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My name is Misty. Im 23 years old. Im a part time bartendar a part time student and a full time mother of 3 kids. My oldest son is 6years old and my youngest son is 8weeks old and my daughter is 18 months.Ive been through alot in my short life and feel I can anwser just about anything and I hope my advice helps you out.
I thought this would be a good idea because Im the one everyone calls when they have a problem so I figured I would spread the love.
Ive taken many courses in psychology during my college courses if that helps any.
Just to make it clear my advice is what I think is best but you have to judge for yourself on what you believe to be the best thing to do in your sitation.
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do???????????????????????
Never, I repeat Never do something sexual you dont want to do just to keep him.
He sounds like he has some serious mental issues and I dont think hes safe to be around. I would try go get away from him. I know you said he loves you and takes care of you but if he really loves you he wouldnt talk to you with such disrespect.
Okay here is my story ...
I'm 23 and I live with my bf ...I never had a real bf before so all this is kinda new for me..
I did'nt know what sex was and he taught me ..everything was going great but I still hold back ..he does a great job ..he turns me on and everything..I feel great when we have sex but my problem is I don't feel the need to do sex although it's great ..I just never ask him to do sex he is the one who always has to ask ..I never do it or sometimes I just don't feel like it
Last night I asked him how he thinks our sex life is going ..he said to me that it was going great but that I have to do more..... like ask him more often to have sex ..losen up more etc etc
Help me I don't want to lose this guy he is the best but I cann't help it ..whatever I do I keep holding back .,.....
I don't have nobody to talk to ...My mom left us sins we were 12 so as you understand sins than I have been anwsering my own questions but this is one question I can't answer that's why I need help.....
thx
Then loosin up a little. Just dont do anything you dont feel right doing.
Read up on different techniques and positions. Maybe your BF feels he you dont like sex very much when he has to start it all the time. Maybe try initiating sex youself.
Work on your confidence level, a confident partner is sexy!!
Ok so heres the problem, me and my boyfriend have had sex and I dont think my hymen broke. I know it didnt because even though we have had sex many times sometimes he goes to far and hits it and it hurts but it wont brake. Now I just dont let him go all the way in because it hurts and theres not point since it wont brake. So what can I do! I heard theres an operation to get rid of it but I am 16 and I dont want my mom to know. Please Help
Humm..are you sure you have a hymen? Its possible to loose it with out actually haveing sex. Some virgins do not have their hymen due to tampons, exercise and etc.
Alright on sunday my boyfriend fingered me, and this was the first time I've ever been fingered. It hurt a lot, and afterwards I bled a little. Now when I pee it burns and hurts a lot...
Is it normal for it to hurt or bleed the first time? And if he scratched me could it get infected?
Thanks
Yes, it could get infected. You need to make sure, if you do it again, that his nails are cut very short and are clean. If his nails have any dirt under them and he scratches you it could cause an infection. More than likley the problem is that you got a small scratch and the urine is burning it. No biggie. But next time just remember to voice you opinion when it hurts and tell him what to do or not to do. Lube works good and make sure to have him use it.
ok im 13 female and i first got my period in october of 2005 and i havent seen it since. no i havent has sex but i do masturbate so does that have any effect on it or what? also i guess i discharge. my main question is, whats the difference from cum and a discharge for a girl? it looks the same and what nots. please give me good answers!!!!!! i rate HIGH!!!
Since you only recently started your period it may take awhile for your period to regulate so dont worry.
Discharge happens for a number of reason but basically its just your bodys way of cleaning your vagina. I know it sounds gross.
how can i tell if my BF is circumcized or not without asking him..i don't wanna ask him and him feel uncomfortable
If you have seen his penis you will know if he has been or not. An un-circumsized penis looks very different from one that is. There will be a layer of skin (the foreskin) covering it.
Okay.If a guys fingers are too big to finger you,what happens?Does it go through anyways or not?What happens?Help me out please,I would appreciate it highly.Thanks in advance.
You shouldnt have to worry about his fingers being to big. Your vagina is much like a rubber band that can strech to accomidate then go back to its original size.
ok if someone is pregnent how soon would morning sickness kick in? and do all women get morning sickkness? do most women get morning sickness by the time they are 2 weeks pregnent?
Im a mother of three so its safe to say Ive had my share of morning sickness and I can tell you its different with everyone and different with each pregnancy.
With my first morning sickness started instantly and didnt stop the whole 9 months.
With my second it started after I was about 1 month pregnant and stopped at about 3 months pregnant and with my last I didnt get morning sickness at all.
alrighty im 13 and i want to start to masterbuate but i have like noo clue what to do like what do i use how do i do it etc!! help me out!!
Well Im going to assume your a girl but either way I guess this advice can go for boy or girl. Number one, dont be embarssed about it, its perfectly natural.
Just touch yourself till you find out what makes you feel good. Everyone is different so noone can really tell you what to do.
im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice?
Just because your body is ready dosent mean your mind is. If your not sure then just say your not ready. If he cares about you he will respect you for it. If not then he wasnt worth it anyway.
I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist?
I know what you mean exactly. In real life Im a very dominant person but I kept having fantasies about being dominated. I finially told my husband I wanted to give it a try but he insisted he didnt like the idea of it and was scared he would hurt me. Finially we gave it a try and I realized some things are just better left an fantasy because what seemed really hot in my head turned out to be kinda scary in real life.