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so me and this boy were really getting into our makeout session, and he like undid my shirt and started kissing and sucking my boobs. i just closed my eyes cuz i didn't know what else to do, is that right? (link)
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When it comes to things like this, there is no right or wrong thing to do. Just do what feels natural!
However, its pretty nasty to act as if you're enjoying something you're not, and guys can always see through this, so be careful.
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alright so i really want birth control not just because im sexually active, but because i have bad PMS and im not close to my mom at all i dont go to her for anything or talk to her about anything and im really close to my boyfriends mother and shes really laid back and i was wondering does your parent or guardian have to be present to go to the doctors with you to get birth control? or can someone like my boyfriends mom go with me, my mom would also flip out a lot if she knew i wanted it, and i was sexually active. (link)
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No, you can go to the doctors on your own, thats what I did :) But you might want to take someone along for moral support.
Also, if you don't want your mum to know, she won't - everything that you say to the doctor, stays with the doctor, its completely confidential. But I would highly recommend speaking this through with her - she will react better if you sit her down and explain to her why you want to go on birth control than if she found your pills one day.
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Okay!!!
i'm sick of it!!
i mean... no offense BUT what's up with all these 14 and 15 year old girls thinking they are so old enough to have sex, like it's a casual thing.
I'm going to be 15 next week, and sex NEVER came in my mind to me, and I would never have it before i turned at least 20
yea... i know call me a holy person or crap... but seriously!! why are people doing it SO young...
They are still kids
I was reading all these questions about sex... and they are from like 14 and 15 year olds
THAT'S RIDICULOUS
i'm not trying to lecture or anything now here's my serious question....
I am getting to know guys now, and gonna be dating them....... now i'm kind of afraid that they'll all want sex and pressure me into it..
I'm not like that... i'm saving it
And the one thing i'm worried about is that if i don't give it... he'll take it from me
I mean, i don't care if i have to break up or lose them just bc they want sex... i just don't want to be taken advantaged of... y'know?
Help?
Thx for reading.... sorry it's sooo long (link)
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I agree with the previous answer - you don't actually have all the information on situations where girls lose their virginity, so its not really very fair of you to judge them purely on their age.
For example, surely it would be more right morally if, say, a 14 or 15 year old girl, lost her virginity to her long-term boyfriend in a loving and caring relationship, than if a 20 year old lost their virginity on a one night stand?
I think that 14 or 15 is quite young, but at the end of the day, age is merely a number and it is only one of many variables in a situation. I would be more appalled if a person were to lose their virginity to someone they have been with for only a few weeks, or who isn't mature enough to prepare for the consequences to be honest.
But for your serious question - if a guy asks for sex, or foreplay or ANYTHING that you're not comfortable with, just say no. If he's a good guy, then he'll respect your decision and wait for you. If he pressures you more, just dump him.
And for a guy to forcefully take your viginity if you said you didn't want sex would have to be pretty awful, so do you really think you'll be dating anyone who is capable of that anyway??
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i know that when having sex if its tight, girls make alot of noise, and i was woundering, do guys find that annoying? (link)
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Well, guys tend be even more turned on by girls moaning, because it means that they're doing something right hehe!
But if you mean a sort of 'squelching' noise down there, its perfectly normal, and if a guy is repulsed by this then he simply isn't ready to have sex.
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what does that mean? (link)
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Well, the word "cherry" can be slang for the hymen. So, when a "cherry is popped" its when a hymen is broken, aka when your virginity is lost during sex.
Hope this helped!
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i just turned 16 and the last time i was with a guy was about 6 months ago and i jacked him off but he didn't finger me. then we split, so he never ended up fingering me. now i'm with someone different who i know is very experienced and i know pretty soon he is going to end up fingering me. i've tried fingering myself to see what it feels like but i cant seem to do it. i always think i'm doing it right but don't feel it at all. i just want to be prepared for when he does it to me. please help! i'll rate 5s. thanks everyone! (link)
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Like others have said, they both feel completely different. The fact that your boyfriend's hand is going to be at a different angle adds to this, and the fact that someone you really fancy (and love) is doing this to you makes it even better!
However, make sure you are completely ready for this, and if you aren't, just say no when your boyfriend goes to go near your pants! If he'sa nice guy, he'll understand.
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for all the girls that got fingered for the first time- did it hurt? or was it just uncomfortable? thanks. (link)
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In general, no it doesn't hurt. If you are not turned on (ie lubricated enough), it may become a bit sore after a while, but if your guy is a nice one, he'll be understanding and take it slower or stop for a while.
Also, there is a small chance of your hymen breaking if he puts more than a couple of fingers up you. This may hurt, I don't know personally. But if you use tampons then hymen-wise things should be a little more flexible.
