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Are there any type of pills or drinks that will make me feel full all the time? And I need stuff that can be bought at kroger/walmart. =D
And alsoooo, what are the best types of fat burning pills?
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I know that if you drink water with each meal, it helps you feel fuller faster, plus it's really good for your skin. Also, if you push your meal into sections and just pace through eating one section at a time, you'll feel fuller quicker, too! Hope this helps.
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Hi, My name's Rae, I'm a 17/f. My 19 yr old boyfriend just left for the Navy like, an hour ago. He's going to basic training and I won't be able to talk to him on the phone as often or see him at all until 9 weeks (His family and I are driving to Chicago for his graduation in late March). I just need to know how I can deal with this. It's so hard for me to be away from someone that I truly love. We've been together for so long and I feel so out of place without him. Please, help. Love, Rae. (link)
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I was in a similar situation, so I know how you feel. What I did to pass the time during his BT was I would write down something(s) I wanted to tell him every day that I couldn't talk to him. When I could finally start sending him letters, it was the first thing I sent him and it really meant a lot for both of us.
There isn't much you can do to ease the seperation anxiety except to know that when you finally get to speak to him again, how much you've been thinking about him every day can actually be expressed into words-- because you've been writing it all down. And it just makes it that much more special when you're able to communicate again.
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k i have this friend and shes 16 and we're like really close... shes really sweet and teachers love her, all honors classes, honor roll, the whole deal. but lately shes been like rebelling a lot i guess and i don't like it at all. i mean i'm finee with alcohol and i'm even ok that she does pot once in a while.. but now shes like hooking up with random older drunk and she wants to have sex with one of them... but i think she'll really regret it later.. i mean shejus met the kid and they're not gonna go out. and also shes going to this party for st patricks day this weekend that im esp. worried about.. in order to get there she has to drive her and her friends and she only has her permit! so like.. if she gets pulled over i'm really scared.. plus there's gonna be more intense drugs at this party that i really don't like. i try to tell her she's making a mistake but she won't listen and tells me to 'live for today' ... idk am i being to harsh?? are there any specific ways to tell her? and getting new friends is not really an option for me. trust me, its not gonna work. thanks =/ (link)
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I'd tell her not to drive, first of all. It's St. Patty's day weekend, and there will probably be tons of random cop-stops.
Not to mention, if she's drinking or doing drugs at this party and tries to drive not only herself, but her friends home, it's going to land her a harder problem than just driving with a permit.
Present her with all of the that are likely to go wrong with this, along with the long-term results of her actions. Maybe it'll knock some sense into her.
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One of my best friends just can't seem to get a date. Because of this, he is extremely depressed...and it's been getting worse and worse. He gets frequently depressed, sometimes even if the tiniest thing happens, and as a result, he punches walls, he verbally lashes out at my boyfriend, goes into his room and listens to depressing music...and sometimes he has even talked about suicide...he even says his family has a history of this kind of thing...
My boyfriend and I have talked to him over and over and over again, but nothing seems to help...most of the time when we're talking to him, he just ignores what we're saying and gives us cynical comments. Even if what we say cheers him up, it just happens all over again within a day or two...We're running out of things to say to him.
When the talk of seeking help comes up, he just plain refuses to see a therapist...
I am in desperate need of help...Anything, please...
Thank you.
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I have a guy friend that is exactly the same way.
What happened for him is, is that he actually made new friends and completely forgot about being single. Chances are, your friend just needs a change of pace. Try to take him somewhere he hasn't been in a while, or never has been. See if you can get him to meet new people or even get a new hobby. Being single is just the most reasonable excuse for the hole in him. Try filling it with something else.
But, really, I wouldn't suggest setting the guy up.
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ok im dating this girl and we are doing good
but i meet this other girl that im inlove with and i feel like losing my love for my gf
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You need to figure out what problems you and your girlfriend have. If you were close with her, chances are you wouldn't love another girl.
