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okay im sorry again but i have another quesiton.
so i just got the razor phone yesterday and i absolutly love it. but whenever i take pictures, it gets really wierd. like after i store the picture and look at it in the photo gallery, it looks messed up and there are lines in it. does this happen to you and what should i do to make these lines and things disappear? thanks SO much
and sorry one more thing. you when when you press the talk button, it only shows the people that you have called, is there any possible way that you can put the people that called you on there too?
and thanks SO MUCH!
im sorry its so long!
It's ok sweetheart say take it back to the store or call the company the carrier of your phone and tell them about the problem and tell them that you want the warrenty service number and call then if they dont have a warrenty number go to the store and they will give you a brand new one trust me honey for free
your truly,
Bella
i see that you have a razor phone.. how do you charge the phone because when i was looking at the phone i couldnt see anything where it could be charged? and also do you suggest it ? like is it worth it? thanks
on the side of the phone the lower right and stick the charger in the only opening on the phone and yes it is worth it
Okay..,
My friend told me that she is pregnant ......
2 days ago she told me that they had unprotected sex and that he came in her for the first time.
can you really see on a pregnancy test after 2 days that you are really pregnant?
thx
no you cant tell the most you should best wait till take a pregnancy test is 2 weeks after your missed period I know I was pregnant before trust me tell her to try it 2 weeks after her period is missed or even if she dont miss her period still tell her to take one 2 weeks later and tell her to use first response trust me she'll be able to tell still
Yours Truley
Bella
Okay well as a young child i was raped multiple times by the same person. and out of the blue i get flashbacks and they keep on coming back to me. Like even when im watching TV lying down on my bed i picture him coming into my room and i freak out. Its been like a decade ago and it still scares me...if this is happening now, whats gonna happen when i want to do stuff with a guy? how do i get rid of it? i dont want to go to a therpist or anything cuz they just freak me out even more!
Okay honey listen my real name is Shaniqua and I was raped by someone I did'nt even know but my best friend set me up and Im Telling you for almost a year I have been to school because I was always depressed and everyday I would wake up and see it happening again I was scared and felt alone but sooner then I thought I was gonna go crazy that's why i decide to get help and trust me Im starting to feel better and it is a big relief you think about it but not that much and I think you should go to counseling for people who have been raped and it helps I would'nt even lie to you and even though I don't know you I dont want you to end up like me no friends and being afraid and then you start hating being around alot of people and trust that's the worst feeling of my life and trust me if you wanna talk personally you can write me at Salena_galena@yahoo.com
and even though the counselors freak you out your not going there for there health your going for yours and they dont pressure you to talk and they tell you that but they want you to get used to them and then you can open up and they will be there as long as you want them to but please go take it from someone who understands you and know what your going through and im here to talk to you about anything Ive been through alot for a 17 year old and trust me you would think im in my 30's.When you try to do stuff with a guy your be scared your not gonna want him to touch you kiss you or hold you or do anything and it's gonna bring back flash backs and it's not supposed to go that way ever since I started going to counseling I 've been able to talk to my boyfriend and im no longer afraid to be touched or anything and I dont have flasj backs to much either my life is starting to get better everyday because im going to counseling gettin my life back together and trust me I dont think you want yours to get even worse so please go it would really help plz i know how you feel so go so you can move on and be happy with out falsh backs okay
Yours truley
Bella
well i am 13 and having my second child. that pretty much says it all. help?
well your 13 and having a 2 child honey your not telling me much to give you my advice and trust me I can really help you I've been pregnant 3 times but I never keppt them I have been an Aunt for 11 years changing diapers feeding them just practically raising them so what ever you want to tell me you can just write me on here or IM me at Bebelean@aol.com
Everything you tell me will be confidential
not even posted on my web site okay !
Bella is always here for anyone with the truth
yea ok.... im 16 and i cant find a good bra that like fits me and stuff.... like i want a push up but i need it in a 34D or 38D and all that i can find one in is C's and then they are too small... does anyone know where i could find a good one??
