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Q: im ADDICTED to sex. If I don't have it in less than at least a month, my stomach starts hurting, I become depressed..and everything. I know this sounds so stupid and don't call me a slut please...is this normal? or...what can i do to maybe hold my urge in? Because about every weekend I have sex (but with the same guy I always do it with) I`m also pregnate..and my hormones are going EXTRA crazy..15/f HELP!!!!!!!
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you're 15 and your pregnant? I think you have a few more problems than being "addicted" to sex.
You attention whore.
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Q: hey you answered my question about why my boyfriend didn't have an orgasm in bed the last time we did it.. and you told me to do some kinky stuff. I wanna know something real kinky, so kinky he wouldn't know where the hell i learned how to do it from. You told me if i couldn't think of anything then i could write you back and you would give me tips. but ANYTHING will help. If you can't think of anything then that's okay too...
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Ok. Tie him up. Tight. (handcuffs if you've got them, fake ones from party city or something. they come undone easy but get the point across.) Start klssing him like you mean it, tease him with your mouth. Move from there to his neck, stomach so on.. SLOWLY.. so he can anticipate what's coming. Blind Fold him, put one or 2 ice cubes in your mouth and go down on him. He's going to feel so much pleasure from the warmth of your tongue mixed with ice.. with his hands tied up he wont be able to touch you and he'll drive himself crazy. Bring food into this also, licking treats off of each other is ALWAYS a good time. While giving oral, grab and massage his legs. Don't do this for too long or he'll blow. Give him the choice to stay tied up or not, if he says to stay, jump on him and start goin at it.. He'll appreciate it. If he wants to be untied, prepare yourself for a demon. Also if he's into it, anal can prove to be VERY pleasurable to him and once you get used to it, its amazing.. Try NEW positions other than missionary.. bend over and have sex from behind. Or take a shower, you can keep one leg on the ground and one up. While on the bottom, place both legs on his shoulders and let him press them up against you while he's on top. Use a chair! Sit facing each other, you on his lap- arch your back slightly, its awesome. If he can pick you up, let him hold you with your legs wrapped around his back and your back up against a wall.
Long post, i'll send more today if I think of them I'm kind of blocked right now. HAVE FUN!!!
PEACE
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Q: ok i have this friend his name is deven swyers and hes always mad at me cuz im better than him at everything and i could beat him up and he better than me at absoulutely nothing what whould i do to make him feel better?
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quit being a cocky bastard.. that might improve SOMETHING.
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Q: Is it too early for sex if you've only gone out with the guy for 2 months? and dont tell me i shouldn't do it at all
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assuager has a valid point but I think if you're ready and it's not your first time, then why not? If you're a virgin you should wait because of the way you said "only 2 months" almost sounds like your not ready. Good luck with whatever you decide, if i knew more details I could help more
Peace
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Q: If a guy doesn't bust during sex is that a bad thing? I mean we do it all the time and it usually turns out normal.. but the last time he said he was done but he never reached his climax. is it just that sometimes people want to, but they just can't? Or is he just tried of having sex with the same one person all the time? I love him alot and im scared that he's getting bored with me......? Please Help
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A lot of things can keep a guy from an orgasm.. medicine he took earlier, stress, lack of sleep, smoking weed, exctacy....
I wouldn't worry about it being you, unless he's showing other signs and being distant until he wants some ass. Just grab him and try again.. Or try somethin kinky isntead of the same old stuff.. works like charm.. Want tips? leave 'em in my inbox.
Peace
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Q: ok i have a question, whenever my boyfriend does something to me "below the belt" my legs start shaking and twitching is that normal and what does it mean?
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You're about to orgasm, it's not nerves. Congratulations on actually finding a guy who knows what he's doing. Whenever you feel this happening, get into and let it go. That way you can achieve a full orgasm if you haven't already.. hold on to him, he's a keeper! =)
PEACE
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Q: well, Im super scared for my friend. She asked me thia question. "If you're giving a guy a hand job, and he whipes some of the stuff away, and then fingers you, can you get pregnate?"
