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11. 08. 2008. I'M TAKING A BREAK FROM THE ADVICENATORS FOR A GOOD WHILE. I HAVE WAY TO MANY OF MY OWN PROBLEMS WITH MY OWN LIFE RIGHT NOW. IF YOU REALLY THINK I'M THAT GOOD THAT I CAN HELP YOU, EMAIL ME.


BE BACK AROUND CHRISTMAS.


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One of my good friends just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. I went to the hospital the next day and took a bunch of pictures, and I want to put them into a video scrapbook. I want to use a background song, of course, but am not sure what to use. I've looked for songs through yahoo answers, but I didn't find many I liked.

About the couple:
It's their first child & the first grandchild on both sides of the family.
The baby is a girl, so I either want gender neutral songs or girl songs
They listen to country music
They're Christian-baptist, so religious music is okay to use
I use ruckus player because it's free, so the song would have to be something I can get on ruckus.

The song doesn't have to specifically be about a baby girl, but it does have to make sense if I used it as a background song for a baby movie.

The songs don't have to be country, but those are the best because I know they would know the song.

Any and all suggestions are welcome. Please make sure you spell the song & artist correctly so I can google the lyrics. Thanks :)!

All American Girl- Carrie Underwood

My Little Girl- Tim McGraw

Just To See You Smile- Tim McGraw

Thats all I got off the top of my head.

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so i have a long distance relationship. its my first long distance relationship. i thought it would be like a normal relationship with out the dates or physical aspect. i was wrong. its so wierd to me that i have a boyfriend over the phone. and just recently something was obviously wrong, because he stopped talking to me. i asked and he said it was nothing but now im just being ignored. i hate not being able to be there for him and i hate being uncertain about everything.

what might be his problem? i really do want to help him. and does it sound like this relationship is worth my time?

thankyou,
Lily

No it isn't worth your time. I'm sorry, but those relationships NEVER work out. Find someone at your school or a guy you can at least drive to get to his house, like an hour away? The guy was probably trying to be funny or something. But to sum up your question, it really isn't worth your time. His problem is he is a guy, & stupid. : )

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I've been in a relationship for 6 months. I used to do a bit of mauy thai boxing and rugby. I'm not a pure butch girl or anything like that infact i'm the complete opposite. But when me and my boyfriend go to watch my friends in dancing shows and things he loves to watch them as they look really sexy. And i wish i had something like femanine that i done. even if i could sing or dance. I can dance and sing a little bit but i think it's too late too start dancing again as i'm 17. I just wish he'd look at me like the way he does when they're on stage. I was even thinking of changing my dress style a bit so its a bit sexier but i dn't no how to go about it. I don't want people to get the impression that i'm a tomboy or that because i'm really not i don't dress or act like a tomboy. I just like rugby and a bit of boxing.

Any ideas would be a great help



Good Questions. : )

Really, Just be yourself. Just because you don't look like the girls dancing doesn't mean he doesn't think your not beautiful. Ask him his oppinon on the way you dress dress, ask him which way he likes better. There isn't ANYTHING wrong with being a tomboy. & It's never to late to start anything, you might not be as good as the girls who've been dancing for 17 years, but just practice & see what you can do with yourself. I'm sure your boyfriend loves you the way you are. Ask him for his oppinon about you.

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im scared to talk to my school psychologist. help?

I wouldn't talk every time I had to talk to a psychologist inless I really really needed to, I know your not looking for that answer, But I'm letting you know you aren't the only one afraid of them.

You easily feel betrayed or hurt when they call your parents after you tell them whats wrong? That's why I don't talk to them. If you have to talk to them, just try talking a little bit for each session. Stay quiet if you don't want to answer something the first time. If you aren't required to talk to them about your problem, try asking it to on here. Someone is pretty much guartneed to help you.

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I have been talking to this girl for about two weeks. She is really cool and I have grown to really like her. But unfortunately she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend lives in north Carolina. We live in PA. She is convinced that they will be together forever. But he is a control freak, and she knows it. She constantly rants to me about it, so there are already problems in the relationship. My question is how do I win this girl over?

If the girl talks about together forever then you can't really force them apart. Be honest with the girl & tell her you like her. She might like you back & go out with you. Take a chance.

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im 18/m and i have tattoos coverin practily my whole right arm and sum on my chest. I have crosses, names, scriptures etc. But I want to get sumthin on my left arm I jus can't seem to think of anything at all. Any feedback wud be great. Thanks

I have no idea, but I went to photobucket & looked up some ideas. Hope you get a few ideas.

http://photobucket.com/images/tattoo%20for%20men/

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A lot of people think I have a drug problem. I know I don't. I am 16 and I am unsure how to get everyone off of my back about this subject.

I freaked out on a kid at school because he told me that, he called me a loser and said that I would never amount to anything and all of this bull shit. I used to be pretty cool with this kid. And it came out of nowhere. Its not even like he was being "concerned" he was being a dick. So I called him a few names and smacked him.

