about

Hey everyone. I just started on here, sooo I don't have too much on my page yet. Yet. I should probably tell you a bit about myself.. I mean.. would you ask some random person for advice? Maybe.. =]
So my name, age and town shouldn't really matter. But.. You'd like to know, wouldn't you..? Yes, probably.
So my name is Ami. Ami Amplifyd if you'd like. =] Spelled like Hi Hi Puffy Ami Yumi. Their cartoon was adorable. But I digress... I'm high school aged. And I live in New Jersey.
Well, anyways.. I love music and acting. -I'm not a dork, I plan on becoming a famous actress- I play violin, piano. and I was the school's drama club for 1 year. I started late, but I managed to get a lead part in the play.

I'm a realist. Some people fail to realize I give good advice, because they don't like the sound of reality. Wake up people! Sooner or later you're going to have to give reality a chance. After all.. It is the truth.


Stuff that annoys me: Questions that are easily googled, preppy hos (well actually, hos in general, preps just get on my nerves easily) and hollister. Other than that, stuff really doesn't bother me. Oh, wait, I forgot posers. THEY are annoying.
Stuff I like: Oh this is going to go on forever. I'm a happy person. =] Let's see.. Skinny jeans in rainbow colors, converse, my hair!, dinos!, Hello Kitty, music. That's a few good things. =D


Seriously, don't hesitate to send me a quick question. I never reject any inbox questions. Unless they're completely unreasonable.
You can email me. In fact, please email me. I made that email just for advicenators, so ask away.
I've got to go now.. You haven't seen the last of me. =]

advice

If I have an essay for school on my computer is there a website I can submit it to to get it proof-read or corrected?

I'm not sure. But really, it would be much easier to get your teacher or someone else to look at it. As far as proof reading goes.. The word processing program you're using should have a spell/grammar check and whatnot. (If you're typing it)
And correcting, as in making sure that it's legit, you should have someone look at it.
Really, most websites I've been on for that take a long time, or they aren't 100% correct.
And if no one can look at it for you, email it to me; I'd be happy to look it over. -^_^-

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I straighten my hair with a iron every morning because my hair is naturally curly and I can't anything with it. I've been Straightening it for almost a year. Now, my hair is dry, brittle, fried and i have split ends! I put hair stuff on it before i straighten it but it doesnt seem to work. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should use to fix it or to put on it before i staighten it. Am i going to have to stop straightening my hair???

Alright, I have to answer this question because I have the same problem. I know you have enough answers, but this is currently my problem too. =]
-You'll wanna cut off the split ends first. So print out a picture of a cool short hair cut and get your hair cut to match.
-Hair repair: (Haha, I just realized that rhymes!)What you'd want to do here is to find a really good shampoo and conditioner, preferably designed for dry and brittle hair. I've found Herbal Essences work quite well.
-You don't have to stop straightening your hair. I use Chi Iron Guard Spray before I straigten mine. I think it works very well, better than cream or whatever. Straigten less frequently, though. If you're not leaving the house, or you're only going to grandma's house, it's probably a good idea to hold off.

I hope it works out good for you =]

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i was looking at some Illinois drinking articles and i was wondering if its true that it is ok for an adult to give there children alcoholic beverages as long as they are on private property and accompany them

I don't live in Illinois nor do I know to much about it. But I do know that underage drinking is against the Federal Law.
So I'm pretty sure the federal law applies to Illinois too.

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my friends brother is always mean 2 me. he's not mean to none of my other friends though. I always say hi!! but he'll just say f u but say hi 2 my other friends so wats his problem o yeah we used to get along but now we dont because he's been being mean

That's mean!! Who goes around telling people 'F you'?? What a jerk.
Well.. I personally would just ignore the guy. You came to see your friend, not her/his(?) brother, right? So who cares if he's a jerk?
Although, if it really bothers you, you should talk to your friend. Say something along the lines of: 'Why is your brother so mean to me?..(wait for response.)..Well can you please tell him that it's making me feel bad? Please?... It's really starting to annoy me, and I didn't do anything to him.'
Does that sound alright?
I hope that it works out for you. Message me if you need further help.

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okay, so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months. this weekend .. saturday night, i gave him head. then i left 20 minutes after. now its monday night, and i havent even talked to him. i called him twice, but no anwser. he hasnt even tried to call me. we usaully talk everyday, like every min. tomorrow we have mid-terms so i probably wont even see him. of course he wont try and look for me. but i have no idea what to even say to him IF i see him. should i ingore him? should i scream at him? or let it go? no i cant let it go, this is annoying. and the worst thing is, i cant let HIM go. what should i do

That doesn't sound good.. =[
Maybe:
-He feels uncomfortable? It may be that he thinks you're moving too fast? I don't know how close you guys are, but.. ok.
-He's not interested any more? This one is hard. I get that you like him sooo much, but he just might be ready to move on. It might not even be something you did; he might have just started to like another girl and move away from you slowly. This is hard to hear: I know. I'm just throwing some suggestions out.
-And last. Something happened. For this one, you aren't even part of the picture. Something happened in his family, like a death (I don't know.) He's sad (or something else, Again, this is just an example.) and he reaaaly doesn't want to talk about it. And possibly, doesn't want you to feel bad for him/get dragged into it.
So... I hope this helps you out. I know it's hard, and I wish you the best.

