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were can i start? i dont have any friendss.. to make a long story short i used to have alot but me and my best friend got in a HUGE argument and now im not friends with her or basically any of my so called friends that are friends with her now. Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up and he's the only one ive been hanging out with since this best friend thing happend. So basically now ive been sitting in the house. This is so depressing. I dont know how to make new friends Either they hate me or i hate them. I got into so many fights because of my boyfriend all of these girls dislike me it seems like theres not friends on the planet for me lol. some one help im so lonely
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The exact same thing happened to me. Me and my old best friend had a huge falling out from 3rd-4th grade, and I kind of "depressed" my way through fifth grade. Once I started middleschool, I met a lot of people who were like me though, and I started over new. If you're in middle shcool now, the same could happen in highschool. Don't worry. But if you're ever feeling really, really, terribly bad, you might want to see a therapist to keep from doing anything that could harm yourself.
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I know how you feel. i didnt have any friends until the 5th grade! im sure that you have more friends. im sure that your ex best friend still likes you and she probobly want to get back into your friendship. and try getting some internet friends. if you dont sit with anyone at lunch because of this, take your lunch and eat outside and read. im sure that your friends will want to get back with you because you seem like a very nice person. about your boyfriend, dont worry about him. just try to fix the problem with your friends.
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Other than the boyfriend part, I know exactly how you feel. While I'm here typing to you, people I thought I could trust are probably out having fun and (if it's one person) spreading rumors about me.
The best I can say is to talk to people who seem like they're doing nothing. Try to talk to as many people as you can and scope out possible friends. Also, join extracurricular activities. Without tennis in my own life, I'd probably be one of the biggest loners ever. They can be in-school or out-of-school. Just ask a teacher or something, or look at your local park district.
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