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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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what are some things I can do to make a guy go crazy and really turn him on? I know all guys like their own things or have their own "fetish" but just anything you can throw out there would be appreciated!
I think it's pretty obvious. Guys are guys and anything can turn them on if they find themselves attracted to the girl. And to make him go crazy? While making out "accidentally" brush your hand on his thigh. Do it every now and then and keep moving up when you do.
19.f
20 f.
When me and this guy had sex for the first time, we didn't really do that much foreplay. When he came to my house, I met him in the entry way -gave him a hug, he picked me up and we started making out. Then I led him to my room, we layed on the bed started making out again ..he took my clothes off, fingered me for like 2min and then we had sex.
Some people say guys need foreplay to get hard before sex. Why didn't he need a lot of foreplay? I get wet really easily so I rarely need foreplay. Was it because he was just really turned on by me? I'd like to think I turned him on that fast haha or was it just him being lucky and not needing a lot of foreplay?
Just kinda curious.
It totally depends on the person. Doesn't matter if it's male or female. We all react differently to sexual activity.
You guys must have good chemistry. Think of it as a good thing. :]
19/f.
my breast hurt but I THINK ITS MY PIOR THAT IS COMING OR THAT im prenget
I'm assuming you mean period.
the only way to know is to go to a drug store and take a test.
other wise, unanswered questions unless you do get your period.
What are some things to do to a guy while you're making out/being fingered? I feel like its harder to to something when i'm laying on top of him because when he's on top of me i'll run my hands through his hair or touch is body but thats all i can think of. Its hard when hes kissing my all over and fingering me I feel like I can't really move.
Can someone please give me some advice? :)
When you're making out, just take your hand and move down towards "there'. And just play and tease like that for a bit. Eventually make your way and just stroke his area with your hand.
19/f.
I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?
No one can tell you when you should have sex. It's up to you. If you feel secure and ready enough to take that step, go ahead and take it. It's your choice. Just be responsible about it. Make sure you're safe.
female btw :)
Right basically, I have a boyfriend who I'm in love with. Hes more experienced than me though and we have had sex, and I've been fingered.
The thing is, I really wanna return the favour (hand job) because he sometimes asks and I know sometimes I lead him on teasing him e.g getting him hard and then just leaving it. I'm just a bit nervous in case i do it wrong :'(
but hes a really nice guy seriously and he doesn't pressure me I would just love to treat him every now and then I just am not very practised and dont want to do it wrong :(
HELP!
Like the person below me said, pleasing guys isn't nearly as hard as pleasing girls. Ask him what he likes. Ask him to guide you. You'll get the hang out it.
Hey so i am 16 f and me and this guy from my school that i know welll are kinda planning to hookup. he asked me if he could finger me and do stuff to me. and then asked if i would do stuff to him. Well anyways it would be my first time doing anything!! so he weeks saying .... in a week. and im just not sure what to do really cause i get my period that week, and so im just gonna be like i got my period today. but still i wanna do something with him. What should i do and please dont say to young or something cause i raelly wanna try something fun. not necessarliy just bj and hj and fing. and eat. But don worry i am NOT going all the way. haha! anyways just i would like some advice.
Do you have feelings for this guy? Any sort of emotional connection of some sort? If yes I must advise you to STAY AWAY. I've been there, giving into something sexual thinking it would solve something, but you'll only be hurt.
Those are just my two cents.
As for doing something else with him, try sticking to the basics first. If you've never done anything before, you don't want to get to ahead of yourself. It'll help.
honestly, if a guys feeling you up, what would he think if your boobs are two different sizes. for me, ones like a small A and the other is a B . i know he should only care about your personality blahblahblah but i was just wondering the real truth about whether hell be freaked out or not, thanks!
Honestly, he probably won't even notice. Most guys are just happy to be feeling them to notice that they're different sizes (most girls do have two different sizes, it's not as noticeable as you might think).
I had sex with my boyfriend last night around 6 o clock, I just realized I started ovulating Wednesday, and it was Thrusday that we had sex, before we did, I had given him oral and he ejaculated, then he went to the bathroom, and it was an hour and a half to two hours later that we had un protected sex for about 2 minutes. What are my chances of getting pregnant? I am thinking about taking the Plan B pill tommorow around 12 in the afternoon, will I be okay? Please help me..
There's always a possibility you could become pregnant. Take Plan B and don't stress about it. You'll be fine.
I suggest going on birth control. If you don't want your parents to find out, go to planned parenthood. All you need is a donation of $15 - $20. Call before you go. Birth Control is the best way to prevent this from happening again. you can never be too careful.
im 18 and my girlfriend and i have just started having sex we were both virgins and i have trouble keeping an erection i only last a few minutes its really embarrassing also takes awhile to get an erection is there something wrong? what can i do?
foreplay.
keeps the tension strong.
