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i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks!

I wouldn't risk it. The earliest I would take it out is 6 weeks. If you take it out too early you might get an infection.

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i REEEEEEELY like this kid.. and well we flirt ALOT.. and ive heard that he likes me.. but i dont know if its true or not..and im not the kind to ask some one if they like me.. and i rely wanna know.. cuz i like him alot.. hes in my gym class.. and we have soo much fun in gym! but i rell a little uncomferatable bc i rely like him..

Since you really like him get maybe one of your friends, a really good friend that wouldn't lie to you, to go up and ask him. I am not the kind of girl who makes the first move either but maybe you could hint towards it.... good luck!

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some of the girls in my school like gettin called a tease. and others dont i am so confused by this that i want to know if its a goodthing being called a tease and wat it exactly means


x0 thanx 4 da help

a tease is someone who will make a guy think she wants him.... wants to have sex with him ect ect but doesn't do anything about it. I honestly wouldn't want to be one. I guess its all about personal preference.

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hey. ok im really shy and stuff...and tomorrow i have to present like a 2-3 minute thing in front of my class..but i always get REALLY nervous when i present stuff alone..like i forget what to say and i sweat and stuff, and not only does that make me look like a freak, but my grade gets low...what should i do?? plz help =(

Hun, I had to present a 9 minute speech and I was really nervous. What I did was think " in so many minutes it will be over". Also... I tried not to think too much about the people in the audience. I concentrated on memorizing everything. But if you worry so much and it causes your grades to get low maybe you have an anxiety disorder. I was diagnosed with one. They give you medicine and believe me, it helps. Maybe you should check into it? Good luck sweetie!

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hey everyone,
I was fiddling with a piece of my hair and i noticed nearly every individual strand is split! You just have a single piece of hair and its double at the ends, sometimes its quite far up and i touched one of the half-strands and it just fell off where it split. I straighten my hair everyday but i use a heat protection serum and i dont know if this has helped it split or not. I havent been to the hairdressers for a while but now im planning to and im going to get quite a bit off but the problem is some of the short, new hairs at the top are split too and i dont want my hair to be cut really short. I also want layers but not right at the top.
What i want to know is 1.what has caused my split ends? 2. do i have to go short or is there another way? 3. if you leave your hair to grow (like the new hairs) will the split ends rise up the hair strand?

thankyou for your time
Rachel

Well split ends sometime can happen if you use a coarse brush or when you take a shower and you brush your hair it snags and that rips hair. I don't think you have to cut it short. Just get the bottom trimmed. Yes, I think it will grow up the strand because the splits don't move. Honestly, I don't think there is a lot you can do for the top of you hair. Sorry :o(

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HOw do you guyz straighten the back. I've tried pinning half up, but its hard. Plus, my dad is the only one home, so getting help is not an option. Can you give me some tips??

Thanks in advance!

I also pull my hair up into three sections and then straighten a section at a time. It is sometimes time consuming but its worth it :o)

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ok, one of my friends thinks that i like her boyfriend but i really dont is there anyway i can tell her and maybe she'll belive me PLEASE HELP I RATE HIGH! THANK YOU!

Simply tell her you don't. If she doesn't trust you then maybe she wasn't a friend to begin with.

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Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why don't you hang out with some friends? Or, if you can drive, drive somewhere. Go the mall but you don't have to buy anything... just to look. I hope that helped! :o)

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Hi! Ok, This may seem weird, but I discovered that my bf doesn't like the smell/taste of mint. So I was wondering what type of non-mint things can I use to freshen my breath? Like candy or something... Please help. Thanx!

Cinnamon

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hey...i'm thinking of getting my cartilage peirced does anyone know if it hurts and how badly? and also like whats thing like if its in a certain ear your gay and if its in the other you aren't..?

I have had mine done and it doesn't hurt. Actually, it was less painless then your lobe.

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To all of you girls out there! Is it true that sometimes when you get your period your face can breakout?

Thanks

YES!! I have that problem right now....

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A friend of mine with very, VERY, ginger hair is thinking of dying it his hair black. We agree that the colour would suit him, but what product should we use to make sure it's fully covered?
And how long would it be before the roots started to show and he'd have to re-dye?

Ginger is like a medium brown I am guessing so get a coloring kit meant for meduim to dark hair. If he wants it to last for awhile get the permanent stuff, which lasts for 6 months. They also have semi-permenant coloring which lasts for 28 shampoos... ore more depending on how dark the hair turns out.

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okay so my hair is black and i wanted to die it brown but whichever product i tried didnt work out.. only my roots turned out medium brown and then once it gets towards my tips.. it starts to fade into black. but what am i doing wrong?

You aren't doing anything wrong except maybe you didn't leave it in long enough.... or it could be the coloring product you bought. Usually the more expensive ones work better but some cheaps ones work too. Get a coloring kit that is fit for the color you have now and the texture. :o)

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What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples?

Stress is a biggie. Also what you eat, if it is that time of the month and what you use on your face. Hormones are also a factor.

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people always say i am outta style and im worried because i really want to fit in what should i do!

Don't worry about them. Dress how you like to dress. I mean, who are you trying to impress anyway? If you want to be like others then the world would be SO boring!

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Hi, Ive wanted to get my belly button pierced for like 4 years. Im 16 now and my mom said she would take me this summer. Im just kind of curious about the amount of pain. I heard like when you get the needle through your belly button you dont feel it, but when the put the ring in you do. And how long af ter does it hurt? like a day or a week? If someone could please tell me about their experience that would be great... Thanks in advance :)

I am getting mine done soon too! My friend said it hurts a little and it doesn't last long, like a few minutes. Another person said it felt like their insides were getting ripped out. I think it matters on how well you take pain. Good luck!

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i cant stop bitting my nails and my mom wont let me get acurlic is there anthing that will make them grow ffaster or make me stop bitting thx bunches!

Filing them daily works. If you don't want to bite your nails there is a spicy nail polish you can buy. I forget the name of it but I think its call Thum.

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Yesterday my friend pierced my ears. I was wondering how long I have to leave them in before I can change them? Thanks!

Well the people who professionally do your ears say 6 weeks.

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Ok, so there are these jeans I want at Abercrombie and Hollister, but super expensive!! They are those pants that are torn/destroyed...Does anybody know how I could do it myself, and it would look good without spending a fortune??!!Thanks!!

Puncture a hole in the jeans and tear. I do it sometimes in class when I am bored, lol!

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Someone told me that washing your hair every day can damage it. Then someone else told me that it wasn't true unless you blow dry it everyday (which I don't so)
So which person is right?
I've been washing my hair everyday for ages because there's nothing better to do, haha. I don't want to damage my hair from it though!

Washing to too much can be damaging because it strips natural oils from your hair. Using hot water can also dry it out. Blow drying is also harmful. I do it everyday though.

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