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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

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hey.
iam 17 years old. i had sex with a 22 years old ladie,actually she's a college student.
the sex was so fun and she likes me so much, but i heard thats that against law.
so wat u advise me to do:
to abort this relation or continue in secret
and if we were catch who will get in trouble her or me?
tanx for help.

it is against the law becuz you are a minor still. maybe you should "abort" the relationship til your 18, or keep in ssecret til your 18 and tell. really the only way there would be a problem is if your parents found out and had a huge problem with it. but if you were caught, she would be the one who gets in trouble for "rape"

good luck

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hey
my name is justin, iam almost 18, actually iam 17 years old plus 7 month.
i live in new york.
i was woundering wats the legal age in the us to have sex, and am i free to buy condoms?
tanx for help, and i really appreciate.
reply soon.
Justin

there is no legal age to have sex, unless its with a minor. anyone is free to have it. and there is no specific age to buy comdoms, well maybe real young but im sure you are fine to get sum and not get in trouble. your plenty old enough

goood luck hoped i helped sumwhat

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If you dont have sex for a long time can your hymen grow back? If so how long would it take?Because I didnt have sex for 1 year and when i did i bled like my hymen broke and i was really sore and swollen for about 2 days and then after that my period came straight on for 1 week.

no your hymen will never grow back.

and the week thing is your cycle you may have an irregular one.

hope i helped

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when do you ovulate? i have a very irregular period, is it before the white stuff comes out of you or after........is after the stuff comes out then you can become pregnant really easy or before ?

im pretty sure, from health class that you ovulate 7 to 14 days after your period has ended. and i guess it depends on when you normally have the "white stuff" coming out. but thts jus discharge and its normal.

good luck hope i helped

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after you have sex do you bleed???


14/f

um the only way you bleed is if your hyman gets popped hence (cherry popped). thts basically it. and why you bleed for tht is cuz your tearing a thn line in you on the border and it makes you bleed

hope i helped...

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How do you french kiss somebody?

and what do you do when ur gunna have sex?


thanks

Um its kinda compleciated to explain how to do it.
But you just go with the flow and the moment. umm one tounge massages the next tounge and you keep doing tht until you feel like stopping. like i said jus go wit the flow lol.

ummm
you take clothes and jus go with the flow for tht one as well..

sry for the problems cant really explain.

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13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do?

maybe you should tell your mom that you read the book and are having them dreams.

this all could be from your conscience knowing you werent supposed to but did it anyways.
if you told it probably would go away..

good luck

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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

deff. not. they are stupid for not waitin for the right time.. its good to wait til you know its right time. and 13 is kinda young and so is 11. dont feel weird you deff. arent

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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents

Baby oil is used for the skin it makes it smoother, and its for back massages..they do it at night..but i would still just ask your parents why they use it. no harm there.

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hi ..um i probably sound really imature about it, but i am starting birth control for the first time and i was waiting for sunday to take the first one, and i thought it was today but its actually saturday ...what do i do now?.. do i keep taking them and pretend that today it sunday for the rest of the time...or do i restart a new package tomorrow.

jus keep doing it on saturdays now. no big deal. you shouldnt waste the pills.

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14/f
i know its wrong but all my friends have had sex, and thats all they talk about so i told them i have had sex too and i was like centre of attension... i know its wrong to lie but i hated feeling left out. Now i have got this boyfriend hes like well older than me about 4 years, and he understands i want to take things slow but now all my friends make comments like "dont do anything i woudnt do" and "use a johnny".
But i havent bein with him long and when we are making out i cant help bu thinking i know he wants to rip my clothes of and have sex but the truth is im scared...has anyone got any tips for having sex for the first time??
Please dont stay your a ass you lied to your mates, i know that already im looking for REAL advice!! And truth is im glad i lied..

make sure its the right time and place..and make sure you are ready..you shouldnt feel like you have to have sex becuz your friends did. jus take it slow and eventually you will. heck i would have lied to so dont feel bad bout tht one. but jus take things slow and know what your doing.
good luck hope i helped a bit

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My boyfriend and I started to have "dry sex" a few days ago. We only had underwear on and he started to get really rough and then actually cummed. I think a little might have gotten on my underwear and then when I went to the bathroom, I bled a little. What is going on and what are my chances of being pregnant?

your chances of gettin pregnant is very very slim, jus keep a look out.
good luck

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im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice

wow are you serious..you dont need tht. you should get out of that relationship, its bad enough your boyfrined does it, but his frineds too. not uh..you need to get out. no guy will treat a gurl like tht. i really think you should tell your parents or the cops. if they knew they could do sumtin bout it and your boyfirned will never do it to you again. or like i said if you dont want to do tht just leave you have to. you cant be treated like this.
do the right thing..hope i helped..and good luck

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Ok please help me im young and i've had sex seven times and all of them i've been forsed into i just dont know how to say NO! because the one guy i first did it with always hit me and i dont want to be hit again by a guy and im not a slut please help

you should never let a guy hit or push you around. Being pressured is not right.. you should just stand up for your self and say no to them. And if they keep doin it, well thts rape and you go to the police. you should go already for when he hit you.. and your not a slut if your being forced..you should talk to someone bout this, like a councler or sumtin if your parents are out of the question.
im really sorry and i hope i helped a bit

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How old do you say is the right age to start having sex. I am 13 and i need help. Do you know anyone that has had problems with having sex too young?

Thanks

Well i Know a few people who have sex at a young age. I dont think its right. and i think its to young. But in a way theres no right age to have sex. You have it when you are mature enough. You should have sex with the right person who u are in love with. Not a random person. Like i said i know peope who have done it young, and so far no problems have happened like drastically. but theres always a chance and you need to be ready for them.

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