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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days?

If you have premarital sex it won't cause you to break up. Not every relationship is the same. Mabey some people will breakup but they probably would have broken up even if they didn't have sex. Hope I helped!

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~*~Natalie~*~
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

It's totally normal! Don't worry! 99% of the world feels this way sometimes(the other 1% lies about it!!) lol

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~*~Natalie~*~
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okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.

-birthday girl

hey, you need to convice her NOT to do this. Is there something in here life that is making her unhappy? if there is try to help, or get like an adult to help you, just tell her you need her!! DON'T LET HER DO IT!!!

Luv Ya,
~*~Natalie~*~

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This is a bit embarrissing im 16 and my penis is not that big and im worried what my girlfiend will think will it matter? does it matter to girls?

hey it will probably not matter if she really likes you. it wouldn't bother me because its not you fault. besides, it doesn't matter how big it is its how you use it! hope i helped!

~*~Natalie~*~

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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it.

yes your still a virgin!

~*~Natalie~*~

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

hey! don't have a kid. i went through a stage like that when i was 12 cuz my cuz had a cute baby. i would baby sit and quickly found out BABYS ARE HARD WORK!!!!!!!! don't ruin your life. if he won't ever break up with you as you stated have kids later after your married or at least older. your only 15, wait a few years! you'll thank yourself if you wait!

~*~Natalie~*~

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i dont exactly have a question...but i just need someone to talk to and just for anyone to give me advice...i am a Freshman..im 14 im in a relationship. and i've been stressing alot of skool lately!!...its just that im failing 2 of my classes rite now!. its just that my 2 teachers give out TOO much assignments and its just stressing me bcause i dont do it! my sister says i need to learn how 2 manage my time! and i told her its not bkuz of cheerleading...(because im always @ praktice or @ a game) and well i just dont know! somebody help!!

Hey! I understand what your going through. i'm pretty much at the same time in my life. i do sports and am usually good @ skool but not this year! i have boyfriends and bunches of other crap. i think it would be kool 2 talk to ya'! my email's n_cheerleader@hotmail.com

~*~Natalie~*~

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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.

there is NOTHING wrong with you! i can go like 4 or 5 rounds. you just have i high sex drive. you can talk to him about it. or you can masterbate.

~*~Natalie~*~

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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is

it is when you suck your boyfriend (If your a girl)dick. or lick your girlfriends pussy.(if your a dude.

~*~Natalie~*~

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ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something?

no, it's not magnetic effect. he has to insert it into her.

~*~Natalie~*~

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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)

hey! tell your sis congrats!!!

well i like...
~girls

lorraine
april


~Boys

brian
charlie
adam

hope i helped!
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~*~Natalie~*~

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I'm 13, and my boyfriend is too. we've been going out for an exact week, and we've already kissed. I know all guys a pervs, but he shows it more. Him and his friends always make stupid jokes on how he wants "a whole can of me" or how he thinks im so hot and he wants to have me for breakfast, lame stuff like that. but they also say he wants to stick me, and sleep with me, like how theres a "room in his queen sized bed". but he still always says im hot, and not how he likes my personality. so now im not so sure if he likes me for me. errrgh. what the hell should i do?!

YOUR 13!!??? Well, isee where you are coming from. and i hate to say this, but i think he just wants to have sex with you! :( I'm sorry i said it but your 13! and i just don't think he wants a relationship! sry

~*~Natalie~*~

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if i am going to have sex with a girl that it is her first time how do i go about it with out hurting her? should i just go slow?

just go slowwww! it will hurt no matter what, but if you just let her tell you how she feels, and you listen, and communicate it should help her relax. It's VERY nice of you to be thinking of her and trying to help! Good Luck! plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?

I think 15 is a little young buti'm not here to judge. if it's what YOU want to do and YOU think your mentally and phisically ready for it than do what YOU feel is right. Don't let ANYONE pressure you. make sure you use protection. good luck! hope i helped! plz rate me!

~*~Natalie~*~

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what is the best age for making out? and any one have tips on what do wit da touge?

hey! i made-out for the 1st time when i was 12. just go wit the flow!


~*~Natalie~*~
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ok i know this sounds stupid..but i don't know what a hetrosexual is! can some please tell me?

thx

a hetrosexual is a straight person.(a person who is attracted to the opposite sex)

~*~Natalie~*~
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i got a few q's
1) how do u giv head
2) do u close ur eyes wen u r
3) what if he doesnt cum
4) when he is cuming what do u do?

if you don't know what to do than your obviously not ready to do it. don't rush it!

~*~Natalie~*~

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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU

Hey! C i like guys(i'm straight) so i dunno how you feel, but i have a friend like that and she says sometimes she fells like that and i don't get discusted, i just say, people are who they are and if they like girls or boys it shouldn't matter, so if your "friend" is truely a friend that she should start acting like a better friend.

~*~Natalie~*~

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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me !

you need to tell someone! you are 15 and about to deliver a baby. if your parents are as bad as they sound i don't blame you form not telling them, but you need to tell an adult. just go to a doctor. good luck with everything!

~*~Natalie~*~

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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????

no it is not wrong. if you love him! don't rush anything, your only 13! good luck with the relationship!

~*~Natalie~*~

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