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i'm 17/f and i'd like to do something nice for my boyfriend. not like take him anywhere.. but something very plain & simple to show him how much i love and appreciate him, just because. i made him a cd of all the songs that reminded me of him and then put pictures of us as the case covers and he loved it. also i bought him his favorite movie and watch it with him whenever he wants.
something plain and simple like this, yet will mean a lot to a guy.
any ideas would be appreciated! thanks! (link)
I sometimes like to cook my boyfriend dinner. Its something romantic and it can show your more sensative side. Guys always love to eat so he'll most likely like that. Give him a back message or something too. My boyfriend loves them.


I've liked this guy for about two weeks, well 2 months kindof but I was sure of it two weeks ago. But anyway he has no idea, and I don't know if he likes me or not, it's possible but I'm not totally sure yet. While I'm in the process of trying to get him to like me, what are some subtle ways I could drops hints to him that I like him? I'm not up to being totally obvious about it, I just want some simple ways I can sortof get him to maybe wonder it if you get what I mean. We talk the whole period in one particular class so thats my perfect chance to do it. (link)
say something like haha your so cute..like casual though..or tough him in some flirty way..just be you an smile at him.


This guy told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, and now, all the sudden on facebook, he's in a relationship with his ex girlfriend and her status messages are all ... " (link)
move on. people linger on the ex's and untill they finally stop wasting each others time. He wont talk to you. he probably just did because he wasnt talkin to her...aka jerk!


so 17f
I masterbate, never had sex, but do watch porn. Is watching porn bad? I never really understood if it was or not. Sometimes I feel like I am betraying god, other times I say to myself I am not doing anything bad. opinions, anything please! (link)
I did that at one point in my life. I think its just a phase. Its ok to do it. Its part of life an i believe everyone needs to feel satisifed (i cant spell lol).


I am 17 years old and I've never had any type of serious relationship. I met this amazing guy few days ago and we hung out twice. Last night he came and picked me up where we went to his house, watched a movie, cuddled, kissed...etc
It was great! I really think i am starting to like this guy. But now what? should i call him? wait for him to call me? ahh im nervous. (link)
Give it a day or two. If you dont hear anything at all...you should try to talk to him somehow. Just be casual about it when you do talk to him. You'll do fine. Its normal to be nervous.


so im thinking of getting straight-across bangs. right now i have side bangs, but i want a change. but im kinda scared because :

1. are they easy to take care of?
2. what if i want to have side bangs for a day? will they look weird since its a different cut?
3. if i have thin-ish bangs, will they always seperate and show my big forehead?

please let me know your thoughts and personal experriences ASAP! i think im gonna get my hair cut tomorrow (thursday) (link)
I have straight-thin bangs and they are easy to take care of. the only problem with having side bangs an than going to straight they are still going to wanna go to the side. after a while they will go to normal. They might make your forehead alittle oily.


Hey there. Ya well I'm 16/f. So I recently became a boys basketball manager (take stats, do stuff for the coaches, fill up water bottles, ect.) Well, there's a guy on the team that I think is really cute and all, but I'm a sophmore and he's a senior so we don't have any classes together. Well, I really want to talk to him, but I don't know what to say. All of my friends are really good at flirting and talking to guys, but I've never been like, super good at I guess you could say. I mean, I take care of myself, have good clothes, and stuff. But I'm not super skinny, but not fat either. I'm in between I guess. But I think it's mostly because I'm kinda short. Well, anyways, whenever I try to talk to guys, I just get the vibe they think I'm weird or something. But it might just be me. I'm just quite around guys, mostly because I never know what to talk about. But I really want to talk to this guy on the team, but I'm not sure what to talk about. There's an away game this coming tueday, and my friends think I should sit next to him( my friends would be there to so I won't be alone or anything) but I'm just always so scared that guys will think I'm weird, or not pretty or skinny enough. I have a feeling I'm never going to get a bf, mostly because I've never had one. Kinda pathetic yes, but I'm just not the type to talk to every single guy I see and just launch into conversations and flirt. So help? Is there something wrong with me?? Should I sit next to him on the away game, and what should I talk to any guys about ever, but especially the guy on the team?????? I always tell myself to take chances, and that if I don't, I'll end up regetting it later, but then I just clam up. Please help me. I don't want guys to think I'm a looser. I really like this guy, and I've only talked to him a couple of times, so what should I talk about with him?? My friends also think that whenever I see him in the hall or at lunch, I should say hi, but would that be weird? Please help me! Thanks!!! (link)
As a 17year old I understand what you are going through. You dont want to come on as pushy but you should be confident about it. If the seat next to him is open be like, can I sit here? if he says yes your in! If not he may have told a friend he would sit with him..dont lose hope. And about talking to him...ask about basketball, talk about the games, he'll think your into him and like that. If you see him in the hallway smile at him. Work your way up to talking to him. You'll do fine. Just breathe...what's the worst that can happen? Seniors can be jerks though so dont get to upset if things dont work out. You'll find someone.




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