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hi im 26 years old male and have had sex several times from the age of 15. now my problem is that i dont get a steady and rigid errection. if also it happens my penis falls back. what could be the problem. please suggest some good idea to mattain and maintain a rigid errection.

maybe it's because you sleep around too much and dont maintain a steady relationship. heres my best bet - first get tested. then wait a while before having sex with every girl you see. find the right one. hold on to her. DONT CHEAT ON HER. wait until shes ready. and once you have all of that believe me she'll seem so beautiful to you, you wont have a problem with gettin the ol` pet iguana up =]

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Is a 4 inch penis noraml for a 17 year old boy?

Not usually. An average size penis on a developed teenager starting at the age of 15, in my own opinion of course would probablly be 6inches, being the smallest.

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What am I supposed to do with my pubic hair? 14/f, and should I shave or wax or nothing? I don't want it to itch, but be comfortable.

Well i`m not going to tell you what you should do with it because its yours and its a desicion you can make wether you want it or not - if you want to get rid of it make sure you use some kind of soap or shaving gel down there cause if you shave it dry - it`ll hurt and it wont look to pretty lol. I`ve personally never tried wax but if you wanna then go for it. Good Luck!

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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help

Well I feel exactly the same way except i know im not bi. yeah ive kissed another girl before, what girl hasnt, not really a big deal. and i look at other girls and feel jealousy not attracted. i want to look like them cause there so pretty and i wish i could look like them. if you really dont wanna mess around with another girl then your probablly not bi - you probablly are like me when it comes to seeing another girl and going "woah shes hot, i wish i looked like her"

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im 16 and havnt had a period for just over a year.im not preganat cos i dun tests.i cant have cancer so young can i?i stopped having them about a month after losing my virginaty.i havnt got std cos i ahd a screening.wahts wrong i started like when i was 13.neone know?plse help swn cheers xxx

Your period probablly isnt regulated or got thrown off track. If your extreamly active or your on the thin side its highly possible for missing your period. I wouldnt get mayjorly concerned about it until your about in your 20`s. But try getting birth control or something if its really concerning you, birth control will help regulate it. Good Luck.

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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!

Well first off Happy One Year and Congradulations! Next, make sure you`re ready - i know you may hear it a lot but its true, it`s something you can never take back. But if you`re afriad it wont fit, you guys might want to start off with "fourplay" ( having him finger you or you "pleasure" him by jacking him off and what-not ) first to "loosin" it up lol. Sex is a thing a lot of girls fear as a first time thing and it comes a long with a lot of questions. Just relax and play it by ear. I highly doubt it "wont fit", it may take a while being your first time but it usually doesnt take too long. Be confident and make the best of it. Good luck! USE A CONDOM!!!!!

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Um ok im 13 in the 7th grade and i have a few friends that are bi and no one looks at em differently only some ignorant people. and often not even knowin it i find myself loking at pretty girls and at times i have wondered what it would be like to be doin things with a girl like i do with a guy....does this mean im bi?

Personally in my opinion i think you`re too young to decide your orientation (wether your straight, lesbian, gay, or bi) This might be because it`s all in your head that your friends are bi that it may even be triggering to you. Try ignoring your thoughts and just live your life and if you end up being bi - then hell you`re bi but dont worry about it at the age of 13! too much stress and unimportant issues to deal with at this point in life. hope i helped. good luck

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what's emo? i just read a question and im confussed tehehe =o)

Emo means emotional, it`s usually catergorized as a music genre likes bands such as; my chemical romance, taking back sunday, dashboard confessionals, exc.

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What is the average size of a guys penis?
my bf is 16 and he's about 6 inches long is that average?

sounds average to me

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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?

Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.

Pre Menstrual Syndrome. Pretty much the side affects you get before your period comes. Such as bitching. lol Hope I helped. And no need to feel stupid, i didnt know what it meant for a long time. =]

xO.Carrie

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Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.

id say, yours parents sex life is none of your buisness and hopefully you dont want it to be. There just trying to "spice things up". I think you shouldnt worry about it.

xO.Carrie

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

It`s called trust. Tell him if your going to be doing anything "sexual" with him that you need him to not go off and tell other people. Make sure you are both ready sexually and mentally, and use a condom. 13 is a little young to be having sex so make sure you go for what you REALLY want. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

Wow you rock gurl! Saving yourself is the way to go i`m proud! Wow and this guy is being a jerk if he isn`t listening to you. Tell him that this is important to you and if he doesn`t understand that then he`s out. Good luck babe, and stick with abstinence, it`s your commitment and dont let one guy that you dont even know if your going to spend the rest of your life with, change that.

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This question may sound dumb but what does it mean when a guy "pops your cherry" when you first have sex? I just want to know.

Please answer my answer and I will rate ya :)!

(14/f?

Haha, don`t worry thats not a dumb question. Popping your cherry mean`s you`ve had sex and are no longer a virgin. If your thinking about sex, please please please use a condom. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin.

Well all guys opinon`s are diffrent. Some like it, some dont, and some really dont care. But it i were you i`d moe the whole lawn. Good luck. Use a condom.

xO.Carrie

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I know that guys prefer girls to shave it all off most of the time. But girls,what do you think? Should your man go bald,trim,or natural?

Trim. Fer sher.

xO.Carrie

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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!!

Most people have no idea until they try. But to give you a little "sex ed", First off for your first time i highly reccomend the guy being the lead. ( On top ) First the guy get`s an errection, then hopefully if your thinking smart he will slap on a condom (lol), and insert his you know what into your know what, and, it`s really not as hard as you think. Just go with the flow and make sure your ready physically and mentally. Safe sex alwaii`s!!

xO.Carrie

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I need advice... Have we had sex before Kerry, cause im very unsure? Tell me, was it good?

Hmm, yes i`m your girlfriend. And we`ve maybe had sex .. and i can`t tell you if it was good because i am very very sneaky =P

xO. your girlfriend

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my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y??

Personally, I wish my breast`s were 34a, I`m 14 and i`m already a C. I think you should be happy with what you`ve got and know that you`re beautiful no matter what. =)

xO.Carrie

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If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity?

Mentally, yes. Physically, no. =]

xO.Carrie

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