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head over heart?
if your head tells you not to date a certain guy but your heart does what one would you chose? i don't want to hear pick your heart but take your brain with you crap either. one or the other.
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Always follow your heart no matter what. If it is not meant to be then at least you know you tried and you did what your heart told you.
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I know of similiar situations. If the reasons in your head make more sense then your heart..go for your head, but if you are reallly confused then I would go with your heart because you have to take risks and you never know what could of came of it if you dont even try. Love is pain, and if that means you getting hurt in the end well at least you took a chance and seen what could come of it.
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Hi! I've been in your situation several times and most the time...I pick my heart. I must say though, it's never worked out. I guess, to answer your question, it really depends on why your head is telling you not to date this guy. Is it that you're scared or is he truly a shady guy? If it's that he's shady, I'd stear clear. Dealing with someone that does drugs, sleeps around, cheats, etc., is only going to hurt you in the end. Now I'm not sure that's the case with this guy, but just remember--you can't change a person unless they want to change. And with that being said, why would you want to change him? There's obviously something about him that you like. Now this may just be me, but when I first start dating a guy, i ask myself, "Can I picture myself marrying this guy?". Although i don't plan on getting married anytime soon, i don't want to waste my time on someone i know i'll never be with. I hope i helped! If you're still confused about which to choose, share some more specific information about this guy. I think it would be easier to answer if I knew more about him and why this decision is so difficult for you.
Lots of Love,
Lee
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So I'm assuming your head is telling you not to because he's a 'bad' guy but your heart is telling you to go for it because despite the 'bad' things you still have a lot of feelings for this guy. I would listen to your head because although he may come off sweet right now if he's the 'bad' type, he'll later on end up breaking your heart. Good Luck!
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