Once you figure out what your problems are, decide if you want to try to work them out. If not, tell your girlfriend immediately the problems you have with the relationship and that you just can't deal with working through them.
Then, I'd give it a good month (or more, depending on how long you've been with your girlfriend) before getting hooked up with this new girl.
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ok well about 5 months ago i was going out with some guy named jason whom i really liked so much but we broke up because he started acting wierd...anyways well while we were still dating we would have so much fun and have good talks and stuff and i would tell my friend isabel all about it. she always would instigate and tell me that he probably used the same cheezy lines with everygirl and then it turns out that she likes him now and they keep on kissing each other and shes always telling me about it like if i actually wanted 2 know!! it really bothers me and i feel that she is so dumb cuz shes all talkin lemme say shit about him and now shes practically going out with him too!!
today we were in p.e. and she kept on playinq around and she hit me with a soda bottle in my face so i got mad and i socked her so hard on her head and she qot like really serious and damn im telling you it felt good! hahaha
well the thing is that my other friend told me that she kissed him 10 times today and i know for a fact shes going to be all rubbing it in my face tomorrow even tho she knows that i really liked him! plz help me!wut do i do when she tells me??what can i do to react in a calm way&pretend that it dosent bother me?..do i even pretend or just straight out tell her 2 shut da fliick up&stop being such a hoe-cak3?!plz help me friiends are so important to me like more than a guy but is she really supposed to be considered a friend after what she did?[[and i would understand if she REALLY REALLY liked him but she plays around with everyone like that even her cousins!..yez she macked on her cousin too just so he wouldnt go out with me!!]] thx in advance=]
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Guess those "cheezy" lines worked on her.
If she's even getting incestuous just so you can't get her cousin, she's going to do this to every guy that you like/likes you. I say you tell her immediately that you're not interested in being her friend anymore, because she's only in it to make you feel and look bad.
And, really, feel grateful that you got rid of that guy. You're going to find someone a whole lot better and that girl won't be around to mess with your relationship.
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I want to lose some weight (about 10 pounds) and get in shape (get toned and fit..lose some jiggle!) I already have a flat tummy, but would like some definition..i don't want to bulk up, i want to be toned (i am a girl..if this was not already obvious..) what kind of workout should i be doing? (link)
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You should get one of those belly-dancing type of workout tapes. It tones your tummy and it's fun. I do this with a friend of mine. A lot of the time, we tighten our stomachs just from laughing.
Do something you can have fun with, regardless. Also, keep in mind, that if you're toning yourself up, you're more likely to stay the same weight or ever gain some because of the new muscle mass!
Good luck.
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I was diagnosed with Endometriosis over 4 years ago. I've had 2 surgeries to treat it, been on Lupron for a year and I am STILL having tons of problems.
The most problematic issue right now is that when i have sex or masterbate, and if I have an orgasm I immediatly afterwards am boiled over in pain. It's a very intense pain and usually lasts about 5 minutes or more. Recently, I have noticed that I bleed right afterwards as well. It's not a lot of blood, but still it's pretty scary.
I've seen countless gynos and no one has any suggestions on how to help, or any idea of what could be wrong. I'm just so frustrated.
I'm lucky to be with a very loving boyfriend who understands and helps how he can. But i'm tired of not being able to enjoy sex for fear of the pain. I just have no idea what to do. (link)
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In regards to the last answer, if you're NOT done with your family yet, I've heard having a child can actually clear up a lot of the problems of Endometriosis.
Other than that, I haven't got anything useful to tell you, but I hope that someone can help you soon.
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this might sound really stupid but i really dont have any idea lol... how do the penis actually enter the vagina... yes i am a virgin lol. while having sex how does it actually get in there? will i be able to do it or him (link)
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Is the guy a virgin? If not, you'll know it when it gets in there.
I suggest you don't try to do it for him, especially if you're not sure where to put it.
