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Love, Heartbreak, and BEASTIALITY!?!?
Okay, this isn't a joke at all and I'm really in a bit of a bind here and I don't know what to do. I'm a 16 year old graduating sophomore male and I'm also a homosexual. My life so far has been pretty lonely and I've been waiting for that special someone to sweep me off my feet. A couple weeks ago, I found him! His name was Justin and he was my type: gay, handsome, smart, loving, sweet, every woman or gay male's dream guy. I got to know him and we totally connected. Three weeks ago, we got together and I've never been happier in my entire life! It was more amazing than anything I've ever felt and I was completely and totally happy for the first time in my life. Now here comes the part that's dramatic. A few days ago, he tells me his uncle's dog died and he was really beaten up about it. He ended up breaking up with me because he told me he was unsure of things because apparently he had been physically and emotionally connected to this dog. When he clarified on the physical part, I realized that he had had sex with the dog in the past! I love this guy so much that I supported him through it and we got back together. Two days ago however, he had his friend break up with me and he wouldn't tell me why. WHen I went to school today, he came up to me and said that he had made a decision not to date or do 'people' anymore and that things weren't going to work out between us. I am completely heartbroken and I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should talk to him about it or if he'll just think I'm trying to control or change him. I don't even know if it's possible not to like "people" as a whole and only have "relationships" with animals, is it? All I know is I'm still desperately in love with him and that I feel sick being away from him. What should I do, say, feel, act upon? I just think this entire situation is so messed up but I finally found love, I just don't know how I'm going to fight to get it back. Help Me Please!!!!! :-)
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talk to this boy about it because your definately in love and you cant let it leave you. but sweetsz dont smother him. dont keep asking him questions. dont let him think your trying to control him. if all this fales and he wont cone back respect his decision and support him. this might be heart breaking but its the right thing to do. plus if your working it out with him and always being there for him then he might realize that hes making a terrible decision and to come back to you.
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well having studied psychiatric stuff im almost positive that your friend is messed up in the head literally. i can ALMOST garuntee you that he has been raped, molested, abused, or had a shitty home life as a kid or had something very frightening happen to him because that his not normal behavior at all. what happens when your younger that frightens you or scares you becomes increasingly attractive when your older. i think you should try to talk about his past and see why he acts like this. if you try to help him through it he may come to his senses. he should also see a councelor or psychologist to discuss his attraction for...animals. if you really love this guy dont let him go that easily because i think hes just in a rough time right now. hope this works out for you
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WOW....That whole entire thing about the Dog was....Interestting....=/....And to tell you, Im totally ok with the homosexual thing.
I think you should talk to him sooner or later because if he finds out that you have all these problems and you havent talked to him about them, then hes probobly going to be more upset then he will be when you do talk to him. I hope everything works out for you!
Love,
Shelby
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