ahh lets see..
whats there to say?
helping people is pretty awesome.
you feel like your actually someone
so leave it if you need nething else from me.
i wouldnt wanna leave ne1 sittin there confused.
youu see?
i love running track, hangin out with my friends, i got brown hair, browin eyes, and im five foot..if you were interested..haha
email me if yah wanna.
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
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ohh definitely its considered rape..you dont wanna do it. its like forcing you. it doesnt really matter if youve done it before because you guys both agreed on it. this tyme..1 of you guys dont wanna do it..and thats considered taking advantage of someone--rape.
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so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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rape by definition is trying to get someone to have sex with yuo when the other person doesnt want to have nething to do with it. and thats the way you and him were..so yah id say it was rape..i think you should really tell someone..and i kno your like afraid to be like..so i ws at this party and so he was taking of my pants blah blah..yah kno? but i think it would be better for you to get out like wut you feel..maybe it doesnt bother you i dont kno? watch wut you drink to..and when he said hed take yuo upstairs..ehh gotta watch out for things like that..dont ever trust people..seriously.
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Hey what if someone wanted to have sex and u didnt want to and they layed you on his bed should you have sex of call for help? (link)
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yahh thats rape. call and dont have sex..i mean if your able to call..having sex when you dont want to is just gunna keep bad images in your mind and its gunna be pretty depressing when you think about it..its better to get it out of the way..and make shure it doesnt happen to anyone else.
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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks. (link)
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well when i waas reading i was really happy to see that you guys would wait to have sex because you werent ready..i mean thats totally responsible. you and you mom talked about it..she should kno that you didnt do nething..i mean if you were a parent and yuo saw that you would get a lil freaked out..but i dont tihnk they should have made you guys stop seeing each other for quite a long tyme. you guys are obviously binded to each other by like makin that promise that sex is guna wait..it obviously means you guys care about each other. do whatever you have too.i mean there is like a way you could get a test to show you havent had sex but i dont kno if you wanna go that far. thats about all i can think of about actually like proving it not true..talking to his parents could help to..maybe..because theyll see that your an honest girl thats not afraid to hid nething from either your parents or his. just stick to what you guys think is right. try hard and work for the love you havee. hope everything works out.
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hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
i rate 5. just pleease give me some good advice. (link)
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okay well your 13 and you havent gone through puberty..that pretty much explains it all..are you like really skinny? cuz that could be the reason to..i mean dont worry you will grow for shure. i mean you said you see people that done have ne but thats rare..and i dont think thats gunna happen cuz usually when you have your period later in life..then you grow more then someone that would have had there period when they were like 12 or something. dont worry your fine..for rite now just live with it..itll change.
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so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate (link)
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okay hes sittin here wanting you for sex. if you stay with him your hurting yourself..i mean hes gunna think that since hes your boyfriend..he could take advantage of you..how horrible is it that you have to be with a guy that doesnt really love you.find someone else for you..nto someone thats gunna use you for your body. i mean i dont wanna tell you to break up..but seriously..i believe that if you get over him..youll have a much better life being with a guy that cares about you. i mean if this guy was holding you or w/e..i meann its so hard to feel nething because hes standing there thinking' when am i gunna get this girl' and thats just not how a ggirl should feel.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..
Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views. (link)
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okay well see i would say stick to your feelings but when you think about it its only 7th grade. you only say you love him because your always with him and you just want someone to hold you..im not trying to sound like rude or nething im just sayin that you should really think about it. i agree with the too far part stopping at feeling up. i think you should wait and tell him you wanna wait if things get carried away because if he accepts the wait..then youll kno hes really liking you..which would help a lot in the future.
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I know this might sound nasty but it burns down below when i go to the bathroom. and this morning on the way to school it still kinda burned and it felt weird, not normal. i dont know if i have something wrong with me and if its because of sexual activity? does anyone know what this might be? please dont tell me to go to the doctor because i dont want to do it right now. just tell me what you might think it could be! im so scared. please dont leave ride comments im just worried about my health! anything will help!
i rate good! for good answers
&&heaRts; scArEd anD WorrieD! (link)
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kay well if you took health..youll see that like 3 of the viruses cause a burning sensation around there..that could be it because you said you had sexual activity..im pretty shure it cant be nething else.
but honestly..you gotta get rid of it quickly..or else youll be stuck with an std for the rest of your life..ahh ehh that really isnt good.
