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what is comething i can give my girlfriend for valentines day that isnt flowers? she doesnt like flowers. lol. i wanted to send them to her apartment at school so i was thinking maybe a teddy bear & candy or something? any ideas? (link)
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Well, for my boyfriend, I'm gonna make him a cookie cake and ask him to be my valentine. & since I call him Prince___, I'm gonna buy him a crown. Haha. & I'm gonna have his mom stall him from going home so I can go up into his room and when he comes home, i'll be standing in his room, "Will you be my valentine?"
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Ok...well i dont know where to start exactly but here i go. It started at the beginning of november that i felt this way for this girl and what doesnt make sense is why i cant be with her because she has this guy that doesnt treat her right and doesnt pay attention.. but anyways ive been talking to her alot the pass 4 days and i could see from her how much she cares about me and she knows how much i care about her and i cant get over the fact thats what she has been feeling and said. im head over heels for this girl and ive told her everything and i feel like i can tell her anything. but whats keeping her from dumping her boyfriend and going out with me is that hes threatened to kill himslef and shes scared hes going to actually do it. but ive been told hes only saying it because he wants her to stay but i dont know what to tell her and i dont know what to do. haha im usually able to take care of this but im really stuck and ive been really depressed for the past 2 days because ive been worried about her and im scared of whats going on and im hoping everything is going okay but i dont know what to say to her now i just need help of what to do.. (link)
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Chances are, he's not gonna commit suicide. End of story.
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ok so. i know i sound really stupid asking this question but i really need to know what i should do. and it's gonna be pretty long so if you take the time to read this question and give me advice that would be AMAZING.
basically, im 16 and i like 5 GUYS. yes 5. haha i know that sounds really funny and stupid but it's kinda a big problem. like i've liked more than one guy at a time now but usually i've kinda made up my mind and like developed a better relationship with like 1 of them. but this time i feel like all the relationships are getting better and closer to like more than friends so im so confused on what to do! my girl friends understand like the situation i'm in and like they are telling me it's fine to like more than one guy but that i should really make up my mind. like i don't really wanna make up my mind. i know this sounds bad but i'm not really interested in a relationship right now. i had a year long relationship all year last year and i'm kinda sick of the boyfriend-girlfriend thing. anyways, advice on if i need to pick one of them/who i should pick?
here's a little more about the guys..
GUY A: ok. he doesn't go to my school so i don't see him very often. i mean i could see him every weekend if i wanted to but i just haven't. he's really cute and like i really like him when i'm hanging out with him and stuff. he likes me too and he asked me out like a week ago but i told him i wasn't really sure about who i liked at the moment. he was fine with that. we text all the time and sometimes talk on the phone. he's so cute and i feel like we have so much in common.
GUY B: ok this guy also goes to a different school.here's the problem. this guy also likes me but he is best friends with GUY A. i like GUY B a lot but the thing is he's not very attractive. i know that sounds bad but when i don't find someone attractive it's harder for me to like them. i really like him when i'm talking to him on the phone and stuff but i just don't like him that much when we're hanging out. he's kinda awkward too. he's also friends with the guy i went out with for a year so it would be kinda mean of me to date him. i really like him though and i can trust him with anything and everything.
GUY C: ok. aslkgjalskjdasg this guy is the most confusing guy i've ever met in my life. but i love it. it's so fun and like he's so mysterious. i like can't figure out what's going on in his head. i've known him for a long time. he goes to a different school than me. i've liked him on and off. but whenever i see him, which isn't very often, but i could see him more often, i always start liking him again. there's just something so cute about him. like i can't explain it. anyways, i like hooked up with him a few months ago and it was totally out of nowhere because i know he's never made out before and so i was his first time? so that must mean something right? he's definetly had other chances. he like flirts with me a lot but he's like confusing because he flirts with EVERY girl. i'm like not sure if he likes me or not. but i was talking to him on aim the other day and he was like 'hows GUY D?' and i was like 'what?' and he was like saying that he saw our convo on facebook or something (we were like flirting or whatever) and i was like 'oh...he's really good :)' just to see if it would piss him off. so then he was like 'do you like him?' and i was like i dont know.. i like a bunch of guys. and then he was just like ok gtg bye. like it seemed like he was mad because he's always like love you bye and stuff like that. i think he got mad either because he thought i liked him or because he thinks i like GUY D. i talk to GUY C a lot on aim but we never text or talk on the phone. he tells me he wants to hang out with me all the time but he never really calls me anymore. idk if thats because he feels like if he calls me to hang out i will think he likes me.. or what? should i like make the first move and text him or something? we used to talk on the phone sometimes and text. ugh. HES CONFUSING. but i like it. its more of a challenge compared to the other guys that i like already know like me.
