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Am I going too fast
OK, so I am young and all and I have started hooking up with highschool guys like every weekend and I flirt with everyone and I can't like help myself. I went to the movies and before I knew it i was giving this guy a blow job...who I had never met and I am in like a crisis right now cus I AM BEING A SLUT and I'm scared but the guys I have "hung out with" know i am a virgin and promised not to take it from me but I know I shouldn't trust highschool horndogs and I am afraid of being raped. How do I keep from being a 14 year old nymphomaniac!?!?!?
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I would say Yes, you're going too fast. It becomes clear when you say you gave some random guy a bj. But I digress.
Well, what you can do is to say No. Yeah, I know it's hard. But, what else can I tell you? I can't come with you and stand up for you. And neither can your friends. You have to just stand up for yourself.
And as far as getting raped goes.. Just don't hang out with the guys. I'm not telling you to be anti-social, because that's no fun, but if these guys are getting "out of hand" STAY AWAY FROM THEM.
I understand your flirty personality, but you have to stay away from them. I mean, hang out with them if you want to, if they're good guys. But I kind of have to doubt that, with the information you gave us.
Well, I hope this helps. Come to me any time you need help =]
Addition: You're welcome. =]
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try to find another way to take out your sexual desires. don't act on impulse sexually, think it through a lot and build up a strong concious descion of "NO". as for the boys, trust a bit but don't let your gaurd down. they're still horny high school boys and nothing will change that...well maybe graduating from highschool will. just put your guard up more anout imtimacy and try out some new hobbies to keep yourself too busy to be giving blow jobs. as for raging hormone stuff i think you should maybe hang with your female friends more and gush with them over hot guy celebrities while watching a movie or surfing the web for pics of them. it's gonna take mental strength but believe in yourself and don't give in! you don't want a reputation like today's troubled startlets!
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