My sister say they wish they hadnt lost there virginty why is that..?
Also, i was wondering wht do u have to do to be prepared for sex like wht do i have to do so hes not discusted or something like im not sexauly active but i want to know if i ever decide that im ready..?
Some people say they wish they didn't lose their virginity because its sacred its something that you can never get back and once you have sex for the first time the first person who you have sex with you will be emotionally attached to them because they were your first. As far as preparing for sex just beware of the consequences that come with sex, and be emotionally ready . as far as him being disgusted just make sure your clean, shave, and stay calm and relax if you tense up then it will hurt more.
kk hope i helped :)
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20female.
I need help with some dirty talk!
Whether its during sex or even just texting ..for some reason I can't think of anything new and exciting!
yourt nasty
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So my boyfriend and I have been together for three years now and we're completely bored with our sex life. I'm still in love with him and as is he, but we want something fresh in the relationship. Don't get us wrong, we still enjoy making love, but we just want to spice it up a little. Any suggestions?
experiment with new things try different sex positions or things like that oral annal etc maybe its boring because you guys arent making it fun trying calling him some sexy names lol
hope i helped (:
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i had sex for the first time and my cherry was popped.
he came but i didnt.
how do i make it so i can orgasm and enjoy sex?
i really didnt like it.
maybe you were to tense and scared just because it was your first time cause tht could b a reason. some girls actually dnt like having sex for various amout of reason maybe you should try it again and see how it goes but remember always be safe when it comes down to sex. my advice toy uo would to be jus lossen up and not be so tense the more relax you are then the more you will prbably have fun.. well i hope i help (:
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18, Female.
This is SO weird, but I'm not complaining :) Just curious.
I've only been fingered twice, nothing else has been in my vagina. Well I get wet really easily, and it's a lot. The first time I had sex, I was SO scared it was going to hurt and it didn't hurt ONE BIT, NOTHING. I was shocked, is this normal? I'm scared if I do it again or something it's going to hurt, but I don't know if it will since it didn't the first time??
And, the guy I had sex with didn't believe I was a virgin. Long story, no I don't regret having sex with him we're friends. But what I'm asking is ..is this a good or bad thing? He knew I was before, told him to be careful with me and he said he would but I know he still didn't believe me. After we had sex and were laying in bed, I said you took my virginity you know that? I was a virgin. He smiled and looked at me and said "No you weren't ;)"
I don't know if I was loose or something, or if I was just good at it? Haha I was wondering, why he still didn't think I was a virgin before I had sex with him. What do you guys think?
haha !
GREAT QUESTION!
okk well i am a virgin and my ex.. thought that i wasnt a virgin bt i am.. so one day i asked him i said why you dont think im a virign and he said because the way i look because i have curves and things like that... i was like right. bt idk why guys think that girls arent virgin when they really are. and maybe the first time when you had sex didnt hurt because your active. (NOT SEXAULLY ACTIVE) laugh out loud bt i mean like play play a sport or something because when you play a sport it is most likely that you wont feel any pain. and i mad that he didnt beleiev you when you told him that he took your viriginty shaking my head...guys are dumb. he probably thought you werent a virgin because for most girls it would usaually hurt and for you it didnt.
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Well me and my boyfriend yes the Jeff guy we started dating and well he is wanting to get "serious" and im cool with that as long as we dont have sex. I promised everyone, me and God also i would wait until i was married. But what do i do if he wants to have sex? FYI im 13 1/2 and hes 14. I dont think im old enough but all my friends do it but idk... I mean its okay to fool around and have some fun but i dont want him to take it farther than that. Its just too much for me to take in right now. I mean i "want" to have sex sooo badly but i dont want to break my promise, or my cherry....yet...... im in eight grade and all but i just reallyyyyy donntttt knooowwwww.............
listen i understand where you coming from bt you are TOO YOUNG to be thinking about sex.. yes now and days it may seem like every one is doing it but in realty there not. you have your whole life to have sex and remember it only takes one chance to get pregant you and your boyfriend dont no what sex is about yet. you can think about sex wehn your older and im glad that you have goals for yourself by promising to God that you wont have sex thats good ! i think you should keep your proimse to God. and i know that sometimes you might b tempted to have sex bt i dnt think yu should give in and jus end it right then and there. your in eighth grade you shouldnt b having sex and for all the friends you hang out that have sex im jus shaking my head because that is so sad. God has made us for marriage not to jus give all are things away dont you want to have sex with someone who you will b with for ever? i mean realisticly do you really think that you and this jeff guy will b together for ever? idk i jus hope i helped if you need anything else hit me up =]] !
