So i have this guy friend and two days ago he asked me if i wanted to hang out after school. I thought he meant with him and some friends so i said sure but it turned out he just meant me and him. i didn't think too much about it at the time because we were good friends. so we went to the movies and he insisted on paying even though i offered to pay for myself. afterwards though i started thinking about it and got confused. it was the first time we hung out out of school alone. does it sound like he is interested in me as more than a friend and he meant ''hang out'' as "go out"?
I think he's thinking of it as a date. If you're not interested in him like that, tell him as soon as possible. In my case, I reeeeally couldn't see this boy as more than a friend, but he definitely thought we were "going out" after that. (he grabbed my hand at the movie, and Ive never held hands with anyone - it was quite awkward from the start!). He might think he's being clearer about this than he actually is. In my situation, I ended up waiting a few days to tell him, because I didnt know what to say. I admit it was awkward after I told him that it was a misunderstanding (of course it would be) but it was even more awkward during those few days when he thought we were dating.
But enough about the negative possibilities...If you think you might like him try hanging out again! Maybe with some friends this time, so that it's not a set "date", and you'll have friends there as a back up, just incase something becomes awkward.
rachela answered Monday January 21 2008, 1:47 pm: he want to be with you he jsut doesnt know how to tell you sso give him a try ok and go out?he could be a great boy friend!you never know! [ rachela's advice column | Ask rachela A Question ]
orphans answered Monday January 21 2008, 8:59 am: There is a 99.9% chance that he is starting to notice you as more than that girl in class, and more like that really cool girl.
He obviously is intrested in you so kepp doing what you're doing :]
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kelseyxALPHAx answered Monday January 21 2008, 12:55 am: he deffinetly sounds interested,
But he could be exploring his options.
i think he prob. Likes you so hes seeing how its going
idk if he would want to ruin your friendship,
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