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Member Since: September 1, 2008
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Last Update: September 3, 2008
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My stomach has been feeling bloating and well constipated like for basically about a week. i have chest pain too. about a week ago i got very drunk at a party i threw up that night but i didnt know if my stomach problems now had anything to do with that? if anyone knows what could be wrong with me please let me know (link)
I suggest that you go to the doctor, although i did have alcohol poisning once and i had similar symptoms but not a week after.. :S x


16/f

so recently i started getting high and i'm normally a pretty shy person. i mean i'm like loud around my friends and stuff but like new people i meet and stuff it's harder for me. but i was at a party last night and i met this kid and i guess i came off as a little bitchy at first and like quiet but then i smoked and he was like wow you're so much more fun when you're high and so basically it like makes me into the person i want to be.. like more fun and loud and stuff. like that's the personality i want. i'm like scared i'm gonna get addicted to smoking because i want that personality so bad. what should i do? (link)
If he likes you better when your high then he dosn't like the real you. I used to be the same, except i was a chain smoker because it relaxed me and made me be who i wanted to be. Obviously liking yourself is the most important thing but i reckon that you should just try to relax a little and think yuno i only live once lol.. :)


helllo:D
i have no extra curricular activities to my name! i'm not much of a team player, so sports are out of the question! i also dont really like anything they have to offer. So is there anything i can do that will be useful to put on my resume? also, do extra curricular activities have to be in school? can stuff like amrtial arts be "extra curricular" if i dont do them at school? thanks?:) (link)
You should go to the gym :) its fun and you can put it on your resume x


18/f.

I have social anxiety, or social phobia.
What can I do about it, I am always worried about what other people think of me and I am always so uncomfortable and try to avoid social things and eye contact. It has been much worse for me lately. (link)
I used to suffer from this, its absolutely awful i no. But you basically just need to boost your confidence a little, i found going to the gym helped me alot. That might seem big for you, obviously depending on the extent of your anxiety. But remeber even little things count, like walking to the supermarket. So remeber to reward yourself for doing little things. You will over come this fear :)


Ok, so my boyfriend lives in Venezuela, and I live in Florida. I used to live in venezuela, when I met him, and we were like madly in love. Then i moved here, and we are still trying to keep up the relationship. But the thing is, he is VERY committed to getting married, having a family, and everything, and I am not. I mean, I dont know how it's gonna work out, if he ends up being the one, well thats fine, but I am still young (16) and if it doesn't work out, i understand that there are other guys. But I have told Carlos that, you know, I can't promise anything, I dont know whats gonna happen between us until we can be together again, and he says: I know, I know, but then just goes right back to saying "youre the one im going to marry and have a family with"

My worries are, what if I do have to break up with him. He is very clingy and sensitive, and I feel like he might die if I did, even though I really don't want our relationship to end now, but if it had to someday I dont know how he would take it.

And i dont want to say "we are NOT going to get married" because, he really is one of the best people I have ever met, and also I dont want him to think that im not taking this relationship thing seriously.

thanks (link)
Basically i wouldn't worry about it at the moment, your still young and like you said things could change. But don't feel pressured at all into marrage or starting a family, thats the worst thing that could happen. You marry him and you only do it because he wants you to, don't feel pressured at all. By the sounds of it he sounds pretty understanding so im sure he would respect your wish's if you aren't ready for this sort of commitment.




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