18/male and ive been with my girlfriend for alomost 6 months she my first girlfriend and well ive got a really small penis im really embarrassed about it the other day we were making out and she started to undo my pants and started to take them off i got nervous and i had to stop
im nervous about her seeing my penis im nervous about talking to her about it she wont get put off will she? can i even please a girl?
she's probably not even going to care. you've ben with her for 6 months - she's not going to dump/make fun of you because you have a small penis.
and if she's a virgin it will make the first time hurt less.
just don't worry about it. she'll except it the way you are.
my boyfriend fingered me for the first time, and it kind of hurt. he wasn't doing it too hard or anything, he was being gentle and stuff, but is it normal for it to hurt?
yeah, its normal.
just give it time, it won't hurts so bad after a few times.
Me and my boyfriend had a romantic evening last night. Didnt have sex but he cummed on my tummy and breasts, sounds stupid i know, but im scared it might have found its way south... really dont want to be pregnant
do you think i should find a morning after pill to take, or am i just being paranoid?
if you had jeans or even just underwear you'll really be just fine. even if you weren't there's nothing to worry about. relax, this happens to almost every girl who has a boyfriend. take the pill if you must, but you would really feel the cum going to your vagina.
im 17 male my girlfriend and i have been together for 9 months weve been talking about having sex for awhile now we are both virgins weve been taking it slowly im still nervous about it im not that well endowed am i worried im wont be any good i dont want it to be bad first time what can i do? can you please a girl with a small penis?
Well, of course you can. Just because you're smaller doesn't mean you can't please her.
I suggest putting a pillow underneath her, it'll help make it go deeper.
My Original question:
Help! I am 2 weeks late on my period.
I am never regular (and usually late) but this time especially, I am freaking out. I have not had sex since October, but I have done other things (in a safe manner) since my last period involving male body fluids. I am not on birth control.
In October, I had 2 periods and it was really weird. In November, I was on my period from around the 19th to the 24th. December has been super stressful for me because I have had college midterms and I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has cheated on me and I broke up with him.
Do you think I could be pregnant? Or what the chances are of becoming pregnant without having sex? I can't think of any reasons I could be pregnant. No fluids ever went inside of me.
Do you think it could have to do with doubling up on my period in October? Or the stress?
Exactly 1 year ago I had the same problem and skipped my December period all together.
I don't know what to think anymore and I'm very scared.
UPDATED*****:
It's been about 3 weeks now and a few days ago I started getting this dark red/brown discharge. It looks like old blood. It's been a lot by now and still going and this has happened before. Do you think I am okay when it comes to being worried about being pregnant? Is this a sign that I'm not pregnant? I don't really know what this is.
I've gotten the brown/red discharge type thing instead of a period before.
it sounds like its normal. not pregnant - just stressed out.
17/f
me and my boyfriend just had sex about one hour ago, and apparently afterwards he told me right away to rinse because he wasn't sure if the streak on his balls were his or mine so he told me to rinse right away. the thing is, i was quite confused a bit because usually the streak on his balls he usually says that it was my cum, and it happens everytime we have sex and i wasn't pregnant from it. the streak on his balls looked like the usual thing, my cum. it's always on his balls. and the thing is it wasn't around my vagina, it was around my butt hole.. he says it was "perfectly organized" around my butt hole, and nothing else was near my vagina. which again, i thought it was normal because after we have sex i usually have white stuff around my butt hole. but he didn't know that cause i didn't want to tell him now and then i stick my finger on my butthole to see what's making it feel really weird and it's white. after i said that, he was alot more sure that it was my cum instead of his. but we're still being careful about it, and he's getting plan b just in case. i took plan b before, about 4 months ago. so my question is... if i took plan b for the first time 4 months ago, would it still work as it did before? what's your opinion on this? we're hoping that we're just overreacting on this. and his mom mentioned something about a condom and a sponge for protection.. what's a sponge?
what i would suggest is going down to planned parenthood and getting plan b (morning after pill) asap. while you're there, get on birth control. as long as you're under 18, you can get it for free (well, a donation, but under $20). even better if you have insurance. you don't have to let your parents know - just ask your boyfriend if he can take you.
18/f
so lots of people have said i have cummed (squirted), but im not sure if i really have.. how do you know if you have? how can you tell? i'm a girl, and so i don't really know if i REALLY have cum. please feel free to give me some personal experiences so i can hopefully relate.
thanks..
girls don't have cum
but they produce a similar liquid.
and it happens when you have an orgasm.
I am 16, I turn 17 this summer(August) and my boyfriend is 19, he turns 20 in october. We live in New York, is it legal for us to have sex?
Not saying i'm going to, just would like to know.
this is why new hampshire is beautiful.
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Okay so I've had sex with girls(if that's what you want to call it), but now I'm going to have sex with a guy for the first time. My friends told me that their first time it wouldn't go in and it hurt really bad. Is it going to be extremely hard and painful for me?
To add onto the person below me:
if your a girl - i doubt it will hurt that much. Since you've already had experience, the tightness most girls have is most likely gone.
if your a guy - well, i'm pretty sure it would still hurt.