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i dont think my bf honestly likes me i think he just wants me to give him head,well the only reason i think he is going out wit me is b/c i gave his friend head and he fingured me and all that stuff b/c he was my x and i think his friend told him we did all that stuff and thats all he wants from me is to have sex but, how do i no if he likes me or if he just wants to have sex? PLEASE help! (link)
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well talk to him about it..but dont actually talk to him..i mean like.bring up the sex/head part or w/e..and just be like yah i wanna wait a while..long while..before we do nething..and if he semms a bit uneasy about it..then you notice that hes in it for that. but if he totally agrees and says that when your ready..youll try..then i mean you can get the feeling that he kinda interested in you.and not your body.
and i kno it gunna be like wierd to be like..ohh hey about that sex part..but if he mentions it..i mean yah can kinda get the feeling.
just gotta talk to him.
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Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..
This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this?? (link)
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okayy well first..about not telling your doctor..i dont think you should lie to her because like..ehh i dont kno maybe something miite happen and the 'no i didnt have sex' will kind of make things worse. and about the symptoms of diseases or stds..most stds dont have symptoms so id watch for that too..be careful. and weed? ehh well you should stop doing it because it would definitely get you in trouble..and all illegal shiit..they can find out through tests that your kinda required to take.
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ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx (link)
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well i think its better if you wait. i mean if you do get pregnant..if nething happens of course..i mean your 14..your life wouldnt be that normal yah kno? dont risk having sex because you think its right, and throw away your life. just wait and see how it all plays out..maybe in another year or so if you guys plan on it. just keep the relationship with no sex until your positive that your gunna risk your life for something that huge.
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what is the youngest that you, or anyone you know has had sex? im scared my sister in 6th grade is sexual active, and so i was wondering if thats normal? thanks (link)
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hmm i dont think thats normal..i mean 6th grade? i dont kno she`ll prob regret it in the future..i dont think its right but people have different thoughts. i dont see why she would be doing it neway..shes in 6th grade..just tell her to be careful. id say its better to stop. but its whatever she wants to do i guess.
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Ok, so I decided that instead of taking the chance having sex with just a condom that I want to go on birth control. Only problem is telling my mom I want to go to the gyno. I know I don't have to tell my parents but I would rather them knowing know then later on. I'm 18 and at college. Any good ways of saying it to them without basically saying I'm having sex? (link)
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okay well tell your mom tht you are very responsible and you wanna do all the birth control shyt bcuz you dont want nething bad to happen..tell her tht if you try it and she dont like it then she can stop paying for it..you shud trust you tho if you tell her your being responsible..be careful tho and good luckk!
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In America, is there a certain age you have to be before you are allowed to have sex? It's just that in England you have to be sixteen. (link)
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naww it dont really matter..but if yah 18 then your responsible for the shytt yah do..
but other then tht..go do wut yah want!
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last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type. (link)
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how old were you? it doesnt seem like he likes you..it seem like he wants to do it again. wen yah drunk yah dont think and it was fucked up for him to do tht wen he new you ere drunk..he just awanted sum..dont talk to this kid he seem like all he wants is sex..and even if yah dont wanna have it w/ him again..and your w/ him..he mite try n get you to like b drunk again and then he'll ruin your lyfe.
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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!! (link)
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well first..im sorry tht your dad died..2nd i hadda friend that dad died..this one kkid asked her out and i think it was cuz he felt abd cuz i mean they were close at first but then like he dumped her..i mean like if you go out w/ him..make her hes like really in love..cuz if he not you dont wanna make your lyfe harder then it already is..tell him tht you really need him just to b a best friend and wen things clear uyp..and he still feels the same way..then you guys can go out and then tht will show if he really does like you..
hope i helped!
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