I have no clue, and i wanna help her and be there for me! Please help me (well, i guess it would be my friend)
If you don't know dont answer, because I only want to tell her the real truth!
thanks!
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No. Oxygen kills it immediatly. If she's really spooked tell her to take a pregnancy test. I'm more than positive she's fine.. you can't get pregnant unless you have SEX.
good luck to your friend!
PEACE
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Q: ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and weve knnown eachother for a year and we havent really done anything yet...i go to his house every wednesday and we are home all alone..and we just havent done anything...hes not the innocent boy i mean hes not a virgin and neither am i (only once) lol....but i dont knw...weve done handjobs, fingering etc..but not oral or intercourse....he says he doesnt want to rush me into anything because he loves and respects me and my body...im really ready though too and i think he is too...we are only 16...the only fear im having is PREGNANCY! what is the best type of condom, how can you prevent it to break, etc?
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Lifestyles and trojan. Just don't but some off brand crappy kind because they will break and their probability of effectivness is lower. You could also go to planned parenthood, its cheaper than a gyno and private so you don't have to tell your mom, and buy birth control. That way you're being extra safe because who wants a baby at 16? I didn't.
BE SAFE
PEACE
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Q: me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?
what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx
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It's obvious you don't think it's the right time and that's your own way of telling yourself NO. It's only been a week.. most people who are really in love care more about spending time with their boyfriend/girlfriend than having sex. And when they do get to that point, it's for the right reasons; to be as close to another human being as possible is so beautiful. Don't waste that on a guy who would actually ask if you wanted sex.. trust your instincts when they tell you "i don't know." They don't lie.
Good luck,
PEACE
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Q: Lately I have been noticing that down around ,y vaginal area I have been kinda itchy... and like I went to the store and bought some kinda cream stuff but the last time I out it on it was like my skin was pelling! Can some1 plz give me an Idea on what I have?
Thanks.. I rate 5's!
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Sounds like a yeast infection or some sort of bacterial infection. Go to the gyno or planned parenthood (cause they're cheaper and private) and see what it is. It doesn't sound like anything to worry about. HOpe i helped!
please rate
PEACE
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Q: I went to my gyno a week or two ago becuase i have had irregular periods for about 5 years so she decided the best thing to regulate my periods and help with my acne, was to put me on the pill..so today i started my period which means tomorrow (since its sunday) will be my first day to take the pill..anyway my question is...i have heard from many people that the pill since it deals with your hormones and such it causes you to gain weight..i am very self contious and a little heavier than i would like to be as it is now..so will it cause me to gain inevitable weight??????? please does anyone know????
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i take ortho tri cyclen lo and ive never had any weight gain because its has a lower amount of hormones in it. It does make your boobs bigger which i can't complain about and really benefits your period. Try it for a while and see. hope i helped
PEACE
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Q: so if a girl has sex towards the end of her period she has a greater chance of NOT getting pregnant?
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It's less of a chance. But keep in mind you're still ovulating and this is the period of time when mothers are trying to get pregnant. But you are MOST fertile before and during the beginning of your period. Just always use a condom or B.C and you'll be fine!
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Q: For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think?
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I don't know. I know lots of guys who like use virgins because they're "tight" and clean (disease free). Some guys are jerks like that. But if you're looking a boyfriend, they usually prefer virgins. Sluts are only good for one thing and are NEVER respected.. they might seem to get a lot of attention but guys look down on them A TON
Peace
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Q: am i old enough to wear a thong?????? am i old enough to have a boy friend ?????? i am 12 years old so am i old enough?????? plz tell me thx
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I think that today all the age standards have changed. I think you're old enough to wear a thong, but only because all girls at your age are starting to, and I know how important it is to fit in (or change with your friends.) Your parents, especially your mom, probably won't approve so I suggest not telling her.. Maybe start doing your own laundrey (that's what i did when i started wearing them at your age). I think you're old enough to have a boyfriend but not a serious one. Like one you can call to talk to, or cuddle with and hold hands- try not to move too fast though, its a mistake in the long run TRUST ME!
I hope I helped sweetie!!
