I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had sex over a month ago, we used a condom and everything but my period HASN'T COME...and I've never panicked this much about this before. Usually when it's late it's about a week late and everything but this is just too long.
We probably had sex the VERY end of june... and then all month july with no period. Now it's august 10th and I STILL havent gotten it.
We used protection and everything though, so I don't know if something happened, like the condom didn't break open or anything.
IT;s not even like the sex lasted THAT LONG ya know? so I don't understand... like I don't get why its so late.
Could I be pregnant?
I'm extremely worried.
What signs would I be getting if I were a month pregnant?
Please help me... I'm so scared.
Well first stop stressing because large amounts of stress can delay your period.
Also go get a home pregnancy test or go to the dr bc teh dr cant tell your parents bc your over 16.
Hope I helped and good luck
Bianca
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I'm 17 years old, and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We've been having sex for the past four months and I was just recently put on YAZ birth control. I read the packet and it said I don't even need a back-up if I took the first pill on the first day of my period .. which I did. But i'm still paranoid. This might be a dumb question, but can he "finish" in me? Or does he have to pull out. I've been on the pill for 3 weeks now, and we still use a condom. Just because I'm so nervous. Having a solid answer would really put me at ease. Thanks so much!
I was in th same situation.
Im still taking Yaz.
Just to let you know Birth Control is never 100%.
My ex and I were using condoms until one day we decided not too and thats when I started getting scared too.
My mom said I could let him finish in me but I said no way!!!!!!!
So Technically you can becase thats the purpose of bc but I would just be a bit percautious.
Hope I helped
Bianca
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i was just wondering, it has never happened to me thank god but if a girl or guy was to get raped 3 yrs ago. can they still do anything about it now.
i know that if someone hits you and you dont report it right away cops cant do anything about it if you report it later down the road with or without witnesses.
when we say rape does it mean the guy or girl has to have intercourse with the victim or can it be the taking of clothes off and almost having intercourse?
Im gonig to tell you something,
let her tell please.
To be honest nothingmay happen really depending.
My situation was that my step father wsa molesting my sister and I for 4 years and finally I told my mo but we couldnt do anything becasue she was in school and had no money. So about 4 more years later my sister told her phycologists and now were dealing with it.
My step father basically is getting away with it becasue it was so long ago. But he has been charged.
She needs to tell though for all the other girls also. She could totally get hi mbecause he could be donig it to more people! I hope I helped
Bianca
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15/f
okay,so way before i even knew what it was i was attracted to girls.ive been attracted to guys,but a lot more girls.So i was pretty sure i was bi-sexual.But i had sex and done everything with a guy,and didn't get any enjoyment whatsoever.not because it was my first time,because even after that.i just am not attracted to a penis.touching it grosses me out unless im drunk or something.but i still think a lot of guys are hott and thought i was like in love with one.but its just so wierd now,cause when i did everything with a girl it just seemed right and everything(of ocurse the first time was kinda awkward tho)
but yeah so now im really confused
Well I can say I am in that same position. I dated a guy for a year and a month and we had sex a lot. I did it to just do it but then this girl came along who was gay and I was really attracted to so we started fooling around and now Im in love with her and we've been together for almost 8 months now. I still think guys are hot but I don't want to sleep wit them. I mean you sound like your bi to me. Its okay to like girls and you might just become gay like I did. Well I hope Ive helped you with your question.
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okay i dont track my period.
so that may be a prolem..
but 2 days ago, me and my boyfriend tried hacing sex.
but he couldnt get anywhere near to fit it so nothing really happened
and i know he hadnt cum before that or anything
is there any reason why i shoudl worry that i may be pregnant?
This question has been in everyones mind hun.
Well I mean you dont just get pregnant from actually nutting and finishing.
You know that clear stuff that comes out while your trying?
thats like prenut and that can get you pregnany too.
Hopefully you used a ondom, nd honestly if you dont track your period then give it a little more time.
Think about Birth control
Hope I helped
Bianca
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is it absolutely necessary to give my boyfriend head before we can have sex? i just hate the whole idea of it and really would rather skip it.. we've done everything else, but does anyone have any experience with just skipping that? or do i just have to suck it up? (i feel like once i do it, then im required to do it again)
any opinions would be nice
Heres the deal. If you want to have sex oaky. But if you dont like giving a blow job then thats fine to. Personally I hate that crap to. Ive skipped it too. I mean there are other kinds of fur play to do. And if he doesnt respect your decision then mabye you should let him know how you fell. Stannd up for what you want to do.
Hope I helped
Bianca
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I recently got very, very drunk and hooked up with my good friend's ex boyfriend. I am pretty sure he likes me as more than a friend and know he wants to go "further" with me. I'm seeing him twice this weekend, I'm going to be under the influence both of those times but am not sure what to do. I like him back, as a crush.
My friend got really angry when I hooked up with her ex (they only dated for a week), which I understand but I can't help how I feel for this guy. Should I just not see him, or should I do things behind my friends back? The answer seems obvious but it doesn't feel obvious because I recently got into a huge fight with that friend and I don't know what to do. Please help!
Well in this situation you have to think.
Friends are like dimonds, forever. And this guy yeah hes the flavor of the week.