Listen go to any lingerie stor or go to victoria secret but when you go get a cusion bra that pushes up it will make them higher then what you want them to be .Or you can just where a regular bra but tighten the straps and stick your hand in yourand pull your titie towards the middle and do the other one and put as h9igh as you want to until you satisfies trust me I do it all the time
Bella's
15/f, i like this guy whos in 11th grade and hes on the track team with me. we're friends, and he always calls me his "bestest bud" and always hugs me when he sees me, and teases me, and well when im near him he always puts his arms around me, around my waist or shoulders. and when we are out like, eating at a restaurant with the team (team dinners) he always has me sit next to him, or just pays attention to me. well its obvious to you readers that i like him a little, it may just be a crush but hes sweet and hes nice and cares, we just talk and well i feel good when im with him. soo do you think he likes me, what should i do around him, because track season is almost over (this wed.) and we wont see eachother as much, maybe like 1 time a day for like 1 minute! soo i dont know what to do, hes just someone i want to stay in my life, even if its just as a friend! help, any advice??? I WILL RATE 5'S!!!!!!
Okay honey I've been in these kinds of situations plenty of times and what you do is while your having a conversation ask him what do you think of me? Then ask in what way do you like me? After say can you see me as your girl friend and then wait for his answer and when he ask why just say i just ask and then look down and flip your to the side and kiss him and give him your number and say what do you think of that and beleive you'll have his attention and you'll get to see him as often as you want and by the way the way you said he acts around you.Momma !HE GOT IT BAD FOR YOU do don't worry
Yours Truley Bella
trust me don't be scared or shy ans if you are don't let it show
okay
So, me and my boyfriend just bought a house and the previous owners apparently never raked the leaves up, so the yard was full of leaves and trash and various poo's. Yesterday, we just got the last of the leaves raked up, and throughout noticed that there were a few piles of dog poo that weren't there the day before. I didn't think much of it, because I assumed that whoever left it just assumed that since the area was full of leaves and trash, that we wouldn't mind or notice a little "fertilizer".
But, today, just one day after getting the lawn trash and leaf-free, we noticed yet another pile of dog poo.
My questions are...
How can I catch whoever is letting their dog poo in our yard?
And, What should I do to make them stop?
Just so you know, the law in my town is a $500 fine for getting caught for not picking up after your dogs, but no one ever gets caught even though we live 50 feet from the police station.
First of all you can by a camcorder and set it up where it cannot be notice at the site where the poo always is or you and you boyfriend can keep and eye out and take turns watching the window and have a camera ready so when you catch the person you snap the shot of the dog and person then call the police to show them the pictures and get that person fined it work for my sister and her husband and my Aunt Jenna.
What does it mean when you poop blood? Like seriously the whole toliet was filled with blood.
There is a possibilitie that you could constapated or strainning to hard when your poopin but the best thing to do is look in the yellow pages or call the hospital and ask the to put you through to the clinic ask the nurse what do it mean but other wise just try to stay calm and don't make the matters worse .
One time it even happen to me and when i seen the blood I panic and screamed and when i got up to look and check again that was a very big pirce of shit but if just happen that one time and no more it's okay just take a laxative but if it happen more then on then go to the emergency asap
Good Luck
Bella
one of my bestfriends died and i need a song to put up on myspace to show i miss her and care!
please help
When my friend jessica died I played this song for her and it help me get through my hard times and i hope it helps you Monica"Before You Walk Out My Life"I think it's a great song and if you listen to the lyrics you would feel the same way to and it will help you get through the pain in heartache
Yours Truley Bella sorry about your friend I wish you and your family and hers and her family the best of of luck and my regards ps i hope you like it.
ok so their is this one boy and i really like him. i finally got the courage to tell him and when i did he told me he like me lots too. i was so incredable happy! then a few weeks after that their was a party that we bolth went to and we hung out and ended up making out on the floor.
