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Gender: Female
Location: D-Town
Occupation: -none-
Age: 14
AIM: x3ashleyjean
Member Since: March 3, 2005
Answers: 80
Last Update: August 24, 2007
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I am not a virigin, but for some reason I have bled a couple of times when my boyfriend and I messed around (fingering). It usually hurts when he first starts but then its fine.. but I just feel sore afterwards and bleed a little bit sometimes. Is this bad or normal? (link)
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Normal.
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Well, ive had sex with 2 guys..
1st guy-had sex with 1 girl
2nd guy-had sex with at least..8 girls
and all of a sudden ill be sitting with both legs up..n i smell this odor comig from.."downstairs" and it was never there before..i shower everday-and im scared it might be a STD (link)
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If your scared that it might be an STD than go get checked. The worst thing you can do is not get checked because after waiting many STD's can get worse and cause inflamation, fallopian scaring, and can lead to you not being able to have children. Just go to your doctor or gyno and get your "downstairs" checked. =] If you have any other symptoms then let me know and I can help because I know alot about STDS.
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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex. (link)
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If you need to be asking a website if your ready to have sex, it shows that you are not mature enough to handle the situation. It's a decision you must make for yourself, and it seems to me like you are not ready for it. And I don't want to sound mean either, I'm saying it seriously.
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My cousin has been masturbating since she was 3 years old. Is that normal? She is 17 now. (link)
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Yes, little boys even get boners when they are infants.
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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There is NO way you are ready to have sex. Going out for over like 8 months is more reasonable. You are no where near that. He's probabaly like one of your first boyfriends and you feel a need to automatically trust and love him, and feel like he does too. It happens alot with young relationships, but the odds are, your not in love. Eventually you could be. And I know, I HATE when people tell me I'm not or haven't been in love. It pisses me off so much. But seriosly, you barely know what this stuff is all about, it's so much more than just having sex. You need to be emotionally ready, and at 14 no one is. You need to give yourself time to know what love is, and that could take years. I'm saying all this as a person who is just deciding to have sex after about 9 months. It's a huge huge huge step and cannot be taken lightly. You need to reevaluate your priorities and understand that you are no where near sex, or love with your boyfriend of the week. If you want to talk more about it you can message me or instant message me at x3ashleyjean because I really don't want you to do something you'll regret 100%.
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my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce... (link)
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Don't worry so much. A lot and I mean A LOT of guys and girls watch porn. All ages. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love your mother, he just watches porn. I went through the same thing and I felt the same way, I hated it. I thought it was disgusting. But after I grew up a little bit I realized that it's a normal thing and TONS of people watch it. Don't let it upset you.
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me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
please help me! (link)
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You really need to be checked by your doctor, if you can't do this, go to a teen clinic or get a pregnancy test and go from there. 3 months is a long time and you need to find out asap. If you are pregnant you need to tell your parents so they can help you right away. Waiting to tell them probably wouldn't be a good thing to do in your situation. Your so young and you need to go to a doctor and discuss your options. Good luck. Write me back if you need support. =]
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okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help! (link)
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Your body will only produce milk if you are deffinetly pregnant. Don't believe everything you read in mags.
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do guys care if a girl has really small boobs i mean when you are like having sex and they take your bra off would they be little turned off about it please help i am 15 105pounds and have an A cup and i feel really uncomfortable about it and i really want to have sex soon so guys what would you think (link)
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If your not confident in having this guy your about to have sex with seeing you then your not ready to have sex. If a guy truely cares for you, your cup size will not matter to him. If it does, he's a scumbag.
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when a woman cums, and the guy is eating her out is it normal if the guy doesnt like the way it tastes? (link)
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Yea, because it's nasty.
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im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head
please help
ill rate 5 no matter what (link)
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This guy sounds majorly skecthy. You shouldn't meet people off line. They could be sexual predators, and never give your address, full name, or any personal info. Be safe when online, the internet is a lovely, but dangerous place.
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I think I've caught something nasty - where do I go to get it checked out? (link)
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You could go to a teen clinic or any health clinic that's near you. They are confidential mostly, most cost near to nothing. Just look it up for somehwere near you. Go soon too, nasty smell + burning probably = std.
hope I helped.
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I was at a party and I was drunk and an older guy I met there forced me into doing stuff i didn't want to do, the worst part was he wasn't drinking. Im not sure what to do because i don't know whether to confront him about it. I feel like I was raped and I really don't know what to do to get through this. (link)
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This is called rape. You need to report it to someone immediatley so you can persecute while their still is evidence against him. The sooner, the better. You were taken advantage of and he needs to know it wasn't right.
Hope I helped.
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I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.
I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!
**Nikki** (link)
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Cheating is dirty.
I think if you really loved this J fellow, or even respected him, you would break it off or atleast tell him what happened with you and this dirty E person.
Cheating is pretty much disgusting...so you shouldn't do it anymore.
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Hi..i performed oral sex to a guy on..friday night but he didn't cum..we didn't use a condom..and today (monday)..i feel like i am sort of about to get a sore throat but i'm not sure..it could just be in my head because i've b een thinking about it. Could this be something i should get checked out, or should i not worry or w/e..and has anyone ever felt like i have after oral sex..? (link)
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You should go to the doctors asap because you could have ghonorea.
Ghonorea makes your throat all sore and it comes from doing stuff like oral sex.
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Do you ever find yourself scared or maybe a little nervous to have sex or other things like that? Sometimes I feel like I could do it but then others, I dont feel like I'm ready. And the boy I like likes me back (but he just hasnt't asked me out yet) and I know that he's into all that and especially rushes. What should I do if/when the time(s) come up? It's okay if you can't answer this question like if you dont feel the same way as me but thanks for reading it. i appreciate it. (link)
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Well, it does kinda depend on how old you are.blablabla, that's what eveyrone says..so NEXt
It also should be something you absolutely know your ready for, so if your on anf off on it, don't do it. If it comes up, if your not ready tell him so, or if you wnat to then, do whateve you think or feel is right.
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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
love: the girl who doesn't know!! (link)
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There's nothing wrong with that. If you start to develop other sexual or other feelings for girls, then you might consider yourself to be Bi, and there's nothing wrong with that. Or you could just like to have 'fun'.
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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m (link)
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If your in love, then you may not have to wait untill your married, unless you absolutely want too. It's sweet that you want to wait, and some girls wil appreciate it, if they wnat the same, so all in all, it depends on who your with, if your in love, and how your significant other feels on the issue.
Rate?
-Hope I helped-
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