GUY D: he goes to my school. he's one of my best guy friends. i went out with him 2 summers ago. he like flirts with me all the time and he like makes suggestions that he wants to hook up. we text and talk on aim all the time. he's really cute and i have fun talking to him. i hung out with him yesterday for the first time in awhile and it was really fun :)
GUY E: ok this is getting ridiculous already i know. this is the last one i promise. anyways, he goes to my school too and he's like good friends with GUY D. and he like knows that GUY D wants to like hook up with me and stuff. but he's really cute and he's also one of my good guy friends. i see him at school a lot and we talk a lot. we text sometimes. he's really cute like he holds my hand sometimes and like i dont know. he does that to a lot of girls though. hes the touchy kind of guy. i'm not really positive if i like him or not but i hung out with him yesterday too and we like flirted a lot or whatever but thats just how he usually is.
HELP!? (link)
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Yes, I took the time to read that WHOLE thing, & frankly, guy D sounds like your best choice. B seems like the type to be your BESTFRIEND, but nothing more. & long distance relationships gets tiring after a while. They don't work. & C, I think you only like flirting with them & nothing more. A is a no because of the distance. & E, NO. Because he's touchy and he just seems like a flirt, BIG TIME. SO.. D is the one I definately would go for. But it wouldn't be fair to him if you like all these guys while you're with him. So you should just hold back from all of them. Hope I was helpful!
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breakupp a month ago. he broke up with me. i liked him too much. lost any self confidence i had. HATE where i live. friends suck. some are moving next year. dont have an endless supply of friends so having friends leave is bad, even though they get really annoying. grades going down. family is annoying. cant think. help?!
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I'm in the same situation. Except for the friends part. But I've seen it happen so much that I can relate. Breaking up is just another word for, "Finding somebody better." Make new friends! Just relax and try to be happy. Stress makes my grades down horribly. But you can let your stress run your life. You run your stress. You're the boss, you call the shots! My friends always come to me for their problems. I know I don't know you or anything, but if you want you can message me & tell me more about it. But if not, good luck. & Don't be so hard on yourself. It's not your fault your life is like this. Everything will turn around for the better. I PROMISE.
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ok i was with this guy dylan and cody and becca and then zac had to come too
dylan put his arm around me and it was cute and we held hands and then he pullled me into the guys bath room and we got kicked out of the mall so we went out side and it was so cold! so he sat on a bentch and hes like rachel coem here i have to tell you somethin so i walk over to dylan adn he pulls me down on his lap i dint really care so now we are all waiting for beccas mom to poick us up and when she gets there he started text n zac and wouldnt let me see so i didnt care but whne i tryed to give him a hug good bye he blew me off kinda so i was like ok but then i relized his dad was in the drive way so i understood why ok soo all that night me adn becca were talkin about dylan and shes like hang out i got a texted from zac and im liek okkkk and he was liek me andvgirl friend just broke up!and im liek aww so
saturday we wake up at like 10 and codys like you guys need to ccome over so we did and thhen zac was there too!and im like hi hi and i huged him and then so we watched a movie and i like feel asleep on zac and he strated kissing me so i woke up and kissed him back!and then he like pulled me on top of him and we started makeing out and it was amaizng!like it was so wow! and then he got a text from dylan asking him what he was up too and he was like um with rachel and becca and cody and dylan was like can i come over i want to see rachel and zacs like no so me and zac strated makeing out again!and it was better then befor too and then he put a blanket over us and he kinda liek felt me up!!!!!!!! and yeah he gave me my first hickey!!!!!!
ok sunday hmm no call from ither guys!and i think i was a rebond for zac but when i left he was like rachel i will call you later to night!but he didnt!ahhh!what does that mean??? (link)
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Heh. Either he's using you as a rebound, or he broke it off with his girlfriend because he likes you. But this guy doesn't sound like a good guy cause he's already feeling up on you? I think Dylan is the best choice for you because if Dylan likes you, & he finds out you an Zac have a thing, he'll be crushed. Especially since they're friends. Hope that helps :)
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