But this was only one of about four or five people that has said this to me.

what should I do to get them all of my case?

If you want an honest answer from a girl whos been there, tell them they don't know shit about you & to keep their mouths shut. Even if you did do drugs, it isn't anyones bussiness to say shit. The five people are either fake, or listening to rumors about you doing drugs. Don't waste your time being upset or confused about any of them. All you have to do is prove to them you don't do drugs, or even think about it. If they still can't, I'd try getting some friends who believe you. Best of luck : )

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Hooray for winter time, that means a new hoodie. I just don't know where to get one! I want one with fur on the inside, preferably a skate hoodie....But i also want it to be really really vibrant and I want it to stand out. Please send me some ideas....Budget is like....somewhere around 70.

Here is a bunch of websites just in case you don't live by any stores.

http://shop.pacsun.com/catalog/thumbnail.jsp?parentCategoryId=277&categoryId=335&&sortBy=NEW_ITEM_DATE&showSortNewest=Y&showSortPrice=Y&showSortBrand=Y&view=100&viewall=1

http://www.google.com/products?hl=en&q=skate+hoodies+with+fur&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=X&oi=product_result_group&resnum=1&ct=title

http://www.tradekey.com/ks-skate-hoodie/

http://www.eastbay.com/catalog/advancedSearch/search--k/keyword--womens+skate+hoodies/cm--TnDdSkateHomeP/

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im a b cup but somehow my chest is too wide and i dont have cleavage while some other people do

would a push up bra really help? if so, is victorias secret too overrated? where is the best place to get a push up bra?

It's not over-rated, if you live by one go to the mall & try it on and see if you like it better. It might help, you never know : ) or you can always order it & send it back, just tell them it didn't fit. & victorias secret is the best, but if you want something cheaper, JcPenny has just as decent ones.

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I really didn't know where to put this so I'm sorry if this in the wrong category! I'm just wondering how effective self tanning lotions are and which kinds work the best. Only the cheap over the counter stuff please. =]

It works depending on your skin tone, I found a website with the top 10, & reviews. Hope I help. : )

http://www.consumersearch.com/www/family/sunless-tanning/

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U seem like u no enough to answer my question. Y do ppl cut?

I could type an essay on your question. & Yes, I know enough about cutting. I'm going to send you links, because I don't have an hour to type this because I know a lot about it.

But first off, don't ever tell someone they want or crave attention when they cut, it isn't the truth.

Telling your school counsler will make things worse. They contact your parents, and hell starts all over again, I would recommend you finding someone professinal.

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html

http://health.discovery.com/centers/teen/cutters/cutters.html

http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Cutting-Yourself'

http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/features/cutting-self-harm-signs-treatment



I hope these articles can help you, Sorry I didn't write it all myself.

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hey you answered my question about my bumper stickers not showing up and i did go to boxes and they're not there =( do you know what could have happened to them?

They're not there at all? That's so weird. I have no idea what could of happened to them then, but you can email facebook help at

http://www.new.facebook.com/help/contact_generic.php?bug

and tell them the problem, and ask them why it won't work. I hope you find them! I couldn't live without Bumper Sticker : )

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ever since the new facebook came, none of my bumperstickers have been showing up except for one =( its depressing lol how can i get them back?

Are you looking at the part where it says Boxes; not wall, info, or that type of stuff. All of them should come up when you click the section that says boxes. If not, they're probably deleted & it messesed up on your profile. Inbox me If you need more. : )

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http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.camera-catalog.com/timgs/kodak_m853_1.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.camera-catalog.com/digitalcameras/opticalzoom/camera/kodak_m853&h=300&w=405&sz=19&hl=en&start=8&usg=__FLCEG8RRrNpsbkDM6TiyMciDhGI=&tbnid=g7sH3AHXrloq6M:&tbnh=92&tbnw=124&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dm853%2Bdigital%2Bcamera%26gbv%3D2%26hl%3Den%26safe%3Doff%26sa%3DG

I have this kind of digital camera. I charged it like 2 nights ago because my mom was going to take it on a trip. It didn't charge. I just plugged it into my computer and it never charged. Can anyone tell me if I did something wrong and how to charge it?

I have that camera also, you don't plug it into your computer to charge. Your suppose to get this box looking thing that plugs into the outlit on your wall, hook your USB cord up to, then put that in your camera. So another words, you have this black box that plugs into your outlit, you put your USB cord in the bottom of the box, and hook it up to your camera. It charges pretty fast to.

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I have this bestfriend who I absolutely love to death. She's 14 years old. She started smoking at 13 and she won't stop. She will seriously do just about anything for ciggarettes. She smokes sooo much. She's always coughing, I told her that it's slowly killing her but she won't listen! She gets persuaded so easily. I'm afraid that next it's gonna be drugs. She hasn't had sex before, But she's done everything but that! And i'm afraid that soon she's gonna take the next step. She always sneaks around with guys who are WAAY older then her to the point where it's illegal. She also cuts for stupid reasons. Her parents know that she does and they didn't really do anything about it when they found out. The last time she cut herself was because her boyfriend didn't text her. It's ridiculous. How do I help lead my friend in the right direction? She's going down the wrong path and it's killing me.

