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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks.

I havn't yet but I'd say 16/17 is the right age.

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do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers!

It all depends on the guy, some don't and some do. There is this Conair shaving creme [I think thats what its called] you put it wherever the hair is and chemicals in it make the hair fall out and then you just need a towel to wipe it off. no razor needed, but the chemicals do make it smell.

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One of my close friends and her boyfriend had sex and the condom got stuck inside of her but he didnt ejaculate is it possible that she could get pregnant?
I can't go to planned parenthood with her today because it's my bro's b-day and the only other close friends she has are all away.

I'm not a docter but it is very possible she could get pregnant. And she has a condom stuck inside her? She really should get that checked out. Sorry I'm not much more of a help.

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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
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I got my period when I was 12 but I know people who havn't gotten it and they are 14. It just depends on the person. Masturbating has nothing to do with it. Plus, believe me you DON'T want it, it is a real pain. So you have nothing to worry about.

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hi i am 17 and i have been taking birth control for three months. um i need help, okay i am getting off the pills and i just got off my period last week and now back on and i know it is because of the birth control, but the first day i did not take it i had sex with my boyfreind and he you know in me and we both asgreed on having a baby well o you think i could get prgnant please help me

I don't think so, because you just got your period. Sorry I'm not much more of a help.

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14/f

hey i want to wax my bikini line and i don't want to shave it actually but i don't want to get it waxed proffesionally cause to me thats embarrasing is there any waxing strips or anything that i can wax my bikini line...do t hose venus waxing strips work even though you have to heat them with your hands...i just need help lol

thanx

i dont know anything specifically for waxing your bikini line but you could use this stuff that i used the first time i shaved my legs. its like a lotion that you put on the hair you want out, leave it on for like 4 minutes then wipe it off with a towel (or razor but i recomend towel) and the hair comes off. warning though, it has a nasty smell because of the chemicals to make the hair come out. its called Nair i think. good luck and hope i helped!

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why do you get discharge?

its nothing bad, i mean it might be annoying cause you get it before and after your period for most girls. and it 'cleans' out your inside area. hope i helped!

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Hi im 13 yrs old and my twin sister is mentally challenged.. i started my period about 6 months ago.... but now she has and shes askin a lot of questions... my mom want me to talk to her about the birds and the bees.... but wat do i say.. does any1 have any suggestions on easy ways to understand all this???

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Thanks

i dont mean to sound rude but its not exactly your job to tell her about the birds and the bees. so just talk to your mom about how uncomfortable it is for you and she probably knows more then you about it anyway. but if she does make you tell your sister about it, dont use that term 'birds and the bees' or say its not literal. and just tell her the stuff your mom told you. and leave out stuff she might think is gross like jacking off and things like that. good luck and leave one in my inbox if you need more help!

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what is tea bags like when guys say im gonna tea bag you what is it?

its when a guy sticks his 'you no' in your face, mostly talking about in your mouth though.

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When a guy is inside of you, does it hurt?
Im preparing for the night of my life, Im not going to be a virgin no more! Im scared! What do I do if I freeze and he thinks Im bad. Guys, What is more comfy to you? On the bed or Other.
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thankz so much guys and girls. Thankz for being here for me in my time of need!

yes your first time will hurt because there is like a piece of tissue in your vagina and the first time that you have sex, it breaks. it will hurt a little and bleed a little but will go away. im not sure what to tell you about the comfort situation because im not a guy, but im sure they probably dont want someone all stiffend up so just try to relax. good luck!

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Are condoms 100% safe?

no but most of the time they are safe

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Okay, I'm 13 and i'm 5'0 (yeah im small!) and i weigh about, lets see 60-70 pounds. And I'm very concerned about it. Do you think I'm TERRIBALLY under-weight, or just little low?

And also, I HATE milk, so I dont drink that.
I eat alot of meat.. probally 3 times a week.
I eat ALOT of junk foods... i'd suspect to be fat by now.
I drink alot of soda, if that helps. And water also.

Last time I had a check-up, I was 12, and I weighed about 58 pounds.
And everyone is jellous for some reason that I'm that weight.

So, can I have your advice on how to gain about 10 pounds? I'm really into your advice, I'll read it thougly, completly untill im 100% okay with it and rate it what it deserves!

Please help :)

xOx Laura

i dont see anything wrong with your wieght. your just petite and i konw a ton of people like that. if i were you i wouldn't try to gain weight because if you eat normal and healthy then you will be the wieght your supposed to be, which you are. but if you really want to, comfront your docter. well good luck!

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I know this will sound stupid but can a doctor tell of u have masterbated in the past week?????

nope. hope i helped!

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im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.

i personally think its to young, and i think its illegal. but i dont know about that. the point is that you got raped so your scared a little, and your really young. so if i were you i wouldn't.

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
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thanx

believe your lucky. some girls HATE how small their breasts are. i dont think ive ever met a guy who didn't like big breasts. i dont think there is anything wrong with it. you should feel lucky. hope everything works out!

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14/f well once u stop getting discarge in ur underwear does that mean your going to get your period soon???

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yep :]
soon.
hope i helped!

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On june 13 and june 15 i had sex wit my bf. we had used protection n everythin. then i got my period on june 19...it last bout 5 days and it was a heavy flow..meaning it really was my period n nothin lik "spotting". newyz i havnt had sex since june 15th but now its been 34 days and i havnt had my period. usually i have it around 30-31 days...could i be pregnant?

its 50/50 chance. I would say your not pregnant, your period sheduale (sp?) could just be off. But I would wait a little longer to judge.

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hey im not comfortable(sp?) writting this but i have to know....am i a les or a BI because i mean les sex turns me on and my friends are lesbian so when they kiss i get so turned on but no i dont looke at a girl and think i like her or something......and i son know if i am a les or a BI.. help!!!!

I think your straight because seeing them kiss makes you horny but you have to ask yourself does it turn you onto a guy or the people kissing? because if your turned onto a girl then your probably bi but if not then your probably okay.

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im sorry but this probally sounds really gross, but im 13/female and whats a good way i can *play* with my self? and fun techneqes?
(with out the purchuse of vibrators or dildos..im to young to buy them..)
thanks!

You could finger yourself?? I dont know.

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Hey all, i have a few quesions... So, me and my boyfriend want to have sex. Hes 15, and i am 14, and please, dont say we are too young. I am a gymnast and have gymnastics every wednesday. We are going to use a condom and even doing gymnastics, could I still get pregnant? I do every event plus conditioning. Is it possible? I am getting the condom. I dont want a box, just one or two. Where can i buy them and do you have to be a certain age? Where could I hide them so my mom would not fine them? Any help is GREATLY appreciated...

Umm you can get pregnant if you do gymnastics or not, just to let you know. and you could get them at any drug store or gas station, and no you don't have to be a certain age. try hiding them under your mattress, in a box with a lock on it, or somewhere where you know your mom would never see/check. have fun..

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