Peace
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Q: Isn't there a way to get rid of hickies? I can't remember. My friend got a hicky and she tried covering it up with makeup but it didnt work.. any more solutions? THANKS
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TOOTHPASTE! good luck sweetie!
Peace
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Q: My boyfriend keeps asking me 2 give him a hand job. I tell him maybe later, or make up another excuse. But the truth is I've never given one. My question is how do I give a hand job? And how would I know if he's enjoying it?
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Okay, this is funny.
Firmly grab it, start at the base. With a firm (but not too tight) grip, move your hand up and down. Make sure you take the extra skin with you so that it hits the tip. Keep in mind that's his most sensitive part.. play with it a little with your thumb and forefinger and maybe do a few strokes from top to bottom. You'll know he's enjoying it either by the look on his face or his satisfying sounds. Lube is a definite plus (and I highly recommend it) so look into that. Just make sure you're not pulling too hard.. Also there's a flat part on the bottom of the tip, rub it a little with your thumb, it seems to be a very sensitive and pleasurable area.
If I haven't helped, watch porn.
good luck!
PeacE
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Q: this is not good at all. one of my best friends (lets call her Sarah but thats not her real name) i think is a compulsive liar. she lies about everything...or so we suspect. her cousin told me that a disease like that runs in her family. but she lies about everything. here are some of the things:
-she told me she got raped and went to court for it. one time she told me she went to court at 8:00p.m but court isnt open that late
-she told me she has a boyfriend but nobodys ever talked to him except on AIM (and she has 2 computers so it might just be her) and yeah, she gave us a picture of him but its weird because i found the exact smae picture on BuddyPic and the names didnt match up
-when i talk to her on AIM she always says i feel so sick im gonna go make myself throw up im anorexic
-she told me she had a signature of somebody famous that i really like and she said i could have it. then next day she came in with it and it looked NOTHING like the real signature and it looked like her handwriting
there are more things but im just too stressed out. i DO NOT want to talk to her about it because one of my other friends confronted her about the lying and she almost commited suicide. she's really scaring me. she lied about getting RAPED...or so we THINK cause its not 100% sure. i tried to talk to my best friend about all this cause he knows whats going on with Sarah, but he told me that he belives her about all this because nobody else will. its freaking me out...a lot. i love her so much and i dont want to lose her. but i cant believe anything she says! and im afraid that if one day something bad really does happen, im not gonna beleive her. what should i do? PLEASE HELP! i have more info if you need it...just ask for my email.
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A girl I knew told me she was a test tube baby and that she was born in four different places at once. Some girls are just really lame. Tell her parents and get her help before she starts lying about Brittany Spears coming to sing at her birthday party. (Yes I heard that one too)
peace
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Q: i was just wondering a couple days ago...becuase i gave my bf a handjob and he got a little bit of cum on my shirt..and i just was wondering how long it takes for the sperm to like die once the guy cums..becuase i was looking at my shirt with it on it and kinda got grossed out wondering if there was little sperm moving around alive on my shirt still..lol sorry i know this is stupid but does anyone know??
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oxygen kills em, put your shirt in the wash cause it stains easily.
payce
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Q: is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
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yeah up until 8 months is cool just go easy.. that is if you didn't understand what the fuck that last girl was writing being a highschool drop out and all..
PEACE
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Q: i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant?
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No the end of your cycle is less fertile. It's the days before your period and the beginning of it that are times to stay away from from sex unless you're planning a new addition. your fine.
PEACE
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bio
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I'm an 18 yr old female and I'm preparing to go to the University of North Texas next fall and I want to major in Fashion Marketing. I've had the same boyfriend since I was 16 so I can help with relationship/love/sex questions. I'm a drummer in an all girl band and I appreciate music so I can help you there also. I'm obsessed with fashion and unique styles so if you ever need a suggestion I'm there for ya. I've always been told that I'm pretty decent at giving advice and I'm curious as to what you need to know, so hit me up.
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Gender: Female Age: 18 Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 82 Last Update: January 29, 2005 Visitors: 5267
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