but little did i know his ex girlfriend walked in the room and spoiled it. he didnt care but i did it felt so wierd! so i told him and he had been calling me prude. every friday my friends and i go hang out at this place and he was their and we ended up making out their too. but then some how my mother found out and she said that she didnt want me to have any relationship with him. so i tried getting over him. i went to another party and he wasnt their and this one guy i had a crush on for 2 years was their and we ended making out! it was so much fun. but then it got around school. then i found out that the guy i had like for 2 years was going to ask out my friend. and he didnt really like me. i was devistated. then the boy i had made out with twice told me he still liked me and of coarce i still liked him. but then he started flirting with other girls ALL THE TIME! i have been dealing with this FOREVER and the other night i told him i couldnt take it anymore and i couldnt like him i also told him i just wanted to be friends. he sat down and looked like he was going to cry and i dont know if he did because he was wearing glasses. but then he still had enough happyness to be all over another girl. so i felt bad so i went to talk to him and he said that i was the player and the flirt and i told him all the girls he was flriting with that night. then he told me that they where all over him. i had upset him so much he didnt want anything to do with me. what do i do? do i say im sorry? do i stay mad at him for LIFE? what in the world do i do? i NEED advice badly!
if it makes a difference im only 14 and he is too.
thanks! :)
Tell him that your sorry and that you guys need to work it out but just take it one step at a time and you'll see a difference trust me it happen to me one but for now try to be happy and don't hate him because deep down inside I know he wants you back to he just dont know how to say it
Bella
I said I would buy it, take care of it, and defend it from our cat! What else do I say
First off start by cleaning up everyday doing everything around the house for 2 or 3 days making sure everything stay spotless then after wards around dinner bring the situation up and tell them im very mature i've cleaned up everyday showin you im responsible and i can do it how do you expect for me to cherish things and learn how to care for things if you dont want me to get something so little that's harmless that i can take care on my own say please can we try it for a week and if not as responsible say we can take it back then say i promise you won't be diappointed and then they'll say okay well since you put it that way maube we can try it with some conditions and that's all how do you think i got my french poodle as an easter gift
good luck
bella
It was my birthday a couple of days ago. I was at work when I checked my voice mail messgages. I male friend of mine left a really sweet message. He was singing happy birthday in a really romantic voice. Then he said he would be sending me a small gift in the mail ( he lives out of town). None of my other male friends have done that for me? Do you think it sounds like he may like me as more than a friend?
I believe he likes you hell of alot for a guy to call and sing happy birthday to you on your voicemail it either he has alot of love for you or alot of love for you so don't be ashamed to say what you have to say cause once you start telling him what you have to say then he's gonna tell you alot so don't be suprised if he's inlove with you and want you cause not to many guys do that uness they really want you and want to be with you so do what you have to do and get your man before someone elese get him and good luck he sound like a winner
Yours Truley Bella
hello advice givers. does anybody have the motorolla razor phone? because i kinda want it but i heard it gets bad within like 3 months, is this true? if any one that has experienced with this phone, let me know if its worth buying
Hi the motorola is worth buying because you'll get great service and just to let you know even if it drops in to water it still will work perfectly fine after you blow dry it out and it would be as new as it was before because believe me my phone dropped in water over 23 times and i still use it so just get it ,it's better than buying one of those other phones they won't even last as much as the 6 time you've droped on the ground or in water so trust that phone is a great pick and I know it
Yors Tuley Bella, Baby
After you end your period when you're around 50ish, what happens next? Is there a new kind of period? Or does something else happen? Or do you just go back to being a kid again like with no more things that come 1nce a month?
Okay hi I'm Bella and my mother has been going through menopause nothing else can happen because your ovaries stop reating to things meaning you can't get pregnant or anything you should just have your old life back just with out the period but you'll still be able to have fun and still feel young so there's nothing to worry aboutand feel free to do anything at anytime so don't beat yourself up over just have fun and party like it's the 70'
Always
Yours truley
Bella
I recently applyed for a new job,as requierd I submitted a drug screen urine test.Note; I am a 50 yr/old male and have not used any type of illigal drugs sence my teens,and no alcahol in about 20 years,yet the urine test showed possative for methamphetamine,I do take some over the counter meds for sinus & headaches,is there anything out there that could cause this type of negative response in a urine test? From Fairshake and hopeing for a answer.Thank You Fellow Advicenators.
