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Okay I previously had a problem with pads irritating me now, I looked at my vagina this moring and it looks like its shedding. My period was on for the last week and all I did was wear pads. I'm so scared because I am not sexually active so I don't think its some kind of disease. It just looks like dead skin is coming off of it. It doesn't hurt just feels funny. PLEASE HELP ASAP (link)
Um......maybe u just have dry skin down there....it will probobly go away in a few days, if not, talk to ur mom or someone and see the gynacologist.,.


My Mom keeps saying she's leaving. She's so selface and blames everything on me. Jason and Scott( my brothers) ones a drunk the other can't hold a job do nothing wrong and when they do they shuve it onto me. I got an air conditioner and I have to share my room with My brother Jason. He broke my alarm clock, my light, destroyed my favorite books and I just want to go a night without crying. Im 14 I want my own room.. he messing with my pads and tampons, whips my bra's at me so I kicked him out and he broke my door! And they dont even care..
My cousin Laura said a while ago when she got her new apartment Id always have a place to stay. She lives 2 towns away tho how am I gunna get there? ANd she has a kid anda boyfriend and a life that and at the moment Jason and Her both work at the same place so It wouldnt me like its a secrete I live with her and my Mom might flip if she knows Im planning on leaving. She wants to so why cant I. Im thinking about walking there.. I have a bank accont with some money in it.. but Ive saved up and Its not really my money I have a neighbor I grew really close with and shes dont alot for me and her names carolyn. Shes already said she would take me in, but my Mom would like call the cops about a runaway and get Carolyn in trouble and I wont let that happen so I was thinking that because I was with family maybe my Mom can't do that. I know I cannot stay with Laura long, she has her own life, and I would only be getting in the way. Shes kinda understanding but I was never really close with her but she offered so If i ask about spending a couple nights to get away from the family.. I cant stay with friends, not a lot of them because If my family doesnt ask questions there going too and I dont want my problems pawned off to other people.. So if i pack a bag I have a cell so anyone could call me but running away doesnt solve anything.. And my dad basicly blames me for my Mom wanting to leave. This is long but is there anyway that if i ask laura to spend a couple nights to get away and id babyset, clean do laundry for her all for free...if my Mom can get her in trouble i wouldnt want that soo PLEAse I dont need that happening so If someone who answers this is a cop Id love that : ) or just give your opinion on the madder on how I can slove this.. I dont have a talking relationship with my Mother never have never will so please dont say just talk to her because I tried that and it didnt work!My family doesnt care about me, there selface and want only there way so they would to things in spite and to hurt me (not really a family I knoww)
Please give your opinion and im sorry this is so long but i havent gone a night in about maybe sence school closed without crying.. so anything is helpful! Thank you!! (link)
ok. im really sorry to hear about this. i think you shuld go live with your cousin. maybe the way you can get there is sneak out at nite and meet in a close parking lot and she can come and pick you up. take some clothes, money, cell phone, and anything else you might need. if your " family" is treating u like this, you need to go live with someone that will treat you like a person, not a animal.


I'm dog sitting this weekend! and the dog (butterscotch) died! I just came home and he was curled up under the couch. I don't know what to do!!!!!! they're coming back tomorrow, and its only a year old! omggg (link)
just nicely and calmly tell them that you came over and the dog was dead. im sure that they will understand.


So today i had sex
I was on my period but my period stops for hours at a time, and sometimes even for a day.
It was stopped for a while, and i had sex during that time [with a condom].
I saw all the cum in the condom, but im scared that some got out.
There weren't any hols in the condom, Am i just being paranoid?
Or should I be worried? (link)
If you start to feel weird side effects, than you should go see a doctor.


Kay I met this guy today. He's a year older than me. Well today after school we all decided to go to the elementry school thats next to our school. It was me, 3 of my friends, and him. I have seen him around school before, and he and defenatly seen me. Today, he kept sitting next to me when we were hanging out and he kept smiling. I really like him too, but since I JUST met him, would it be concidered "slutty" if I ask if he likes me after one day?? (link)
no it wouldnt be concidered that. slutty just means that you date alot of guys and that you sleep with them. asking him if he likes you just means your curious to know if he likes you.


hope i helped!@!

Shelby


Long but please read:



My parents are getting a divorce shortly mainly because my dad is 38 wanting to be 20 again. I have a bestfriend that comes around alot and she thinks my dad is hot and he knows that. He says that she is very attractive and so on. He text her all the time. Me and my friend work together and my dad will go in and talk to her then leave without saying a word to me or he will go in when im not even working like he has for the last 2 weeks according to my friend.

The other night i was pretty drunk and my friend and i were talking to my dad. I laid down on the floor and dosed off and i hard noises coming from my friend ( like her and my dad messing around ) after my sister came in the room i got up and went to the bathroom and started crying. After 10 min my friend came to check on me and i asked her if she was messing around with my dad and she said "no, i would never do that ___ i would never do anything to ruin our friendship". And of course i believe her she my bestfriend.