Its okay they only dated a week. I dont think your friend would have minded so much if you wernt drunk and slept with him.
SO the question is how well do you know this guy? Have you ever talked to him while not drinking? I mean for all you know hes gonig to be a total ass and just want to have sex with you.
Talk to your friend about whats going on in your head. Let her know your intrested and your crushing and still want to see him.
I think shell understand.
Then talk to this guy. Tell him no fooling you ant to go on dates. Have fun go see a movie, dont get drunk na dhave sex. See what hes really like. Bring some firneds along to to get a second oppinion. Just let your firned know about this plan to so its not so aquard.
I hope Ive helped.
and let me know what happens
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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??
ill rate high.
thanks
Well Its could be because lotion isnt meant to be put in your crotch. Also dont use conditioner thats for you hair and it wont make it softer. The rashes hurt because probably because of the razor you used. Hint for next time use a shaver that the guys use. Like one of those automatics. Works better
~Bianca~
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Last time my question for deleted.
can someone please tell me what SPOONING means?
Like... i have no idea what it means.
please help
ill rate high
thank you
Well from wht I know it means its when a girl/guy has their back to theirs bf's chest and its when he does her or him in the butt. Well thats what I think it means. And thats what Im told
~Bianca~
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i have a LGVX9800 and i have no idea how to use mp3 feature thats supposedly theere...
and also..i want to know the pros and cons of having sex..thank you
lol wow yeah I dont really know first hand but I can tell you the list of cons is so much longer. Pros
~ It feels good
~ its supposed to be special
Cons
~risk of stds
~hurts
~can get you pregnant
~can ruin your life if its not with your true lover
~can spread a disease if you dont know you have it
~if your partner or your past partners have been doing it you will be doing it w/ everyone they have and can catch a disease
must I go on? My advice is to stay abstinent until your married that way its a shure thing of being special
~Bianca~
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Is it normal for like you to get horny wen you look at like nude pics of the same pics? because like i dont really no if that means im bi or its just normal.. i rate good!! thanx
- xoBALLERINAox
Well I mean all people are normal. It doesnt mean your bi it means your horny and thats ok just as long as you dont have sex. I know it sounds silly but just masterbate. Less diseases that way
Bianca
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when someone goes "ill tap that!" or say "you know you'd tap that!" does it mean have sex basically? thanks in advance, I RATE HIGH for GOOD
yeah it means that its a one night stand for sex. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Is this a stupid thing to do?? Or does it feel better?
I wouldnt know but I mean my friend says its the same but your period will stop while your donig it. But still you problably shouldnt be doing it but I mean if thats what you do I cant tell you what to do
Bianca
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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/
No nothings wrong. Espically at your age. 16 is definatly a stage wheere you willl be thinking about sex. ALOT! But I mean its the whole trying to stay clean thing you know. Its normal to think like that just dont be the one to fall in to the hype Hope I helped
Bianca~
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i know that alot of people say only guys masterbate and yeah i know that isnt true its just more accepted that guys do right? i mean tons of girls do too?
Yeah alot of girls do to. But you hear that all the time only guys do it and girls are just more private about it. I mean you wouldnt really want someone to know what you do in your spare time. Its not there buisness. So yeah its really equal but I mean girls just dont say it. Hope I helped
~~Bianca~~
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well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice
Ok well I have a friend just like you. Im telling you now even though its hard just stop because you have to get him to prove its not all about sex. Hes probably using you because if he really cared for you dont you think he would of asked you out so you could be the only one he could have sex with? I mean its hard to say now that your used to it but try and tell him why your stopping. Well I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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I was wondering.. how often do guys get wet dreams? Like how old and how often
And how long do girls get periods? like till how old
I havent got it yet so i dont know like wuts gonna happend like wut will it feel like
and when a guy goes through puberty wut does it feel like??
thanks in advance &hearts
Ok well wet dreams usually start at 12 or 13. And you period all depends on your body weight. You have to be usually like 100 lbs and if not it should be there befor 16. It all has diffrent side effects. Some get back aches and some get an attitude change.
Bianca~~~
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I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.
Help?
Well I mean this is normal for most girls who arnt ready. But the drive is not gone. Its more of in a parked or nutural setting. See what Im saying? Well I mean because it probably hurt and then well You get used to it the more and more you do it! But Im not saying to do it over again and I mean you should wait until its w/ a long time lover or mabye till marraige! Well I hope I helped
Bianca~~~~~*****
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Alright...weird question..but oh well. My boyfriend always likes to like suck on my nipples...(heh)...and now like a week later I have a weird scab thing and its never happened before..and we've been together to a year..so umm why did this happen now?
Are yo on your period? It could be a little sensative I mean but its not bad. It could just be hes been nibbling a little harder! its ok though its nuthin bad!!
Bianca~~~~~****
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ok look i shave down there and wen i do like a day after there is red bumps and they hurt a lil like wen i put on my jeans and i do use shaving cream and soap wen i dont have any
Well I mean it will get like that because its very sensitive. What I usually do is you knoe that thing that guys use to shave their heads? Its like a buzzer?? It dont hurt and you can take off as much as you want. Well like its probably doing that because your not using enough soap and water! So well I hopped I helped
Bianca*~~~~
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