about

I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

advice

okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.

She`s definately not pregnant. It`s totally normal to be late even if she has had her period for over 2 years. She might have been bleeding a little because her hymen was broken. Just be a good friend to her and tell her to relax. ♥ Allie.

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what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?

Some religions believe in not having sex until marrige. I personally believe that it`s up to the person & what maturity level them and their partner are. You have to be sure that you`re having sex with the right person and for the right reason.
♥ Allie.

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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!!

Nope, it`s impossible. The sperm would die within a few seconds. You have nothing to worry about !
♥ Allie.

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Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..

This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this??

Doctors can tell if you are still a virgin or not. Plus, some STD's show no signs or symtoms at all, so you could have one and not even know it.

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What age do purbity starts for a boy.

Puberty can happen anywhere between 11 and 15 for boys.

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ok the other day me and my guy friend kissed but it was open mouth ... people are asking me if i made out with him but i dont no what to say.. like did me and him make out or just french kiss?

its the same thing

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ok i keep geting boners and their annoying right? even when im not thinkikng of sex but their only annoying when im at school because u know some times i have to stand up... and then ppl stare so yea is their any way to not have them as often?

ummmm?...you cant stop them from happening bud.

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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
i rated high for good answers

no. .?

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well i just got my period and everytime i go to tell my mom i get really nervous and start to like shake and i don't know what to do!!!


5's for any answer

write her a note or somthing bc you need to tell her eventually. .itll make you feel a lot better once you tell her though.

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my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and like all of a sudden i felt like alot of watery stuff..and i blamed it on him and was like u CUMMED on me..and he was like i didn't i didn't even feel anything..and so he takes the blame and says sorry..but still promises he didn't feel a thing and so i get up and notice the sheets are really wet only to find blood all over them..meaning that wet stuff was ME bleeding..is it possible to bleed THAT much? i mean it was everywhere

he popped ur cherry. or its ur period.

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Last night I tried to kill yself by ODing on sleeping pills. It didnt work though obviously. All that I remember is my dad bringing me into bed and my body started spazing out. I woke up this morning feeling really sick. And really upset because it didnt work.And the sad thing is htough.. If it had... I'm sure that my dad wouldnt have noticed and my mother wouldnt have noticed becaused she was on drugs and passed out. I just dont know what to do with my self. I need some advice. I also feel embarassed.. because after I tok the pills (they were sleeping pills) I wasnt in the right state of mind.. and one of my teachers IMed me when I was online and we had a conversation about stuff becasue I asked them if they ever knew a friend that tried to commit suicide... I mean come on now! wouldnt that just blow your mind? ugh. I dont know what to do. Someone please help me. I'll rate...If thats what it takes to get a decent answer

have you talked to someone close to you about this? you might hear this a lot but talking and crying really does take all of your stress off of you! try calling a help hotline,its totally confidential and they are there to help you! tell a good friend that you trust and that will understand you, that you need help. hope i helped! ~allie

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