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sucky boyfriend
okay, so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months. this weekend .. saturday night, i gave him head. then i left 20 minutes after. now its monday night, and i havent even talked to him. i called him twice, but no anwser. he hasnt even tried to call me. we usaully talk everyday, like every min. tomorrow we have mid-terms so i probably wont even see him. of course he wont try and look for me. but i have no idea what to even say to him IF i see him. should i ingore him? should i scream at him? or let it go? no i cant let it go, this is annoying. and the worst thing is, i cant let HIM go. what should i do
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Sucky boyfriend? Is he really a sucky boyfriend or he is doing something sucky. Different meanings. There is a possibility that he is studying because you have mid-terms...if that's not the case...it's your choice how you wantto react to him when you see him. Show your true feelings and explain to him how you feel. I'm sorry but I don't know why you are asking such a question on advicenators. This is a question you ask your self. Ask your self and your self will guide you. If you love him then you will forgive him and not get mad. If you were hurt during his ignorance, then scream maybe. Don't ignore him because like you sad, you don't want him go! Only talking will help the problem.
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Good job to you! You have successfully realized that your boyfriend is a jerk! You know, you do not deserve this kind of treatment. What do you expect him to do the next time you guys do something, such as have sex? He will most likely continue to treat you like he is now. It's only been three months, what is there to lose? Just dump this guy and find another who will offer you copius amounts of love and happiness!
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That doesn't sound good.. =[
Maybe:
-He feels uncomfortable? It may be that he thinks you're moving too fast? I don't know how close you guys are, but.. ok.
-He's not interested any more? This one is hard. I get that you like him sooo much, but he just might be ready to move on. It might not even be something you did; he might have just started to like another girl and move away from you slowly. This is hard to hear: I know. I'm just throwing some suggestions out.
-And last. Something happened. For this one, you aren't even part of the picture. Something happened in his family, like a death (I don't know.) He's sad (or something else, Again, this is just an example.) and he reaaaly doesn't want to talk about it. And possibly, doesn't want you to feel bad for him/get dragged into it.
So... I hope this helps you out. I know it's hard, and I wish you the best.
<3 Ami.
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Have you considered that there may be something going on in his life that has stopped him from contacting you for now? It may be nothing that you have said or done.
However, before you lose your temper with him give him a chance to explain. If he doesn't come up with a suitable explanation then is the time to get cross.
It is better to remain calm and not say something you may regret before you know all the facts. Call him and ask if everything is all okay, but be prepared for him to say he will call you back. I hope all is well with you both.
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