First off if your take medication over the counter and you have to take a urine test make sure that you take the medicine a day or two before and then drink big cups of water non stop till your pee turns clear when you urinate and make sure you keep drinking water till after urine test trust me it should help and it helped me and I have a wonderful job so just drink plenty of water and you'll be able to get that job or another because when you drink water to urine is clear that mean it flushed all drugs out you system
Yours Truley Bella
Alright, this is the thing. I HATE my highschool. Really, HATE it. So I've been pretty much miserable, which is why I've been skipping alot, and now I found out..because of this, I might not graduate. Now you'll probably never understand my culture, but there's nothing more important than education, My father has said it straight to my face "I don't care abotut your happiness, as long as you get into a GREAT university, and have straight A's" and last night he said "Go study! If you have any B's this year, I'll be really dissapointed, and you won't be my daughter!" And when I tried to tell him how dumb that is he said "I've only ever asked you for ONE thing in your life, and that's good grades, just that one thing..I think it's reasonable to ask you to do good in that" or something along those lines. I'm so scared :S and the thing is, since I've feared my father basically my whole life, I've never told him th truth about my grades, my mom has covered up for me, and told him I get straight A's even though I don't. And we were going to do that this year too, but now we can't..because I might not graduate. I can't stop crying, because it seems like there's no solution..I can not get anyone else involved, I can't ask my mother to help me anymore..I just can't. And I CAN NOT talk to my father, it's just not in my culture. So please..don't suggest any of those things. But..what can I do? Is there anything? Please help me :'(
Thank you!
Okay you know something it happend to my sister and she justsinged up for summer school and then got those credits and then started the last 2 or three classes she needed to pass in september so best thing to tell you is speak to your guidance counselor about what you can do and the same thing im telling you she's gonna tell you so dont pressure yourself because the more credits you've earned or messed up on and earned them back is gonna look good on your college recomendation and the way the teachers will talk about you to the college supervisors would be good that would see where you made an effort to get things done and you proved it to everyone so please believe me it will work just beleive in yourself you can achieve
Yours Truley Bella
Hai every one
My last periods date was on 12/04/06 till date I have no symptoms of that again, I had urine test twice in a week for pregnancy both are negative. I have been to doctor and took a course(pills) for 5 days for geeting the periods back. Now it is 7th day after the first day of the course but there are no periods.Another thing is that I used to have irregular periods.What might be the reason.
You know what it's a possibility that your body is going through changes because my period was coming regular for 7 months straight and then it stopped for a year and it was because i was getting older and by body was changing a lot and i was still going through pubirty but it eventually came back down so if you've been to the doctor and they told you , your not then there nothing to worry about just be patient and don't worry and try to have a clear mind and, also it can probably come from being stressed to you may not feel that your stressed out but your body knows so trust your body.
good luck sweetie believe me it's oksy nothing is wrong
how long can you go without eating before you pass out?
Alright dont do this to yourself beacuse i was the sme way just eat healthy if you wanna loose weight because the longer you wait to eat it's gonna be double time for you to recover from what you did to your self please dont do it to yourslef i know wyou don't want to die early and destroy your and everytime you move or something tap your body it pains so bad it feel like some one is trying to brake you in half just trust me and try to fix that problem before it's to late in the hospitalwith tubes in your body and im trying to help you the same way my mother help me and it's not worth it just take your time and eat healthy and excercise 4 times a week and you'll see the best results with in 2 to 3 week believe in me please listen to someone who experienced a year worth of recovering ps good luck.
Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old female and iam babysitting this 15 year old kid with autisim from 10:00pm to 2:30 am in the morning How can I keep this kid occupied for that long since I have no exsperince with babysitting autistic kids?
My neice is the same way she avoids eye contact and all and the only way to get her attention is to find stuff that they like and try to show them as much attention that you can because it make them feel special and wanted and they'll open up to you and communicate with you even more trust me it's gonna workdo good luck and beleive me ad be patient.