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about this girl
Ok...well i dont know where to start exactly but here i go. It started at the beginning of november that i felt this way for this girl and what doesnt make sense is why i cant be with her because she has this guy that doesnt treat her right and doesnt pay attention.. but anyways ive been talking to her alot the pass 4 days and i could see from her how much she cares about me and she knows how much i care about her and i cant get over the fact thats what she has been feeling and said. im head over heels for this girl and ive told her everything and i feel like i can tell her anything. but whats keeping her from dumping her boyfriend and going out with me is that hes threatened to kill himslef and shes scared hes going to actually do it. but ive been told hes only saying it because he wants her to stay but i dont know what to tell her and i dont know what to do. haha im usually able to take care of this but im really stuck and ive been really depressed for the past 2 days because ive been worried about her and im scared of whats going on and im hoping everything is going okay but i dont know what to say to her now i just need help of what to do..
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Well, as you know shes in an abusive relationship.
She may not realize it, but her friends do. You may be the only one that has the heart to point that out to her. You may have to do that. Talk to her about it. And if she wants to break up with her boyfriend, tell her to do it over the phone. If they do it in person, he might rage at her and hit her or something like that. You cant control your feelings, so just go for it. Start out slow. If her and her boyfrannn break up, dont go for her right away. Comfort her, and wait it out. Then you go right ahead and treat her well!
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Chances are, he's not gonna commit suicide. End of story.
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You need to talk to her about this again. This can be a completely serious situation. If he is threatening suicide, she needs to help him. This does not mean that she has to keep dating him though. She needs to talk to a parent or an adult. That might make the situation more dramatic, but it's for his safety. Try helping her through this. Encourage her to talk to someone. I wouldn't suggest you talking to him though, only because he might become more upset and it is her boyfriend, so she should talk to him. She shouldn't feel pressured to stay in a relationship, but since suicide is a very serious issue, he needs to get help. Talk to her and explain to her what she needs to do to fix the situation. She needs you right now, someone who can support her. Don't try to be dating her when she's in this position. I'm not saying you are, I'm just reminding you that she needs support and needs to get help for her boyfriend. She needs a friend more than anything. If you can't convince her to go and get help, then you should consider talking to an adult about it.
-hope that helped!♥
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