Lately my dad is very attached to his cell phone every time it chimes i know its my friend.He sleeps with the phone right next to him most nights and if you touch his phone he flips out. Well tonight he left his phone on the table so i snooped and i looked thourgh his pictures and i found one of my friend naked (from the waist up)

IM so hurt by this i dont know if i trust her shes lying to me. We're supposed to be bestfriends. Shes tells me she annoyed by my dad but that pictures proves that thats a lie. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont want to tell her i was looking through my dads phone and found this. I'm Graduating tomorrow and shes going to be there we are supposed to move in tomorrow as in get an apartment.

Please help im falling apart over this
thanks (link)
i think you should just tell heer you found the picture. if their just messing around, then this is a bad thing. also try talking to your dad about this. just sit your friend down, tell her about the picture that you found, and give her a chance to explain all of this. if she gets mad, she gets mad. she will get over it


you might be able to turn them in if you live in the right state. i hope i helped!!!

~$*Shelby*$~


So it's summer, as of today. Now I realize that.. I'm going to be really bored the whole time. My group of "best friends" never call me anymore, because they're always out drinking. I confronted them about it once & they say that they've changed now & I haven't. At school I talked to a lot of people but no one called me after or on weekends. Now it's summer & I won't see anyone anymore. What do I do? I have no friends. I don't want to sit at home all summer. Plus my mom is always like, "where are your friends?" & I make up a lie because I can't tell her that they don't talk to me anymore, I feel like a loser.
I don't know what I'm going to do all summer. It seems like my old friends don't even feel bad that I have no friends. (link)
try making friends online. there are alot of people online that want to talk to other people. and i know this may sound weird but try hanging out with your old friends. try doing some of the stuff that they do.


I need a prank to play at my slumber party. Any ideas? (link)
you could put whip cream all around there sleeping bags or their beds and then when they wake up, they will step in it. you can put honey in their hair.


Okay, this isn't a joke at all and I'm really in a bit of a bind here and I don't know what to do. I'm a 16 year old graduating sophomore male and I'm also a homosexual. My life so far has been pretty lonely and I've been waiting for that special someone to sweep me off my feet. A couple weeks ago, I found him! His name was Justin and he was my type: gay, handsome, smart, loving, sweet, every woman or gay male's dream guy. I got to know him and we totally connected. Three weeks ago, we got together and I've never been happier in my entire life! It was more amazing than anything I've ever felt and I was completely and totally happy for the first time in my life. Now here comes the part that's dramatic. A few days ago, he tells me his uncle's dog died and he was really beaten up about it. He ended up breaking up with me because he told me he was unsure of things because apparently he had been physically and emotionally connected to this dog. When he clarified on the physical part, I realized that he had had sex with the dog in the past! I love this guy so much that I supported him through it and we got back together. Two days ago however, he had his friend break up with me and he wouldn't tell me why. WHen I went to school today, he came up to me and said that he had made a decision not to date or do 'people' anymore and that things weren't going to work out between us. I am completely heartbroken and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should talk to him about it or if he'll just think I'm trying to control or change him. I don't even know if it's possible not to like "people" as a whole and only have "relationships" with animals, is it? All I know is I'm still desperately in love with him and that I feel sick being away from him. What should I do, say, feel, act upon? I just think this entire situation is so messed up but I finally found love, I just don't know how I'm going to fight to get it back. Help Me Please!!!!! :-) (link)
WOW....That whole entire thing about the Dog was....Interestting....=/....And to tell you, Im totally ok with the homosexual thing.

I think you should talk to him sooner or later because if he finds out that you have all these problems and you havent talked to him about them, then hes probobly going to be more upset then he will be when you do talk to him. I hope everything works out for you!

Love,

Shelby


im doing a thing and was wondering where do you think is the best place to have sex be creative!!! (link)
in a car
in a bathroom
in a tanning bed
in the shower
in a chair


I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods. (link)
pizza

pretzels

apples

pears

necterines

peanuts

Pepridge farm triple layer chocolate fudge cake.

salad



were can i start? i dont have any friendss.. to make a long story short i used to have alot but me and my best friend got in a HUGE argument and now im not friends with her or basically any of my so called friends that are friends with her now. Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up and he's the only one ive been hanging out with since this best friend thing happend. So basically now ive been sitting in the house. This is so depressing. I dont know how to make new friends Either they hate me or i hate them. I got into so many fights because of my boyfriend all of these girls dislike me it seems like theres not friends on the planet for me lol. some one help im so lonely (link)
I know how you feel. i didnt have any friends until the 5th grade! im sure that you have more friends. im sure that your ex best friend still likes you and she probobly want to get back into your friendship. and try getting some internet friends. if you dont sit with anyone at lunch because of this, take your lunch and eat outside and read. im sure that your friends will want to get back with you because you seem like a very nice person. about your boyfriend, dont worry about him. just try to fix the problem with your friends.




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