The first time especially isn't usually all that enjoyable unless you're really comfortable with the person you're with and love them a whole lot. Otherwise it's sort of painful and uncomfortable and weird.
In order to orgasm during sex, you may need to involve your hands or toys during the act. If he gets you worked up beforehand as well, that may help.
iloveyoubabyy004 answered Monday October 4 2010, 3:33 pm: maybe you were to tense and scared just because it was your first time cause tht could b a reason. some girls actually dnt like having sex for various amout of reason maybe you should try it again and see how it goes but remember always be safe when it comes down to sex. my advice toy uo would to be jus lossen up and not be so tense the more relax you are then the more you will prbably have fun.. well i hope i help (: [ iloveyoubabyy004's advice column | Ask iloveyoubabyy004 A Question ]
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