My name is Laura, I am 16 years old. Although i may still be young, i have a lot of incite and don't be shy because It's very hard to make me uncomfortable. I find that painful experiences make you stronger, but It's still good to get reassurence of this. I sincerely hope that you enjoy my site and shower me with questions
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Age: 16
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Ok, it's not like you think well maybe it is we really haven't gone on a date for a really long time and we did a few weeks ago, still no sex. I devote plenty of time to the relationship, still no sex. He did become abusive again a few months ago but I'm over it and have forgiven him. I guess I should have left then or something. Even when we do have sex which has now dwendled down to less than one time a week, I do not feel sexual if that makes sense. Before I enjoyed it, now it's like I'm going through the motions. Any suggestions? (link)
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The only thing you can do is dump him. Simple.
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im a 16 yearold girl and i know this may sound really dumb, but can you get pregnant from masturbating? i know it sounds crazy but i just want to know if there is anyway possible. im not an idiot, im just having pregnancy like symptons, and the only thing ive done is masturbate. so im just a little confused. thanks in advance. (link)
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A big fat blatant NO NO NO
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My boyfriend and i have been together for 4years and have been haveing sex since July 08,(hes my first) And have been haveing sex with no protection sice Novermber or December 08. He just pulls out. We have a great relation ship. And wouldnt mind having a baby if it comes to us but i dont think its the time. Anyways I thought the pull out method didnt work! is he just really really good at it or is there something wrong with one of us. or are we just not doing it enough. We usally do it once or twice a week. (link)
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you are probably just VERY VERY lucky!!
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A friend and I had sex tonight. this was definitely not the first time and the other times have been great. and he has acted pretty cool after and things weren't awkward by any means. so tonight, i was on my period. we still had sex but he didn't know i was on it. i probably should have told him i know. anyways, i'm not sure how much blood or whatever was on the condom. and i have a feeling when he went to throw it away he saw the blood on it. he hasn't said anything about it and when he came back into the room he was just kinda.. weird, not how he would normally act. but yeah needless to say it's very embarrassing. I don't think he will want to talk to me again after this.. would you confront a girl about this or not say anything? and if he does end up talking to me, should i say anything about it? i'm afraid he will tell his friends that's a reason it's embarrassing. (link)
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he probably didn't want to embarrass you so he didn't say anything, but a lot of guys aren't comfortable having sex on the period, so next time let him know beforehand.
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My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 16, we have been dating for a while.. I am more sexual than he is believe it or not. I have never met a guy quite like him.. he has only has sex with one other girl besides me they has sex twice.. me and him have only has sex 1 time and it was for only like 5 seconds.. he didn't cum or anything. He doesn't want to have sex i don't know what it is.. i named somethings to him like have had bad experiences or worried bout having bad experiences.. worried bout gettin me pregnant.. self conscious.. jus not attracted to me.. worried about stds.. all this stuff and he said that it isn't any of that... what do you think it could possibly be? (link)
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it's because he's afraid that you're going to get him into legal trouble.
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my bf told me that a girl can "squirt"/"cum" when an orgasm is really good/powerful? he says he wants to make me "squirt". is this possible? and isn't that kind of like a guy..... (link)
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it can happen, but it's not as common. usually for girls an orgasm is just muscle contractions, which feels just as good if not sometimes better. you're not going to "squirt" if you try too hard so you're going to have to have the right mindset to do it.
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I am a guy who likes to be spanked I also seem to like girls to tell me what to do and i seem tro like it even if its humiliating things they make me do i sem to like it even more . Im not sure why i like these things can u think of why this would turm me on (link)
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submission is sexy, and almost always a good thing. but try to take control every once in awhile, women like an a balance of both.
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i thought that if u have sex on your perioud then you cant get pregnet it just feals nasty what do you think? (link)
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that's wrong, you CAN get pregnant. use a condom every time, unless you're on a stronger form of bc, even then its still a good idea.
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okay, so I know that I have a septate hymen, which is kind of like a little band of skin I guess...(okay I know more about it than that but I'm generalizing (: )Anyway, I know you can have it surgically removed, but I really don't want anyone to do anything to that region of my body unless it's life-threatening. I've been looking this issue up a lot lately (ever since I've been having sex-technically-with my boyfriend and he noticed and pulled on it and got me thinking it prolly wasn't normal). I've heard it hurts a lot and bleeds some to get it cut, but if I leave it alone it could snap during sex? Is there any way I could leave it alone without anything bad happening? If it stretches, could I just push it to the side before having sex?
thanks for any help! (link)
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i had the same thing that you did. for me, it hurt to even wear a tampon ( actually, they would get stuck). i strongly suggest that you go to the gyno and get it surgically removed. all they will do is numb you, snip it, and tie it so it doesnt bleed, and it didn't take long at all to heal. you can still swim after the surgery and everything. your sex life will be 1000x better, and ill bet you'll feel soo much better if you do it, it's worth it. good luck.
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i'm really irregular like the last time i got my period was two summers ago so tht means im not like ovulating so i cant get preg can i? (link)
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OH MY GOD NO, you can absolutely still get pregnant if you're having unprotected sex. sometime you might just not bleed it doesn't mean you're necessarily not ovulating. go to the doctor .