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How can I tell my boyfriend i want to wait for his next birthday to have sex with him. He wants to lose his virginity now, but i want to wait 'till im a little older. How do i tell him without him getting mad or like being o.k. with me wanting to wait?
okk i can relate to you in this one.. i went out with a guy who all he wanted was sex sex sex and thats all he ever talked about.. i think that you and your boyfriend should have a serious conversation about this and just tell him how you feel tell him everything. and be honest dont hold things back and if he doesnt respect your decision then he's not worth it bt im pretty sure he will wait for you if he really cares for you a relationship isnt always about sex its about showing each other how much you care for each other and having a good time if he cant see that in you then he is missing out on a lot... i think it will wokr out for you tho i hope i helped youu =]] !
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If there wuz no way i could get birth control. Besides using a condom, how else could i become safe for sex?
there are other contrspetive there is no 100% way to prevent pregancy or an std beside not having sex at all bt you could get a shot thats called the depo shot and that lets you have sex with out having a condom every month bt you wouldnt be the sane cause you dont get your period and things like that bt idk and there are things like the before and after pill and other contrictives i hope i helped you =]]
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when you have sex for the first time but he didnt pop your cherry does it mean yor still a virgin ?
no you are not a virgin anymore... once you have sex (intercourse) you are no longer a virgin... when the penis enter the viginia it expands it and pops the "cherry"n and bamm you are no longer a virgin. hope this helpedd =]]
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OK so i recently had oral with my boyfriend. I had him tell me when he wuz going to sperm so i could stop doing oral and jack him off to let him sperm. I wuznt wearing underwear at the time. but my vagina wasnt really near his penis. Then he kinda felt his sperm when it wuz on his stomach. It wuz also on my hand. He picked up my underwear with the hand he felt the sperm with, but the sperm wuz hardening. Then I was going to put the underwear back on but I thought about it and didnt put it back on. After all that, we washed our hands and he washed his penis and etc. Later that night he fingered me. And to be truthful he wanted me to finger myself with him so i did. Do you know if you can get pregnant from getting fingered after my boyfriend ejaculated, but then washed his hands and stuff? I am always so very worried if i will get pregnant or not. Do you think im pregnant?
yess you can get pregeant that way bt what you did was good you washed your hands before you put your underwear on thats a good thing ! i think that next time when your giving oral you should keep your clothes on.. take them off later.. because you want to b precocious you dont want to have a baby at a very young age.. hope this helpedd =]]
NOO YOUR NOT PREGANT
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What would happen if my boyfriend wore 2 condoms instead of one? would that make it more safe? what exactly would happen?
noooo there is no 100% way to prevent a precancy or std.. wearing two condoms can actually be worst then just wearing one... the friction from the two condoms will rub against each other and cause them to rip/tare. i dont think that you should use to condoms if you want to b more safer maybe you should think about birth control bt still use a condom thats more safe hope i helped =]]]
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I have been fingered roughly many times before. 2-5 fingers to be exact. I wuz wondering if the vagina stretches the more times you get fingered roughly. Also, if you get fingered a lot, does that ease the pain when you have sex for the first time? like, people say it hurts a lot for the first time and yu bleed. I wuz wondering if there wuz anyway to prepare for sex to not make it hurt as bad to make it pleasurable when the penis goes in and comes out.
GREATT QUESTIOON!!
okk well when you have sex your very first time of course its ganna hurt maybe a lot or maybe even just a little bt either way its going to hurt because your vagina isnt stretched out yet. and a boy can tell if a girl is a virgin or not. and the whole bleeeding thing yes you will bleed bt not ALOT like when your on your period this jus means that he popped your "cherry" bt anyways the best thing that you can do is just make sure he gets you "wet" no homo and jus stay calm and relaxed just stay loose and dnt tighten up i think that what makes it hurts if a girl i scared they tend to tighten up and its unconfortable and acward ! hope this helpss =] !
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