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[additude]! But i love helpin people... thats mostly all i do. I feel so speacial when people ask me for help. Cuz i love makin people feel better about yourself. AND I SPEAK THE TRUTH. SOMETIMES TRUTH HURTS. buts its all good. Im really good at giving advice you should hit me up.


I dont care what people say youre the one that brings me so much joy when I look at your smiling eyes my heart wants to dance theres only you on my mind and I never want to leave your side it feels right so lets stay together Ill never feel alone again boy cause your love makes me feel so secure. 01-07-04


There will never come a day. You will ever hear me say, that I want or need to be without you. I want to give my all. Baby just hold me simply control me. Because your arms they keep away the lonelies. When I look into your eyes, then I realize, all I need is you in my life. Cuz I never felt this way about lovin. No. Never felt so good, baby Never felt this way about lovin
...It feels so good 01-07-04


E v e r y b o d y wants to know w h e r e Ive been, cause l i v i n g life the way I do seems to be a s i n . Oh but that stuff f o l l o w s me e v e r y w h e r e I go. Get out of here cause shit is out of c o n t r o l and dont come too close to cause; you n e v e r know what I would do if you d i s r e s p e c t me.

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Hey, I'm 21 years old and female. I have a problem. My boyfriend of 4 years (5 October 3rd!) and I havent had sex yet. He is really not that kindof guy to ask for sex or anything. He's really patient and all we have do is makeout. We were best friends for 2 years before going out and he really respects me. I am ready to lose my virginity to him, because after 5 years of going out shouldent it be time to have some fun? lol I have been on birth control for 2 months just incase when I do ask him if he wants to have sex, he will say yes. I want to tell him I want to lose it on our anniversary but I'm really scared because how am I gonna start the conversation of sex? And since he really respects me and cares for me I think he wouldent want to. But I'm not 16 anymore, I'm a woman and I want to do this. I love him a lot and I just dont know how to ask if he wants to do this! We are talking about marriage so should we just wait till were married? Help!


hey.. gurlll you should just go for it!
when yall are together for your 5 year..
just start kissin him and stuff and then
just go for it... tell him your ready...
hope i helped xpx nicicole

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OK, today my private started to hurt really bad. and i looked at it and it started to bleed. I dont have mi period and i know its not that because the sides were bleedin. I dont know what to do! sumone plz help me. PLZ ILL RATE U A FIVE EVEN IF U SAY "BLAH".

plz help thanx


well it could be bleeding because .....if you had sex well maybe the guy was to big........and it took awhile to make it go in.....and when he was moving he was doing it to hard. hope i helped - nicicole

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Im nearly 16 and i have a small penis and im a bit worried. what is the average size?
And is there any way to make it bigger?


hey ..
well some ways to make it bigger is by .. taking vigaeria [ spelling ] , excerzing with it.
The average size is 11inches...
Whats yours ?
but the thing is guys grow different ways.. you could still be goin thro puberty..
i hope i helped.. / nicicole

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okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..

but heres my question..

I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate..


aww ive been thro all that .. i know exactly how you feel.. you should just follow your heart.. and just tone those gurls out.. and if you both love eacother as much as you say you do then whats the problem youll deff make it thro.. just keep your head up.. and if your gunna be seeing him then its all good.. you both trust eachother and communicate.. and thats the most important thing in a relationship and you too have it.. fate brought yall together.. just work it out.. and for get about the catsz that are hatin on you.. hope i helped / missxundaxzt00d /

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hey i know that this ? has nothin to do with sex but does anyone know how to get music on there xanga website cuz i have no clue? thanks

www.music.xanga.com

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Does anyone know a site where I can ask a question on sex. I believe my question would be too graphic for this site because of how young most of the people here seem to be. :\ Or maybe a girl that would be old enough to answer my question (im 16)

you can ask me
missxundaxzt00d - nicicole

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how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy!

and so here comes your serious answer...
the answer is simple; you do what you feel is right. What ever you feel comfortable with thats how far you go. People sometimes say that there gunna wait until there married because they think that, that is the most general answer. But theres to different answers to this... if your askin about how far to go with a serious relationship or just a realationship perido then, thats something you might wanna think about. cuz for that you gotta see if you have sex with your boyfriend that he wont change or break up with you; and if he really loves you then he wont. But if your singel and your just tryin to have fun.. then go ahead and do what ever ya want to the kid [ thats how i am] cuz if ya singel no one can say anything to you about you messin around . But for me ive been goin out with my boyfriend for eight months. and we now just started to have sex. and yes in the beginning i was scared but now im not cuz i know that he loves me and wouldnt do that. but really you should follow your heart. i hope i helped you - nicicole

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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?

well then every you only do it with guys that you are comfortable with not with everyone. anf if you called a slut then you should tell them to lay off ya dic*. but its all your desion.
-nicicole

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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?

well if you really do love your boyfriend; then go ahead and tell him that your not ready for sex. But if i was you i would break up with him because if thats the only thing he thinkin about then its not worth. cuz to me it just sounds like he wants to have sex and then be done.
- nicicole

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