Your friend is going to end up dead in a few years if she doesn't knock her shit off. That isn't the answer you want, but it's true.

14, and smoking? Chances are, you won't get her to stop. You need to just tell her what you said above to her face, have a serious talk & explain to her everything. If she doesn't care that she is killing herself, then you really shouldn't either. Drugs are usually the next step, and you can't stop this girl.

The sex there really isn't anything you can do but talk to her about it, your friend doesn't sound like she should be your friend, does she try to presure you into stuff?

You need to talk to her parents, or someone who cares about this kid, she is really going in the wrong direction, and if you can't help her, talk to your school cousler, a family member who cares for her, ANYONE.

K, I know a lot people cut themseleves, but because her boyfriend didn't TEXT her? That's a little under immature.

I don't even know what to tell you besides talk to her, or get her help. I hope this helped you, and your really a good friend for doing this. (:

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whats the name of that song that says something like::"and when the angles sing" and it goes wido wido woop wido wido woop or something like that!

When the Angels Sing Lyrics
Artist(Band):Social Distortion

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okay, so i put one in around 2 ish. i took that out about 3:45. because i needed a sports one for sports. it's been like 3hours, and it's like stuck, and it really hurts, cuz somehow skin is in there, ,,
its not completely full.. but it's killing me..?!
how do i take it out, with out hurting myself anymore..

This is going to sound sick, but like pull apart the "cheaks" of your vagina, then pull the tampon out. It will hurt, but like.
I don't know how to explain this, like pull apart the flaps with 2 fingers, then pull the tampon out real fast with your other hand.

Good luck, and if it hurts to bad, I know this is nasty, but you may have to ask your mom or grandma or aunt to help you out. But you need to change it tonightt, so anyone who can help, needs to.

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does anyone know how to put music on the palm centro? im having difficulties so any help or advice would be great

There are multiple things you need to do to get the music onto your phone from the program that comes with it. (ugh, i know).

1. Make sure you have a memory card for your phone. (without it your phone will not beable to store any music) I reccomend at least a 2GB, but i have a 4GB which is quivalent to one of the iPOD nanos.

2. Install the Sprint Music Manager, which comes on a disc that is in the Palm Centro box.

3.In Sprint Music manager, click Manage, and then at the bottom "add music" . Follow the instructions and add the music to your Sprint library from your computer. If you dont have any music on your computer, click Get, and you can buy music from the sprint store.

4. Turn on your phone, open Ptunes, and plug the phone into the computer using the given USB.

5. You will probably have to Hot Sync your phone, and if you do, a box will (most likely, as it did for me) appear on your computer. Follow those instructions in order to hot sync it. You will have to insert the disc again so it can install the program. (This step gave me a lot of problems, and i ended up ending the Hot Sync, but the music transfer worked anyway)

6. Click home on your phone and Ptunes again, and open up Sprint Music Manager. Your phone will say 'connecting to your PC' or something along those lines. DO NOT DISCONNECT YOUR PHONE[:

7. In Sprint Music Manager, click Transfer, and if your phone is connected properly, it will say CONNECTED somewhere near the top. In the left-hand side box, it will say "Songs" along with a couple other things. Click SONGS and if you want to add all of those songs, but dont feel like dragging and dropping each and every one of them, hold shift down, click the first song, (KEEP HOLDING SHIFT) and click the last song. All songs should be selected and click on them and then drag and drop them into the bottom box.

8. Once you've put all of the songs you want in the bottom box hit transfer, and then DONT EXIT ANYTHING WITH YOUR PHONE OR THE SPRINT MUSIC MANAGER. It may take a while, depending on how many songs you have, and if you have enough room on your card, then all of your songs will be on your phone in Ptunes once the transfer is complete.


** NOTE: MAKE SURE YOU UNTIE YOUR USB CORD, BECAUSE IF YOU DONT THE CONNECTION WILL BE WEAK AND IT WILL KEEP ON UNCONNECTING AND THEN RECONNECTING.


( This answer is NOT mine, I searched Google, and found this.)

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So this guy just asked me to the homecoming dance and i think he very funny but i dont see me dating him at all.....i think im looking for a guy whos actually cute...and sweet....hes kinda on the fatside too(the guy who asked me)....so how should i turn him down?

No offense but thats kind of rude.

If you want to be like that, then just tell him you'd rather go with your girlfriends.

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So they say if you wanna lose weight
STAY AWAY from junk food,
i mean i understand you shouldnt eat 2 MUCH.
but why wud u stay AWAY from it completely?
i mean if you lose all the weight you want then you go back and see all the food you love
and you want some ull jus gain it all back
dont you think you should have whatever you want but in small amounts?

Your question is one of the best questions i've seen around here in a long time. Don't stay away from it complelty. Just cut back, or small amounts. (:

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