You'll figure it out pretty quick, since there's really only one hole you can put it in (as pertaining to your female-bits). Just go slow and be easy.
Also, if you can, I suggest finding some sort of picture description of sexual intercourse and also read up on some ways to practice safe-sex. Make sure he wears a glove and makes sure you put it on and take it off the way you're supposed to.
Good luck, and have fun.
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welll i was just wondering if like, the day before you wear a skirt, you could make your legs look better. i don't mean lose 5 pounds or gain a lot of muscle or anything like that, but just make them look better, like a little more toned. i have pretty muscular thighs, so are there any stretches you can do to elongenate(sp?) them so they look a little less bulky? or anything like that to tone up your calves.
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Buy stockings with vertical stripes on them. They make your legs look longer and slimmer!
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After reading this you'll be thinking 'Lame teenage problem' but this is a big deal to me. As of last week I was known as the nice girl you can trust and will never bitch about you behind your back. But now that's down the drain. I'm now known as a bitch who says heaps of crap behind people's backs. What happened was that one of my 'friends' and I drifted away (No fights, nothing) and I haven't been to school in about a week due to being sick so now was the best time to tell everyone I have been bitching behind their backs to her (Even though I haven't) so now everyone is angry with me and I'm not even there to defend myself. I have no idea what bought this on. I was still friends with her, just not as close and if anyone should be angry it's me because she's been ditching me for her new friends (Her new friends have nothing to do with this don't worry) (link)
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When you get back to school, confront her in a very, very calm manner in front of the "friends" she's been telling these things to.
Putting her in this position forces her to do one of two things: Tell you that you're lying to your face or backtrack and expose herself in front of everyone as a liar. If she calls you a liar to your face just to save her image, I suggest finding new "friends". If your old ones are so eager to turn their backs on you, this situation could (and probably will) happen again.
However, during this confrontation, I suggest you not yell, and walk away if it begins to escalate into a fight. That way, you have dignity and, bonus, you don't get kicked out of school!
You can always find people who will be your friend and stick by you. This girl is not one of them.
I say, either way, you get out of this volatile group of "friends".
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Ok..I'm torn between two girls..I like both of em, but I'm not sure which one to get over..One I met a couple of days ago and everything just sorta clicked between me and her. The other one I met last year and she is like my best friend...So which one should I get over and which one should I ask out... Thanks in advance. (link)
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If the one girl is your best friend, I suggest trying things out with this new girl.
Hooking up with your best friend may eventually lead to deeper problems, such as losing a girlfriend AND your best friend. Also, if you get into petty arguements, you both know so much about each other all ready that it will cut deep.
However, I suggest you really weigh your feelings. If you truly feel that a relationship with your best friend would benefit you both and would make you the happiest, I say go for it!
Good luck with your decision.
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we went out for a year and a half and he cheated on me with some other girl then he cheated on her with me and told me we were gonna get back together.. we had sex and everything and he told me he loved me then out of nowhere he told me he doesnt think our relationship is gonna work out and told me he doesnt want to see me anymore. i told him i didnt wanna talk to him anymore because theres no reason because ill just keep falling in love with him and never get over him. the problem is he wont stop calling.. and he calls from private numbers. and he tries to be my friend! i dont get it does he still love me? (link)
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He's using you. If he keeps you in his good graces, then he can come back and do whatever he likes with you whenever he feels like it's convenient for him.
I'd hang up on him the next time he calls and every time after that. Once you distance yourself from him and the situation, you'll feel better and you'll be free to move on to another (hopefully more fulfilling) relationship.
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I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you. (link)
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If the girl reported it to the police in time, they'd have given her a pill to elminate the chance of a fetus.
If she couldn't report it, I'd be for aborting the fetus, yes. In the case of rape especially, or in the case that the child has significant risk from both parents of dying from something terrible in it's early years.
I think that a girl at 11 is certianly not all right to give birth.
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