But really, the best way of ensuring things are completely painless and comletely enjoyable is to make sure you are 110% ready, with a guy who you trust, and taking things slowly. Also communicate! Tell him what feels good, what doesn't and if it hurts you. Make out a lot beforehand. If you are worried or tense it may hurt. So relax, and have fun!
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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I am 16, and a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 20 months, and we both love each other a lot. We are both virgins.
Over the course of our relationship, we have taken things very slowly, and we have only just started doing sexual things (exploring...with hands, if you get my drift!).
I know I am not ready for sex, and me and my boyfriend have talked about this, and he is prepared to wait until I'm ready, whether it takes weeks, months or years!
I think that he is the one, and I want him to be the one I lose my virginity with, but as I said, I'm not ready yet.
I think that if you are thinking of losing your virginity, then make sure you are 110% ready, protected and with someone who will wait if you want to wait.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year. we're both 17 by the way. at the begining of the year we had a rough patch in the relationship but everything's fine now. anyways about 6 months ago i started giving him hand jobs and i've been fine with that. now we talked about me giving him a blow job which when we talk about it i'm fine with it, even a little excited, and we'll plan when we can get together but when we actually get together and we're alone, i chicken out and find some excuse to why i won't do it when there really isn't any good excuse. then the minute i leave him i regret it. i want to do this i really do and not just because he's asking for it. im not the type of girl that stands by my guy's side and does what he wants. so why can't i get over this anxiety of giving a blow job? (link)
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What you've said in this question points to one simple answer - you're not ready yet. If you chicken out beforehand then it's a sure sign that you are not ready, and you shouldn't be doing this. Wait until the time feels right, and you're not scared, and when you know you are totally, 100% ready. If you just puch the fear to th eback of your mind and go for it you may €or may not enjoy it at the time, but you are sure to regret it later.
Remember to talk to him about his sexual history, and if he has been sexually active before being with you, use a condom.
Hope this helps.
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ok this sounds really weird but, what are a guys "balls?" Like I know that they have the actually penis and stuff but ya. And also, when you give a hand job, do you play with the guys balls too? I'm kinda inexperienced.
Thanks so much. (link)
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Erm, a guys 'balls' are his testicles, they are behind his penis.
I am not very experienced at giving hand jobs either, but I know that when I play with my boyfriends balls he loves it and orgasms a lot quicker hehe!
If you ARE going to play with his balls, kind of gently massage them and be VERY careful. They are veyr sensitive so you could easily hurt him.
And finally, I hope you're in your late teens and in a stable, long term relationship if you are giving your guy a hand job.
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Ok well if anyone has read my other question you would kno that i hav been daing someone for 3 weeks now and he wants to have sex with me. but i didnt know if he was using me or not.
Well he sed that he will wait but he wants to finger me and stuff. Should i let him or should i just want because im scared that he might get the idea that i want to have sex with him soon but i dont. Im going to the movies with him on saturday and he wants to feel my up my skirt and stuff should i let him do that or not? I want him too but idk if thats the right choice. Please help!! thanks (link)
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The only person you should be asking this question is yourself, as only you know how you feel and whether you are ready or not.
However, three weeks is a very short time and I'm surprised you are happy to make out with him let alone go past that! I think that by letting him finger you/have sex with you after three weeks will just earn you a reputation (and not the sort that you want) and besides, do you really feel close enough to him to do these things? Is he really that special?
If you want to wait, wait. And tell him that you're not ready, or you just don't want to do this stuff yet. If he's a decent bloke he'll respect your opinions and wait for you, if he refuses to listen to you then he is definitely not worth the hassle, so chuck him right away.
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hi,my penis is not streight and its allways one side like left side,i dont know,what to do, is thier any excersice to make streight and is thier any cure for that,please help me and tell me is that thing can creat any consicounsess.is it bad,?tell me
thanx (link)
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It is perfectly normal if you have a straight penis like a ruler or a curved penis like a banana. So don't worry! You are perfectly normal, it is perfectly natural to have a curved penis. Therefore you don't need to do any exercises (and I doubt any even exist) to make your penis straight - in fact if you do find some they might even harm you. So, be proud of what you have!
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Me and my boyfriend have just kissed, nothing else. We've been going out for a while, and I'm ready to try something more. How do I let him know that I'm ready, without really telling him straight out? (link)
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As the previous answer said, you could put you hand on his leg or inner thigh, or you could even go straight to unding his belt/unzipping his jeans.
But personally, I would talk to him about it first. Then you can establish how you both feel about it, and whether you are both ready. If he's not ready, then you will just have to wait until he is.
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What do you recommend a couple does after kissing? Like, do you think the next step should be the guy fingering the girl, or the girl giving the guy a handjob? (link)
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Not necessarily. Some couples go onto what some people call 'petting' which is the guy feeling the girls breasts, under or over clothes. He can also kiss or lick the girls nipples.
But most couples do go onto fingering and handjobs, then I would say oral sex would come next, then full sex.
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