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i love the way that smells.
if any of you know how it smells and you like it, what other lotions or perfumes (from any where, a price under $50)do you like?
thanks oxox

I really like Princess by Vera Wang. I'm not sure if it's under $50, because I got it as a present.
Lots of people like Fantasy by Britney Spears. It's very.. cotton candy-ish. I think it's a little too strong, but you might like it. =]
Also, Japanese Cherry Blossom at Bath and Body Works is very pretty. And I'm sure that's under $50. Hope this is a good answer. =D

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i heard that if you count the days from your period and have sex on a specific day then you cannot get pregnant because there is no egg in there to fertilise...if so how do you do this?
thanx

No.. That's not true at all.

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is that normal havin period like Nov 25 then dec 25? on 3 or 4 day period?

Yes. That's totally normal.
Not everyone's period is like Big Ben.
Unless your'e skipping many periods, or something else really irregular, you're fine.

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how do i get over a boy?

Stop thinking about him. Do something Else.
Go out with your friends, go see your favorite band play, apply for a job at an ice cream place(if you're old enough), hang out with your grandparents.
Oh, and parties help. Go to a party. Having your own party might even be better. You'll be preoccupied with planning and inviting friends, you'll forget about him. And let's not forget, you'll be having so much fun at the party. A note: DONT GET DRUNK AND DONT DO ILLEGAL DRUGS. That would probably make everything worse.
At any rate, do something fun, time consuming and something that takes a lot of concentration.

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what will i do about my hair , face ,and closes

What do you want to be famous for?
I know a little something about being famous..
1. Join the drama club, if you wanna act. Join the chorus if you wanna sing. Join band if you wanna be a musician.
2. Go to acting classes, Take voice lessons, Get private instrument lessons.
3. Try out for a play in the nearby community theatre, go play music/sing in a senior home or something. (what I'm saying here is to get out and do a performance in public)
4. If you're serious about this whole thing, I suggest calling an agency. If you're good, you'll probably have some type of interview, and if you pass it, you'll have an agent who will guide you to fame and fortune. (that is: a good agent will)
But seriously, who taught you to spell?

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OK, so I am young and all and I have started hooking up with highschool guys like every weekend and I flirt with everyone and I can't like help myself. I went to the movies and before I knew it i was giving this guy a blow job...who I had never met and I am in like a crisis right now cus I AM BEING A SLUT and I'm scared but the guys I have "hung out with" know i am a virgin and promised not to take it from me but I know I shouldn't trust highschool horndogs and I am afraid of being raped. How do I keep from being a 14 year old nymphomaniac!?!?!?

I would say Yes, you're going too fast. It becomes clear when you say you gave some random guy a bj. But I digress.
Well, what you can do is to say No. Yeah, I know it's hard. But, what else can I tell you? I can't come with you and stand up for you. And neither can your friends. You have to just stand up for yourself.
And as far as getting raped goes.. Just don't hang out with the guys. I'm not telling you to be anti-social, because that's no fun, but if these guys are getting "out of hand" STAY AWAY FROM THEM.
I understand your flirty personality, but you have to stay away from them. I mean, hang out with them if you want to, if they're good guys. But I kind of have to doubt that, with the information you gave us.
Well, I hope this helps. Come to me any time you need help =]

Addition: You're welcome. =]

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okay, so i was in the car listening to either indie 103 or kroq. anyways, i heard a remake of superstar by lupe fiasco. does anyone know who was singing it? thanks in advance.

I'm not sure..
What I do when I don't know the artist of a random song and whatnot:
I type in the name of the song on itunes and I listen to the different clips of the songs ^_^
Of course.. itunes doesn't have every song, so youtube would be helpful in that case.
=]

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You know in the parkers (that old show on trouble with mo'nique) her daughter kim...is it true that kim and brandy did not like each other in real life?...if so why?
thanx

Hmm.. I don't know. Let's ask google.

This is a website for advice, k..?

Addition: Look, I'm sorry, but this is a website for giving advice. Not for facts on an old tv show. And what kind of feedback is 'Cow'?

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ok i was with this guy dylan and cody and becca and then zac had to come too
dylan put his arm around me and it was cute and we held hands and then he pullled me into the guys bath room and we got kicked out of the mall so we went out side and it was so cold! so he sat on a bentch and hes like rachel coem here i have to tell you somethin so i walk over to dylan adn he pulls me down on his lap i dint really care so now we are all waiting for beccas mom to poick us up and when she gets there he started text n zac and wouldnt let me see so i didnt care but whne i tryed to give him a hug good bye he blew me off kinda so i was like ok but then i relized his dad was in the drive way so i understood why ok soo all that night me adn becca were talkin about dylan and shes like hang out i got a texted from zac and im liek okkkk and he was liek me andvgirl friend just broke up!and im liek aww so

saturday we wake up at like 10 and codys like you guys need to ccome over so we did and thhen zac was there too!and im like hi hi and i huged him and then so we watched a movie and i like feel asleep on zac and he strated kissing me so i woke up and kissed him back!and then he like pulled me on top of him and we started makeing out and it was amaizng!like it was so wow! and then he got a text from dylan asking him what he was up too and he was like um with rachel and becca and cody and dylan was like can i come over i want to see rachel and zacs like no so me and zac strated makeing out again!and it was better then befor too and then he put a blanket over us and he kinda liek felt me up!!!!!!!! and yeah he gave me my first hickey!!!!!!

ok sunday hmm no call from ither guys!and i think i was a rebond for zac but when i left he was like rachel i will call you later to night!but he didnt!ahhh!what does that mean???

Umm ok.. this makes no sense. Slow down, and use some puntuaction.
I would be open to helping you. message me. =]

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