you guys talk, like: "So you're picking me up at 8 this Friday... right?" He will probably be confused and ask what you're talking about(or if he's quick he'll ask you out himself!). you can say something like: "you know..we're going to the movies...did you forget?" Make it seem like he asked you. You'll seem super confident and it's very casual. Or if my previous approach doesn't suit your fancy, maybe you should just be direct. Just ask him: "So what's taking you so long!? Why haven't you asked me out yet!?" I really don't think it matters what you say, actually. This guy likes you. The sooner you say something (anything!), the sooner you can call him yours. Good luck!
Lots of Love,
Lee
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