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long distance relationship. worth my time?


Question Posted Saturday November 8 2008, 11:56 am

so i have a long distance relationship. its my first long distance relationship. i thought it would be like a normal relationship with out the dates or physical aspect. i was wrong. its so wierd to me that i have a boyfriend over the phone. and just recently something was obviously wrong, because he stopped talking to me. i asked and he said it was nothing but now im just being ignored. i hate not being able to be there for him and i hate being uncertain about everything.

what might be his problem? i really do want to help him. and does it sound like this relationship is worth my time?

thankyou,
Lily


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Razhie answered Saturday November 8 2008, 1:57 pm:
The relationship is probably not worth your time, but it's always worth the effort to SPEAK to someone about the problems in a respectful and honest way.

Tell him you feel like something is up and this isn't working. Tell him you aren't really happy with the long distance thing, and ask him if he agrees, if he does, great! Then you can totally friendly-like break up.

If you don't just lay your cards on the table that plainly, then one of you will just pick a fight eventually and end up in a not so friendly break up. Cut that crap out, and just be honest.

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Saturday November 8 2008, 1:10 pm:
No, It's not worth your time. Usally when they start not to call and ignore you it's because they have a girlfriend around there or another long distant relationship. I think you should just break it off. Good Luck.

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crash_and_burn answered Saturday November 8 2008, 12:37 pm:
No it isn't worth your time. I'm sorry, but those relationships NEVER work out. Find someone at your school or a guy you can at least drive to get to his house, like an hour away? The guy was probably trying to be funny or something. But to sum up your question, it really isn't worth your time. His problem is he is a guy, & stupid. : )

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