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Q: Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!

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well sweetie.. it looks to me that you have a problem. Just tell your parents what you told us. They might yell .. but its okay because in the end they will be there for.. instead of not telling them and being alone in this. I know your really scared. Im 15 and im pregnant, im scared too. As for the father of baby.. I dont want to sound rude but he might not be there for you. There are plenty of single mothers out there as we speak.. I think you and the baby would be better off without the father. Hes 21 years old.. and he probably sleeps around for fun.. most guys do. But you dont want to get mixed up in that sorta thing.. it would be to much stress on you and the baby.


Q: is there anyway i can like my my vagina better for when i get fingerd....like not to make the guy grossed out lol
Sweetie there is no way you can make your vagina better for the guy. Believe me.. the guy isnt going to think your vagina is gross. Maybe trim your hair up alittle .. and so you dont smell .. clean down there very good.


Q: i'm 14/f i got my period when i was 10. i kno thats young. these past few days i've been getting LOTS of white stuff come out of my *area* and i haven't had my period for i think 1 and a half months? my boobs are getting smaller too i think. i'm not sure. i'm a virgin. i don't know whats happening anybody know?
hunnie.. that white stuff is called Discharge. its prefectly normal for every girl to get dischange. The reason you might have skipped a period is because of Stress. Its prefectly normal and there is nothing to worry about.


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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female
Okay sweetie. Just because your friend is going to have sex with a boy this February doesn't mean you have to do it also. But if you really want to then its your decision. Oh and you want to do it with your friend's eX. Well I think that if you do do it with your friend's eX she will find out anyways. SO just do it when you think your ready. Plus if your a real good friend then you should tell her yourself of what your planning on doing. Take Care.

-Katie-

Q: during any type of sexual activities, how long is it supposed to take before a guy has an "orgasm"? i think i have a problem, because in less than a minute i already bust. whats wrong?
its normal, you have nothing to worry about!

-Katie-

Q: How old do you have to be to have sex?
Well really any age.... but you don't want to lose your virginaty at the age of 5 or 6! Thats just gross.... but i take it your not 5 or 6! When you think your ready then i guess you can have sex. But if i were you i would probably wait til your about.... 17 or 18 because then you can decide if your old enough and wise enough to have sex for the first time!

-Katie-

Q: my brother is a homosexual, and has falen for my most recent boyfriend who ive been going out with for a month. My boyfriend has just dumped me and has been seen going out with my brother! I tried talking to my brother, he said he couldn't change and they were clearly solemates and deeeply inlove. I even found out that they had rented out a motel room and were heard having oral sex on the night of my birthday! My brother said he was busy that night and i now know why!What should I do because I know I'm only 15 but had sex with the boyfriend that now turns out to be a homosexual!!!!!!!
Well clearly you must let go of your ex! He is interested into men and it had nothing to do with you! But then again it does! Your brother is seeing your ex. Wow.... well there is someone else out there for you and that person isn't a homosexual and surely isn't your ex boyfriend! Just take time and spend that time with your friends and just don't worry about your brother and your ex boyfriend! It isn't your concern right now and when it is you will know!

-Katie-

Q: i just recently had sex and im worried im pregnet...what are some signs that your pregnet?
You will have morning sickness and tired all the time.... just go to your nearest store and buy a pregnancy test and you will find out for sure. But wait a week or two. You can also get checked out and find out that way!

-Katie-

Q: im nearly 16 and i have a small penis and its a bit worrying and im not sure what my gf will think
does it matter?
No it really doesn't matter that much.... some girls do like a big penis but then again girls also like a small one because it goes better and doesn't hurt as much. And a boy's penis isn't done growing until they are at least 17 years old so you have a whole year and i wouldn't worry about it that much! Good Luck....

-Katie-

Q: well, i know its strange, but sometimes i wonder if my parents were virgins before they got married. because they both married late in there lives )38 39ish) so i kind of wonder. is this strange to think? i mean im not going to go up to my mom one day and say hey mom how are ya doing? so btw were you a virgin before dad?
No this isn't weird to wonder..... my mom and dad were not before they got married.... so it is normal to wonder about that about your parents!

-Katie-

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Q: I luve my boyfriend Jason and I know he is the one for me we have been together for 1 year and 2 months and we have been talking about having sex but my parents are very strict and I can't talk to them about it so I need some help pleaze help luve ya!
Well if you think your ready and you feel you are old enough to have sex the go for it! Just be careful... you don't want to get pregnete! But i'm all up for you having sex and if you really want to then do it! Good Luck

-Katie-

Q: my clit is a little bit brown at the end. is this normal?
No it is not normal! I think you should go and see a doctor as soon as possible! Everything should be okay just wipe yourself better down there! Good luck!

-Katie

Q: I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox
Well I think you can do HEAD with braces on! It is possible. Just be careful that you don't get anything caught! Good luck

-Katie

Oh and for the wires use your hand or fingers to cover them when your going on with your thing!

Q: What does it mean when your cherry pops and does it hurt?
Okay hun when your cherry pops it means you are not a virgin anymore because of the dick or finger that was inside of you broke the skin that kept you a virgin. And the only way it hurts is if your boyfriend has a big dick and it goes in your vigina and then it will hurt. If your cherry pops then you might bleed alittle. But thats all!

-Katie

Q: I have a problem I did somthing i shouldent have my mom told me never But i was curios so I looked a porno online should i tell her i looked at it or just leave it as is?
Just leave it as it is no one will find out and what they don't know won't hurt them!

-Katie

Q: ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!!
He means a "69" you give him head and he eats you out!

-Katie

Q: If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..??
I don't know why he would want to go down there... but if you want him to and if he really wants to then go for it! It is your decition! Make the right one and plus have fun with your man!

-Katie

Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o
Go to the doctor and check with him!

-Katie

I hope everything goes as planed for you. Oh and i think you can if you go to a Clinic!

Q: hey i asked the question about being 13 and pregnant well i just found out im having twins!!! my question is wht do they do in a c-section people r tellin me in to tiny and might have to get a c-section, nd i just wanna no like is it more or less painful, and wht do they do! ill rate u, i need advice!! thnx
Well your 13.... well i hope you have your mom helping you... Umm.. a C-Section is less painful because they give you a spinal tap and your spine and stomach are numb so you can't feel it but all they do is cut your stomach open (down by your vigina) and pull the twins out. But you might be able to have a regular delivery, because it doesn't matter how tiny you are it is if you dialate right or not. Dialating is when your vigina expanes so the babies can fit through. I hope i helped

-Katie
.....if you need anything else just ask me!

Also good luck with your babies! Keep in touch katelynmmardis@yahoo.com

Q: hey what does it mean to b fingered i believe its also called second base and what does to bone mean? thanx ur the best!!
To be fingered is not second base that is 3rd and it is when i guy puts his finger up in you. And to bone i think it means you give the guy head. i hope i helped you.

-Katie

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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.





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