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How do I get over a guy?
OK so I liked this guy for a longer period of time than I have ever liked anyone and I know it's not a big deal because I am young and all but ever since I got over him I am being hit on my alot of older guys and I am doing all kinds of crazy stuff (nothing illegal) just immmoral in my eyes. I asked another question that elaborates on this. SO am I doing this because I need to prove to myself I am over him or do I have an attention problem?
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Getting over a guy is not easy. You have to sort out your feelings and realize who you really have feelings for. It could be either of those things. You may feel that you want to prove you don't like him anymore or that you want a guy's attention. The best thing would be to sort your feelings out. Don't rush and throw yourself on some guy because you want to move on too quickly. Try going on a few group dates and see how it goes from there. You'll know when you're ready for a new relationship with someone else.
-hope that helped!♥
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I wouldnt call it an attention problem, but it could be because you feel you need/want the attention.
Or maybe you have friends or just people who seem to pressure you into feeling you have to do this stuff with older guys?
Never push yourself more than you wanna be pushed. Just go with the flow, dont let these older people hurt you.
You havent got an attention problem, its just a feeling of being needed and wanted, your just doing what naturally comes to mind after you split up with someone cos your so used to the one on one attention. Just dont do what you dont wanna do <3Marizzle
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