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I was wondering for the first time what kind of condom feels the best for the girl? I was thinking like a regular one instead of a ribbed one since its the first time? But can a for her pleasure one feel good the first time?
and i just have a couple questions to sum everything up.
1.what condom makes it feel the best for the girl?
2.do the for her pleasure ones have to go on a certain way to make it feel better?
3.can you buy the for her pleasure ones in a 3 pack? i only saw them in like a 6 pack.
4.what kind is best for the 1st time? .. would for her pleasure regular or for her pleasure heating solutions be better?
ps how hot do the heating ones get?
thanks =]
srry so many questions =[ (link)
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i doubt that it will matter to her the first time, it just feels strange good but not orgasm good. just get one with lubrication. by the way, when a girl lays down it will close up her vagina a little more, so i suggest her being on top, it will let her control how fast you go and will hurt less. good luck.
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ok so is it possible for a mom's egg and a dad's sperm in a test tube (or wherever) to be put into another woman. or anything similar to this? thanks (link)
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yes, it's called a surrogate mother!
Surrogacy is an arrangement whereby a woman agrees to become pregnant for the purpose of gestating and giving birth to a child for others to raise. She may be the child's genetic mother or not, depending on the type of arrangement agreed to.
The word surrogate, from Latin surrogatus (substituted), means appointed to act in the place of.
A surrogate mother is a woman who carries a child for a couple or single person with the intention of giving that child to that person/people once the child is born (also called surrogate pregnancy). The surrogate mother may be the baby's biological mother (traditional surrogacy) or she may be implanted with someone else's fertilized egg (gestational surrogacy).
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can someone explain to me what a 'dental dam' is?
i heard these guys at school talking about it and then another guy was like "what's that" and everyone started laughing...
but i have NO CLUE what it is! (link)
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its basically like a condom type thing for a girl, its like plastic wrap that is used when a girl is receiving oral sex
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ok im almost 17 and last night i had sex with no condom i live in Albany Oregon do any one have any tips on how long to wait to take a home test, any free clinics, and any other things.
please help me and my boyfriend need ur help.
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why dont you go the the clinique and get the morning after pill ??
oh and good news, i heard that soon theyre gona be out in drug stores, so then it wont be a pain in the ass, seriously though, dont wait until its too late
good luck
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I had sex with this boy
and oral and he fingered me, and the whole 9 yards.
But he used me for all of it,and I know it.
But the thing is, he had the chance to do it with either me OR my friend [becuase of the situation]
and he used to call me all the time
and talk to me online all the time
so it wasnt just a one night stand.
But he would continue to want to do it , and he even said to me " We are like sex partners" or something along those lines.
So whats the deal here?
Do you think he atleast thought I was pretty? Or what?
And yes i know it was a stupid mistake, theres nothing i can do about it now.
helP! (link)
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well he must have been attracted to you
but yeah guys really dont give a shit about us these days, just be careful in the futre and please dont be stupid !!!!dont be rude to him but just keep your distance, thats the best i can think of
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what is it? my friends talk about them and i'm totally lost (link)
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basically it's slang for when a guy's dick is short and fat
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Me and my girlfriend want to have sex but she hasn't really had a penis inside of her. Other than it bleeding, is there any way people would notice that she did it? (link)
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haha unless shes sure and walks funny, nope ! have fun =D
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i was wearing clothes
when i lost my virginity
his penis went in my vagina though.[[[he moved my underwear out of the way]]]]
but only for 5 minutes
did i still loose my virginity?
stupid question
yes i know. (link)
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everyone has there own outlook on virginity, but i would say so, yes
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is it true tht fertility runs in the family? for example..my mom popped out 3 kids unexpectedly (not planned lol)..does this mean i am naturally fertile too? (link)
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uhmmm. most people are born fertile whether their parents had kids or not?
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I live in baltimore and im mostly jealous of half of the girls at my school. Most of them dress better then me, look better then me, get my boys then I do, and all around have a better life then me. People always tease me about not looking right...or not dressing GOOD ENOUGH for their like. I tried killing myself...it didnt work, i just feel unloved and unwanted. Sometimes i wished i could just be them...and live the live they live there just perfect as hell! I started prosituting to feel wanted by boys...and for a while it was good and after some time after people starting finding out and calling me a hoe I guess i found out what's wrong with it. But, still now i love attention from anyone and i love making people laugh. and i HATE everything about myself...i feel ugly. I never feel pretty and people always tell me im ugly or what's wrong with me and i always think about it and then it sticks to me...and i hate myself more and more. People tell me dont care what people say but its hard, when your in my shoes. Everyone is just living this good life...and noone understands how i feel...and the boy that i like the most wont go with me but he would go with this other girl. (I guess she's better then me too.) Please someone help me! I dont want to feel this way anymore. (link)
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girl dont let them bitches get you down... ive been called a hoe too many times to count... i know how it feels. they dont know you... and theyre talking cuz they have nothing better to do... really, babe, these peoples' lives arent as great as u think, and i can guarantie it. you dont know what happens behind closed doors. and they dont now either, so they shouldnt talk. but you cant do anything about that except be yourself and youll find your place soon enough
about the prostitution... youre not a bad person... its simply what you needed to to, but hopefully you learned, and those guys dont give a rats ass about you... but im sure you have people that do. just stick by them and if you need anything IM me at Mzzweiner
much love
laura ♥
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