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getting over a boy. how do i get over a boy?
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well the fisrt step is: cry!
cry like you've never cried before, put on some sad song that reminds you of him, and just cry to that.
second: promise yourself that you wont cry anymore after that. remmeber guys arent worth your tears and that this is just a bump in the road.
third: distract yourself, do school work, go out to a party, hang out with some friens, and whatever you do dont talk about him or bring him up, all you need to do is talk about right now and the future.
sometimes what helps is if you get closure, make sure you know the reason why you arent together and slowly you will learn to let go, and you will move on.
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Stop thinking about him. Do something Else.
Go out with your friends, go see your favorite band play, apply for a job at an ice cream place(if you're old enough), hang out with your grandparents.
Oh, and parties help. Go to a party. Having your own party might even be better. You'll be preoccupied with planning and inviting friends, you'll forget about him. And let's not forget, you'll be having so much fun at the party. A note: DONT GET DRUNK AND DONT DO ILLEGAL DRUGS. That would probably make everything worse.
At any rate, do something fun, time consuming and something that takes a lot of concentration.
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Keep yourself busy so you aren't always forced to think about him. Go out and do the things you love. Surround yourself with your family and friends. Throw yourself into your schoolwork. Join a club or sport. Just try to fill your life with as many activities as possible. You'll be moving so far forward, you won't have time to be worrying about a boy. ]
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