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drug problem?


Question Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 12:16 pm

A lot of people think I have a drug problem. I know I don't. I am 16 and I am unsure how to get everyone off of my back about this subject.

I freaked out on a kid at school because he told me that, he called me a loser and said that I would never amount to anything and all of this bull shit. I used to be pretty cool with this kid. And it came out of nowhere. Its not even like he was being "concerned" he was being a dick. So I called him a few names and smacked him.

But this was only one of about four or five people that has said this to me.

what should I do to get them all of my case?


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mariacarlax answered Thursday December 11 2008, 10:52 pm:
Same thing happens to me all the time.
i've even had the principle drug test me .

so don't feel to bad.
But what you could do, is if you did something to make people think that you need to tell them that you make your own decisions, and that your life is nobody's concern except yours.

if not tell them to fuck off.
it works :D

If not, try and prove people wrong and join a sport or something.

Hope that helped! <3

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crash_and_burn answered Sunday November 2 2008, 8:24 pm:
If you want an honest answer from a girl whos been there, tell them they don't know shit about you & to keep their mouths shut. Even if you did do drugs, it isn't anyones bussiness to say shit. The five people are either fake, or listening to rumors about you doing drugs. Don't waste your time being upset or confused about any of them. All you have to do is prove to them you don't do drugs, or even think about it. If they still can't, I'd try getting some friends who believe you. Best of luck : )

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josephballard10 answered Sunday November 2 2008, 3:26 pm:
First of all you need to convince them and yourself most importantly. Now, about them being on your case, some of them are probably just your friends and are just looking out for you. As for the kid who said those things to you, you did the right thing by smacking him. Don't listen to him or no one else, I know kids in my school that smoke and only get bothered by those that are immature, those who are mature simply do not care about what another person does I mean come on its your life, so live it how you want to you know? And if as for everyone who stays on your case simply ignore than, because that means that they have nothing to do with their life so they must butt into another person's life. Which makes them very immature. So live your life, and dont get discouraged because of what 4-5 people say to you. That's normal. someone's always going to talk and only few will confront you. As long as it's not 25-30 people coming to you within a month and saying you have a problem, than your okay.

Please leave me feedback on my answer, thankyou :)

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